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 Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 7:38 pm
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Digital Fiend I remember watching a documentary once on incestuous relationships. The majority that was being followed were people that had been separated and met later on in life. It is pretty common.
And sad. I kept thinking "why can't people just leave them alone, it's not like they wanted to be in love with someone like that".
I feel for you two, it's going to be rough, being in an unconventional relationship. I haven't been reading a lot of the comments been made, but you're both willing to continue this relationship? Have you guys thought about moving away from family ties when you get a chance, like a goal? Or are you simply going to keep it a secret until you decide if you want to make it more serious?
We've decided to keep it a secret for now, since we don't really know where this is going. We've known each other for less than a year, but I've dated guys I've known for less time and it went OK. Also, we've really only been a (secret) couple for about a month now, so we don't know whether this love will be strong enough to last until we can run away - or even if we'll want to.
In all honesty, I wish I could just get away from everyone else I'm related to, and it has nothing to do with Nick. I'm just tired of these people. Going off with him would be an added bonus right now, but we need to see if it's going to last. |
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Posted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 7:49 pm
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2012 3:59 am
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2012 10:10 am
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2012 10:13 am
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2012 10:48 am
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2012 2:43 pm
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Gigi Deveraux Nick is away until next weekend, visiting his mom. That's a good thing. I've always heard that you know how a man will treat you by the way he treats his mother, and I'd love to meet her... only I don't think she'd take very well to us being together. I could be wrong. I've had nothing but support from the members of this forum, and that's made it easier for me. (Thanks girls! emotion_hug love to you all heart ) Part of me is afraid that the time away will lead him to rethink everything. Another part of me is trying to reconcile our relationship with both our realities. Still another (the smallest!) part of me hopes he does break it off, so I can just blame him for how much it'll hurt. The rest of me... most of me... simply loves him. I want to dance for joy under the drizzling rain. I want to rage at the heavens for dropping me into this hell. I want to snuggle up in his arms and feel safe and loved. I want to kick his sorry a** into next Tuesday just for existing. My brother; my lover; my very best friend. All that rolled into one sweet, sexy, funny, infuriating, contradictory package. It's all very confusing.
the last three paragraphs sound like the part of a story people put on the back covers of books. XD
and i hope things work out for you two!
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2012 3:53 pm
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Posted: Fri Jul 20, 2012 4:14 pm
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Gigi Deveraux Dancehall Hysteria the last three paragraphs sound like the part of a story people put on the back covers of books. XD
and i hope things work out for you two!
Wow... emotion_kirakira that's the biggest compliment on my writing anyone's ever given me. emotion_bigheart Thank you! Thanks. When I take a step back and try to look at it objectively (riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight!) it's just... so weird. emotion_facepalm I mean, why him? Why me? Why us? On the other hand... why not us? Maybe we're paying for some karmic screw-up we committed during, I don't know, World War II? On the Titanic? The 5th century BC? Some time during the Ice Age? Or maybe nothing has anything to do with it and it just happened to happen to us?
you're welcome! ^^
eh. i don't think it's that weird, actually. i mean, people claim they fall in love with animals. it's certainly a smidge of an "oh, wasn't expecting that," but it's certainly not odd. well, to me anyways.
XD maybe, but then again maybe not. and maybe it just happened is completely plausible too.
i think we're at that crossing- over stage in society where people are becoming more and more open about things and things are becoming more generally accepted, but at the same time we're gonna shun anything that we think isn't "normal."
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Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2012 2:10 am
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Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2012 11:55 am
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Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2012 3:43 pm
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Gigi Deveraux Dancehall Hysteria the last three paragraphs sound like the part of a story people put on the back covers of books. XD
and i hope things work out for you two!
Wow... emotion_kirakira that's the biggest compliment on my writing anyone's ever given me. emotion_bigheart Thank you! Thanks. When I take a step back and try to look at it objectively (riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight!) it's just... so weird. emotion_facepalm I mean, why him? Why me? Why us? On the other hand... why not us? Maybe we're paying for some karmic screw-up we committed during, I don't know, World War II? On the Titanic? The 5th century BC? Some time during the Ice Age? Or maybe nothing has anything to do with it and it just happened to happen to us?
Hmm... karmic screw up? I've read a lot about karma and reincarnation and I doubt its because of karma...
My accepted view (and I've read tons of books by different people who all basically say the same thing) is... we are all here on earth to learn a lesson...every time we don't learn that lesson and we reincarnate with the same lesson life gets harder so we basically force hardships on ourselves to learn. Once we've learned said lesson we take a break from reincarnating and focus on what we need our next lesson to be... could be a short break, could be a long break...either way it works...then we come back...
The theory is that most or all souls travel together at one point or another...someone we know in this life is someone we most likely knew in a past life though not necessarily in the same role... Nick could have been your lover in a past life but he wound up reincarnating as your half-brother this time around.
The book I read gave an example of a woman who had a sister and they didn't get along. Long story short the sister was married to the woman's love interest in a past life but did not love him...she was just angry and selfish because someone else loved him. This anger transfered over to their next lives and made their new roles difficult...probably as part of their lessons....
Once we finish all our lessons we ascend to a higher plane of existence and become one with the all...call it what you will... God, Goddess, etc etc...
This is what I believe that doesn't mean you have to I was just giving you a possible hypothesis behind what may have caused this aside from karma. |
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Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2012 4:02 pm
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RainbowPop26 Gigi Deveraux Dancehall Hysteria the last three paragraphs sound like the part of a story people put on the back covers of books. XD
and i hope things work out for you two!
Wow... emotion_kirakira that's the biggest compliment on my writing anyone's ever given me. emotion_bigheart Thank you! Thanks. When I take a step back and try to look at it objectively (riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight!) it's just... so weird.  facepalm I mean, why him? Why me? Why us? On the other hand... why not us? Maybe we're paying for some karmic screw-up we committed during, I don't know, World War II? On the Titanic? The 5th century BC? Some time during the Ice Age? Or maybe nothing has anything to do with it and it just happened to happen to us? Hmm... karmic screw up? I've read a lot about karma and reincarnation and I doubt its because of karma... My accepted view (and I've read tons of books by different people who all basically say the same thing) is... we are all here on earth to learn a lesson...every time we don't learn that lesson and we reincarnate with the same lesson life gets harder so we basically force hardships on ourselves to learn. Once we've learned said lesson we take a break from reincarnating and focus on what we need our next lesson to be... could be a short break, could be a long break...either way it works...then we come back... The theory is that most or all souls travel together at one point or another...someone we know in this life is someone we most likely knew in a past life though not necessarily in the same role... Nick could have been your lover in a past life but he wound up reincarnating as your half-brother this time around. The book I read gave an example of a woman who had a sister and they didn't get along. Long story short the sister was married to the woman's love interest in a past life but did not love him...she was just angry and selfish because someone else loved him. This anger transfered over to their next lives and made their new roles difficult...probably as part of their lessons.... Once we finish all our lessons we ascend to a higher plane of existence and become one with the all...call it what you will... God, Goddess, etc etc... This is what I believe that doesn't mean you have to I was just giving you a possible hypothesis behind what may have caused this aside from karma.
So it's just our shitty luck we're related? Eh. I can live with that. |
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Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2012 4:31 pm
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Gigi Deveraux RainbowPop26 Gigi Deveraux Dancehall Hysteria the last three paragraphs sound like the part of a story people put on the back covers of books. XD
and i hope things work out for you two!
Wow... emotion_kirakira that's the biggest compliment on my writing anyone's ever given me. emotion_bigheart Thank you! Thanks. When I take a step back and try to look at it objectively (riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight!) it's just... so weird. facepalm I mean, why him? Why me? Why us? On the other hand... why not us? Maybe we're paying for some karmic screw-up we committed during, I don't know, World War II? On the Titanic? The 5th century BC? Some time during the Ice Age? Or maybe nothing has anything to do with it and it just happened to happen to us? Hmm... karmic screw up? I've read a lot about karma and reincarnation and I doubt its because of karma... My accepted view (and I've read tons of books by different people who all basically say the same thing) is... we are all here on earth to learn a lesson...every time we don't learn that lesson and we reincarnate with the same lesson life gets harder so we basically force hardships on ourselves to learn. Once we've learned said lesson we take a break from reincarnating and focus on what we need our next lesson to be... could be a short break, could be a long break...either way it works...then we come back... The theory is that most or all souls travel together at one point or another...someone we know in this life is someone we most likely knew in a past life though not necessarily in the same role... Nick could have been your lover in a past life but he wound up reincarnating as your half-brother this time around. The book I read gave an example of a woman who had a sister and they didn't get along. Long story short the sister was married to the woman's love interest in a past life but did not love him...she was just angry and selfish because someone else loved him. This anger transfered over to their next lives and made their new roles difficult...probably as part of their lessons.... Once we finish all our lessons we ascend to a higher plane of existence and become one with the all...call it what you will... God, Goddess, etc etc... This is what I believe that doesn't mean you have to I was just giving you a possible hypothesis behind what may have caused this aside from karma. So it's just our shitty luck we're related? Eh. I can live with that.
Either that or you chose it for yourselves to make your bond stronger... o.O *shrug* |
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Posted: Sun Jul 22, 2012 8:25 am
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