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Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2014 10:47 pm
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Nikia Hi! I don't think pregnancy is gross, it's cute that you do. Overall, why don't you like babies? Diapers serve a purpose for both the young and the old; without it, talk about what a scary chore that would be! Have you ever planted/tend to a garden(flower/vegetable/fruit)? You have an interesting view on the stages of love surprised . Around the timing of stage 3 through 4, I think of the notion of tolerating the bad & the ugly. If you start to tolerate a flaw to the point of not addressing it in a civil and just way...what happens? Would you still move on to stage 5 or would one go through the stages 2 through 4 again or would there be a need to add a stage of communicating the compromise of the flaw(s) so both can thrive as a couple ?! Cognitive Behavior Therapy sounds involved heart And I am glad to hear you are aware of why you attend these meetings (esp. with no time limit). xd What is up with the title of this thread? I must admit, I was drawn to this thread because of it. However, Unicorns don't exist --now--...and there is no proof/evidence of the color of Unicorn feces ALSO colorful is not usually how sadness is described. So do tell what inspired you. . .?
Seriously, I shudder at the thought of being pregnant. Some people aren't meant to have the babies. Also, I simply don't like squalling infants. Toddlers are adorable, though.
I have a balcony garden. My tomatoes have set fruit! biggrin
Stage 4 is simply admitting that nobody is perfect, and if the other person can and is willing to put up with us, we should (in theory) be able and willing to put up with their quirks and weaknesses, too. It's not always possible, of course, but if you can make it to that stage, that's a pretty solid relationship.
CBT isn't about digging to find the root causes of your problems, unless you stumble upon them while talking with the therapist. It's more like a long-term workshop to learn to change ones own behaviors and attitudes toward things we can't change.
You really need me to explain the symbolism?
Well, there's that old joke that unicorns (among other mythical creatures) fart rainbows. Ergo, their poop is probably multicolored, too. It's still poop.
Also, I may feel sad right now, but this whole debacle has been a long time coming. I'm a generally content person, and tend to be an optimist. Things will get better.
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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2014 2:49 pm
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La Belle Gigi Nikia Hi! I don't think pregnancy is gross, it's cute that you do. Overall, why don't you like babies? Diapers serve a purpose for both the young and the old; without it, talk about what a scary chore that would be! Have you ever planted/tend to a garden(flower/vegetable/fruit)? You have an interesting view on the stages of love surprised . Around the timing of stage 3 through 4, I think of the notion of tolerating the bad & the ugly. If you start to tolerate a flaw to the point of not addressing it in a civil and just way...what happens? Would you still move on to stage 5 or would one go through the stages 2 through 4 again or would there be a need to add a stage of communicating the compromise of the flaw(s) so both can thrive as a couple ?! Cognitive Behavior Therapy sounds involved heart And I am glad to hear you are aware of why you attend these meetings (esp. with no time limit). xd What is up with the title of this thread? I must admit, I was drawn to this thread because of it. However, Unicorns don't exist --now--...and there is no proof/evidence of the color of Unicorn feces ALSO colorful is not usually how sadness is described. So do tell what inspired you. . .? Seriously, I shudder at the thought of being pregnant. Some people aren't meant to have the babies. Also, I simply don't like squalling infants. Toddlers are adorable, though. I have a balcony garden. My tomatoes have set fruit! biggrin Stage 4 is simply admitting that nobody is perfect, and if the other person can and is willing to put up with us, we should (in theory) be able and willing to put up with their quirks and weaknesses, too. It's not always possible, of course, but if you can make it to that stage, that's a pretty solid relationship. CBT isn't about digging to find the root causes of your problems, unless you stumble upon them while talking with the therapist. It's more like a long-term workshop to learn to change ones own behaviors and attitudes toward things we can't change. You really need me to explain the symbolism? Well, there's that old joke that unicorns (among other mythical creatures) fart rainbows. Ergo, their poop is probably multicolored, too. It's still poop. Also, I may feel sad right now, but this whole debacle has been a long time coming. I'm a generally content person, and tend to be an optimist. Things will get better.
Hey, I enjoyed the chat. And I surely don't want to rain on your parade by asking more questions or placing my thoughts in the sphere of your well being... ah, cheerio!
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Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 7:45 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 09, 2014 8:15 pm
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The_9th_Doctors_Rose Crew
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Posted: Fri Sep 12, 2014 12:08 pm
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The_9th_Doctors_Rose Crew
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Posted: Fri Sep 12, 2014 8:37 pm
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The_9th_Doctors_Rose Crew
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Posted: Wed Oct 08, 2014 1:24 pm
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2014 10:14 am
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Posted: Sun Oct 12, 2014 7:54 pm
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Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2014 10:39 pm
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The_9th_Doctors_Rose Crew
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Posted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 12:09 pm
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Isis Wife Of Osiris Goddamn it, I am just sick of all this house hunting. Plus the apartment is still on the market. The realtor suggested taking it off the market for a while, to "refresh it" (their words). Plus the weather is changing and it's going to be too hard to drive out there in a couple of weeks, I think. In other news, I am having a very specific craving. I want roast suckling pig. Not right now, I want it for Christmas. I haven't had it in years, and it's going to be a while before I can raise my own food critters. Also, Angry Orchard hard cider is delicious. I plan to get pleasantly plastered tonight.
I'm sorry you're struggling to find a new place and sell your current one but I have faith everything will work out.
I've never had roast suckling pig... Is it good?
I've never had Angry Orchard Hard Cider either. Hope you have fun getting plastered tonight wink .
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Posted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 8:42 pm
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-Whimsical Stardust- Isis Wife Of Osiris Goddamn it, I am just sick of all this house hunting. Plus the apartment is still on the market. The realtor suggested taking it off the market for a while, to "refresh it" (their words). Plus the weather is changing and it's going to be too hard to drive out there in a couple of weeks, I think. In other news, I am having a very specific craving. I want roast suckling pig. Not right now, I want it for Christmas. I haven't had it in years, and it's going to be a while before I can raise my own food critters. Also, Angry Orchard hard cider is delicious. I plan to get pleasantly plastered tonight. I'm sorry you're struggling to find a new place and sell your current one but I have faith everything will work out. I've never had roast suckling pig... Is it good? I've never had Angry Orchard Hard Cider either. Hope you have fun getting plastered tonight wink .
Thanks. emotion_hug Yeah, it's a pain in the... screw it, it's a pain everywhere. Especially when it means we have to spend another winter in teh city. I'm hoping the winter isn't as much of a roller coaster as last year's... but would you believe my tomatoes are still flowering and fruiting?
There was a frost advisory last night, so I harvested everything that was on the vine, most of it green. It came out to about two quarts (or whatever the large produce baskets you see with berries are). The tomato and herb plants are now on their own, while the potatoes were a total bust. Eh, there's always next year, and better pest control.
Ooooh, you've never had it? Think of the tenderest pork you ever had, and the crunchiest cracklings... then make it sweeter and more delicate in flavor, and practically shredding as you poke it with a fork, then dip it in a little Cuban mojo sauce. *SWOON*
I admit it looks rather horrible, since they're roasted whole (except for the insides, of course), and some people will do the whole apple-in-the-mouth thing... but daaaamn it's tasty!
I had the Crisp Apple hard cider. It's 5% ABV and gets the job done better than beer - not to mention it tastes WAY better and doesn't make me want to go pee every 5 minutes!
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The_9th_Doctors_Rose Crew
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Posted: Thu Oct 23, 2014 10:08 am
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Isis Wife Of Osiris -Whimsical Stardust- Isis Wife Of Osiris Goddamn it, I am just sick of all this house hunting. Plus the apartment is still on the market. The realtor suggested taking it off the market for a while, to "refresh it" (their words). Plus the weather is changing and it's going to be too hard to drive out there in a couple of weeks, I think. In other news, I am having a very specific craving. I want roast suckling pig. Not right now, I want it for Christmas. I haven't had it in years, and it's going to be a while before I can raise my own food critters. Also, Angry Orchard hard cider is delicious. I plan to get pleasantly plastered tonight. I'm sorry you're struggling to find a new place and sell your current one but I have faith everything will work out. I've never had roast suckling pig... Is it good? I've never had Angry Orchard Hard Cider either. Hope you have fun getting plastered tonight wink . Thanks. emotion_hug Yeah, it's a pain in the... screw it, it's a pain everywhere. Especially when it means we have to spend another winter in teh city. I'm hoping the winter isn't as much of a roller coaster as last year's... but would you believe my tomatoes are still flowering and fruiting? There was a frost advisory last night, so I harvested everything that was on the vine, most of it green. It came out to about two quarts (or whatever the large produce baskets you see with berries are). The tomato and herb plants are now on their own, while the potatoes were a total bust. Eh, there's always next year, and better pest control. Ooooh, you've never had it? Think of the tenderest pork you ever had, and the crunchiest cracklings... then make it sweeter and more delicate in flavor, and practically shredding as you poke it with a fork, then dip it in a little Cuban mojo sauce. *SWOON* I admit it looks rather horrible, since they're roasted whole (except for the insides, of course), and some people will do the whole apple-in-the-mouth thing... but daaaamn it's tasty! I had the Crisp Apple hard cider. It's 5% ABV and gets the job done better than beer - not to mention it tastes WAY better and doesn't make me want to go pee every 5 minutes!
Well that sucks. Sorry you have to spend another winter in the City... Bleh...
OMGS that sounds pretty darn delicious. I've always seen the weird pigs with apples in their mouths but I've never seen one irl.
Yea? I don't really drink that often. I have pint of Tequila in my freezer but I haven't really touched it, plus the meds I'm on now... if I drink alcohol it can cause stomach bleeding... which doesn't sound like fun. razz
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