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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:20 pm
your not a terrible person. A terrible person would...lets say..... convince there ex that everything bad they thought about said person is infact an easily explained mistake during which said ex just assumed but didn't ask about, to the point that they start to question their current relationship which has been going on for two years, one year of which is engagement....Just cause they wont leave said person alone and keep stalking said person.
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:23 pm
TheWingsOfTheGods your not a terrible person. A terrible person would...lets say..... convince there ex that everything bad they thought about said person is infact an easily explained mistake during which said ex just assumed but didn't ask about, to the point that they start to question their current relationship which has been going on for two years, one year of which is engagement....Just cause they wont leave said person alone and keep stalking said person. >.> ye-.....yeah....i would never do that <.< ....
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:24 pm
Sindenky awkward bad....really bad xD and i do care for her but.....ok here's the thing. She is in love with me....to the point of worship. I have got myself into her head, years ago, and she cant let me go. It's basically mind control. Well i have had feelings for her off and on for years now. One week ill be all over her, "loving" her and happy with her. Next week i want nothing to do with her, when she says hello it annoys me. I'll ignore her for months at a time, and every time she starts to leave, i reel her back in. im a terrible person when it comes to her. you're not a bad person, you're just stuck in a difficult situation hm... it sounds to me like one of those "you want what you cant have" things...I know i sound terrible for saying that, but it seems that you love her, but get tired of her quickly, and it dies down...then just before she is out of reach, you yank her back... Its like...and i hate myself for using this as an example, but that episode of drawn together, where Captain hero's high school lover stalks him down, they love for a bit, then he gets tired of her, so wooldoor picks her up...when she is with wooldoor, he wants the girl again...in the end, they both agree its best to let her go... now i'm not suggesting just drop her, i'm not suggesting anything really... the choice is yours, and it sounds rough... i dont really know how i'd handle this though.
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:27 pm
Sindenky TheWingsOfTheGods your not a terrible person. A terrible person would...lets say..... convince there ex that everything bad they thought about said person is infact an easily explained mistake during which said ex just assumed but didn't ask about, to the point that they start to question their current relationship which has been going on for two years, one year of which is engagement....Just cause they wont leave said person alone and keep stalking said person. >.> ye-.....yeah....i would never do that <.< .... good to know. And while i sure said person felt guilty at first that died down when said person found at she cheated on her current partner with two seperate guy's BEFORE said person convinced the ex of this. And said partner of the ex only knows of one of these guys. (And said person left her for cheating on him...)
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:33 pm
well i jut don't know. Every time i get close to her it's great....BUT then i stop...and i hate it. I don't want her to feel like we have something, when at times its entirely one sided.
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:38 pm
well then i have no idea. since i've only had that experiance once, but she moved away (To france) and both of us moved on after it.
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:54 pm
she lives in another state already, and is a few years younger than me.
what does the great and wise Brit have to say about this?
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:58 pm
um, I'm incrdibly bad at relationship advise....so i'm going to go with the old proverb of "Follow your heart" and "search you true feelings".....
and how big is a state?
so i read an article about a live action simpson porn parody where they all painted yellow and what not, has all the characters...but in the article, they mentioned a possible katamari film, and all i could imagine was the queen laying bed saying to the king "NO! NO! THIS IS FAR TOO SMALL!"
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 2:00 pm
Snuff that Muffin um, I'm incrdibly bad at relationship advise....so i'm going to go with the old proverb of "Follow your heart" and "search you true feelings"..... and how big is a state? so i read an article about a live action simpson porn parody where they all painted yellow and what not, has all the characters...but in the article, they mentioned a possible katamari film, and all i could imagine was the queen laying bed with the king saying "NO! NO! THIS IS FAR TOO SMALL!" not good enough xD give me better advice. Imagine if you were her. what would you want me to do?
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 2:02 pm
Sindenky Snuff that Muffin um, I'm incrdibly bad at relationship advise....so i'm going to go with the old proverb of "Follow your heart" and "search you true feelings"..... and how big is a state? so i read an article about a live action simpson porn parody where they all painted yellow and what not, has all the characters...but in the article, they mentioned a possible katamari film, and all i could imagine was the queen laying bed with the king saying "NO! NO! THIS IS FAR TOO SMALL!" not good enough xD give me better advice. Imagine if you were her. what would you want me to do? you said she worships you right? if i worshiped someone, i'd want them to take me...
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 2:05 pm
Snuff that Muffin Sindenky Snuff that Muffin um, I'm incrdibly bad at relationship advise....so i'm going to go with the old proverb of "Follow your heart" and "search you true feelings"..... and how big is a state? so i read an article about a live action simpson porn parody where they all painted yellow and what not, has all the characters...but in the article, they mentioned a possible katamari film, and all i could imagine was the queen laying bed with the king saying "NO! NO! THIS IS FAR TOO SMALL!" not good enough xD give me better advice. Imagine if you were her. what would you want me to do? you said she worships you right? if i worshiped someone, i'd want them to take me... what if you knew how i felt? What if you knew there were times were i just didn't love you?
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 2:09 pm
Sindenky Snuff that Muffin Sindenky Snuff that Muffin um, I'm incrdibly bad at relationship advise....so i'm going to go with the old proverb of "Follow your heart" and "search you true feelings"..... and how big is a state? so i read an article about a live action simpson porn parody where they all painted yellow and what not, has all the characters...but in the article, they mentioned a possible katamari film, and all i could imagine was the queen laying bed with the king saying "NO! NO! THIS IS FAR TOO SMALL!" not good enough xD give me better advice. Imagine if you were her. what would you want me to do? you said she worships you right? if i worshiped someone, i'd want them to take me... what if you knew how i felt? What if you knew there were times were i just didn't love you? i'd be confused. I'd start to feel the same way, knowing sometimes you do love me, but then there are those moments where its just bad... i'd say we need to stop this, its going no where....
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 2:13 pm
I cant stop, and that's the problem...
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 2:18 pm
i dont know what to tell you then, sorry i cant help much
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Posted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 2:20 pm
Snuff that Muffin i dont know what to tell you then, sorry i cant help much you have helped, your better at it than you give yourself credit.
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