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 Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2015 2:02 pm
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Happy New Year, bla bla bla...
We had a huge fight over the holidays, Nick and I. Over going to his mom's for Christmas. I told him he could go, but I didn't want to, because she doesn't approve of our relationship. He countered with the argument that it's his life, and his choices. Well, yeah, but it's also her house, and she won't let us share a room, much less a bed. Besides, her foster kid is there. Cute girl, but kind of shy, from what I hear. No, I haven't met her yet.
Grandpa already had plans to spend the days with his girlfriend (that's going really well, by the way; GO, Grandpa!), so he didn't need us to stay and take care of him. He did advise Nick that whether or not his mother approves, it's his life to live and love as he chooses.
So.... Nick went to his mother's, alone. Grandpa spent a couple of days at his girlfriend's and I spent Christmas morning snoring in front of the TV with the Grumpy Little Tiger sleeping on my chest. He's not one for cuddling but if he likes you, he will sleep with or on you.
I was surprised Nick was back in time for dinner. He didn't actually apologize in so many words, but from what little he's said, he had quite the argument with her, as well. I may find out more later... or not.
New Year's we celebrated with a bang. I have discovered my new alcoholic love: Angry Orchard cider. Yesssss....
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Posted: Mon Jan 26, 2015 1:40 am
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Isis Wife Of Osiris Happy New Year, bla bla bla... We had a huge fight over the holidays, Nick and I. Over going to his mom's for Christmas. I told him he could go, but I didn't want to, because she doesn't approve of our relationship. He countered with the argument that it's his life, and his choices. Well, yeah, but it's also her house, and she won't let us share a room, much less a bed. Besides, her foster kid is there. Cute girl, but kind of shy, from what I hear. No, I haven't met her yet. Grandpa already had plans to spend the days with his girlfriend (that's going really well, by the way; GO, Grandpa!), so he didn't need us to stay and take care of him. He did advise Nick that whether or not his mother approves, it's his life to live and love as he chooses. So.... Nick went to his mother's, alone. Grandpa spent a couple of days at his girlfriend's and I spent Christmas morning snoring in front of the TV with the Grumpy Little Tiger sleeping on my chest. He's not one for cuddling but if he likes you, he will sleep with or on you. I was surprised Nick was back in time for dinner. He didn't actually apologize in so many words, but from what little he's said, he had quite the argument with her, as well. I may find out more later... or not. New Year's we celebrated with a bang. I have discovered my new alcoholic love: Angry Orchard cider. Yesssss....
Aww... I'm sorry that you guys fought. His mom sounds like a total b***h... I really hate people sometimes... I mean you break ONE taboo and everyone loses their minds...
Seriously though...wish she would be at least KIND of understanding... Christ on a Cracker that woman... Actually... I just wish the whole world would be at least kind of understanding about lots of things... emotion_hug Hope you're hanging in there. Glad you guys had a great celebration despite that frigid b***h and glad you found your angry orchard wink . |
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Posted: Wed Feb 18, 2015 10:59 pm
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Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2015 7:25 am
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Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2015 9:46 pm
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TheDarkest_DayInMay Finished reading! Although it is very unexpected of myself to support anykind of incestuous relationships ever, I must say that I am in support of you and Nick and wish you two the best. Anyone can tell from having read your posts that you are a wonderful person and Nick is lucky to have you. (random) I didn't know Opus Dei was real xD I read about it in the Da Vinci Code xDDD
Damn, you had a lot of time on your hands! Are you snowed in?
Seriously now... thank you for the kind words and good wishes. We're happy together; even if we can't sign the papers, nobody can stop us from living together.
Oh, the ones in the book are nothing like the real-life Opus Dei. The IRL ones are worse because they seem so innocuous. (Also: "Angels and Demons" was a much better book, and an AWESOME movie adaptation.) |
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Posted: Tue Feb 24, 2015 5:15 am
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Isis Wife Of Osiris TheDarkest_DayInMay Finished reading! Although it is very unexpected of myself to support anykind of incestuous relationships ever, I must say that I am in support of you and Nick and wish you two the best. Anyone can tell from having read your posts that you are a wonderful person and Nick is lucky to have you. (random) I didn't know Opus Dei was real xD I read about it in the Da Vinci Code xDDD Damn, you had a lot of time on your hands! Are you snowed in? Seriously now... thank you for the kind words and good wishes. We're happy together; even if we can't sign the papers, nobody can stop us from living together. Oh, the ones in the book are nothing like the real-life Opus Dei. The IRL ones are worse because they seem so innocuous. (Also: "Angels and Demons" was a much better book, and an AWESOME movie adaptation.)
I pretty much read every Dan Brown book xD
and yes i did xD
As long as you guys are happy together, i don't think things like papers and other peoples opinions matter =) |
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Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2015 8:09 am
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2015 8:48 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 31, 2015 10:46 am
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2015 7:22 pm
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It's been a while and I owe you all an update.
I took time off from Gaia because I realized I was wasting too much money on Gaia Cash for premium items, when all I'm really doing is playing with glorified paper dolls. I must have spent about $250, at least that I can acknowledge, "because it's on sale!" It may have been even more.
In more relevant news:
Nick and I had a huge fight over how his mother treats me. We went to their place for a week's visit in July, and the woman did everything in her power to drive a wedge between us.
By the fifth day I decided enough was enough and I made sure she saw me buying a pregnancy test when we went to the drugstore. When we got home she got on Nick's case, berating him about being irresponsible and s**t, and he finally snapped and told her off. Then we got into a fight because he called me out on buying the damn tests, and I turned it right back saying I have the right to buy what I please, and I wanted to prove his mother is trying to make us break up while he pretends everything is fine. Turns out he wasn't pretending, he's that oblivious. Then he started fighting with her, and it went back and forth a while.
His stepfather was smart enough to flee with the girl they're fostering. Saves a lot of explaining, I guess.
We returned a day early. Grandpa is a sharp one so he saw things were bad and spoke to each of us separately. I don't know what he told Nick. He told me that I should just do what's best for me, and he'll be there for me as long as he can.
Nick and I did patch things up, but we've been taking a harder look at our relationship. We're not making any future plans right now. Maybe if we'd been able to buy the place we put a bid on (we were outbid and they were willing to pay the closing costs too), we might be doing better.
Grandpa is slowing down somewhat. He's 75 now so, yeah. The apartment is still on the market, so if it sells, he's moving in with his girlfriend, and Nick and I will rent a place.
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Posted: Fri Apr 14, 2017 6:17 pm
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Isis Sister Of Osiris Hi everyone. I know some of you have read me before around the forums, but I think it's high time I post an explanation to the more, ah, cryptic posts I've made. Someone on another forum once mentioned I don't write like I'm 21. I take that as a compliment. I want to be a published writer one day; in fact, I've wanted to be one since I was 9, so grammar and spelling are really important to me. I'm not a grammar Nazi any more, though. It gets tiring, annoying, and one day I just threw in the towel. So, I'll be using this here thread to tell you about what makes me, Me.
It's been almost five years since this first post. How things have changed in that time... |
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Posted: Tue May 02, 2017 7:17 pm
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So.... Grandpa passed away last summer, and Nick and I broke up last month.
Grandpa finally lost the battle with recurring pneumonia. We had all moved to a new apartment, a rental, after his old place sold. His girlfriend came to live with us for that move. They were very happy together, and we were all devastated when he passed on.
I haven't spoken to my parents since... I don't even remember. They didn't talk to me or to Nick at the funeral, which was all to the good. I haven't seen them since that day either. I apparently no longer exist where they're concerned.
As for Nick and me and all the love we had for each other... we still love each other but we have a couple of fundamental disagreements.
One, I say that, technically, we can get married because his birth certificate is registered as "father unknown," He says no, someone will out us. He doesn't want to take the risk, and his mother has never been willing to accept our relationship.
Two, he was insisting we could go ahead and have kids anyway. I'm not going to get pregnant unless I'm married; this is not negotiable, no matter how willing (or eager, some days) I am to bear his incest babies.
So after a lot of discussion, fighting, tears and soul-searching, we're no longer officially a couple. We still see each other, but I moved out, as did he.
I'm working as a receptionist, don't know what's next, except I'm picking up the pieces of my former life, and trying not to cut myself on the jagged edges.
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Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2017 10:20 pm
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