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 Posted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 6:49 am
Anger is a secret weapon of man towards of evils but sometimes its result’s in the destruction of many noble qualities. It snatches away the wisdom of man and thus he becomes a brute beast devoid of any sense.
Anger is a temptation of shaytaan and deception of shaytaan
Anger is the root of all evils.
Anger is a spark of fire that are always bursting.
Anger is a very bad condition that weakens the person Iman (FAITH)
The meaning of anger is a rage fierce, displeasure, passion excited by a sense of wrong , physical pain, inflammation, mad, hot tempered, choleric, inflamed, A violent passion excited by real or supposed injury.
Anger is the strong feeling caused by extreme displeasure.
Anger is a strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure and hostility.
When someone is angry, mad, and reaches a state of having wrath against any person, he should make a special Du'a. In doing so he will cool down . It is reported that the Messenger of Allah said ( narrated by Sulaiman Ibn Sard and reported by Bukhari and Muslim ) that while Sulaiman was with the Prophet ( ), two persons were blaming each other. The face of one became red and his jugular veins swelled. the Prophet ( ) said. I know a statement if he or she say's it then the person with anger will cool down.
The person with anger should say : "I SEEK REFUGE IN ALLAH FROM SATAN THE OUTCAST."
Anger is lawful in cases of religious affair's when its honours are at stake. It is an effective preventive measure to safeguard the dignity of man. A person who has no anger is called a coward because he has got no true faith in Allah. The person fears the creation and not the creator. This doesn't give the right for youngsters to become angry with parents when they don't get what they want.
If a person doesn't practice Islam, a person disobeys the command of Allah or a person doesn't listen to his parents then to become angry with such a person can be lawful. But the person shouldn't become too angry because in Islam extreme anger is unlawful because it creates opposition and bitterness.
It is undesirable for a pious man to lose his temper, due to jokes, frivolous talks, quarrels, criticism and greed for wealth.
The real strength of a man lies in controlling his wrath. i.e. Anger.
It is reported in a Hadith on the authority of Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) that the messenger of Allah (Mohammed ( ) Peace and blessing of Allah be upon him said :
"The man is not a good wrestler; the strong man is in fact the person who controls himself at the time of anger."
the above Hadith is stated in Bukhari.
Anger is unlawful because it destroys the faith of a man. Bah bin hakim (Allah be please with him) Reported that the messenger of Allah (peace and blessing of Allah be upon him) . Said: Verily anger spoil's faith just as aloes spoils honey .
It is stated in Bukhari.:
By looking from the advise given by our beloved Prophet Muhammad () we shouldn't become anger and furious. If we remember the advise and saying of our beloved Prophet Muhammad ( )then the person becoming angry will control his anger.
But the youngster today have forgotten the teaching of our Prophet Muhammad () there become angry and furious for small reason like if their parent tell them to do something which their donut like there say to the parent in anger that I donut what to do it like cleaning the house or the toilet. So the best person is one who controls him self in anger.
Hadrat Anas: (Allah be pleased with him) reported that the messenger of Allah ( Muhammad( ) said:
Who so takes up his tongue as treasure Allah will keep his secrets concealed and who so restrains his anger Allah will with hold his punishment on the resurrection day and who so ascribes excuse to Allah will accept his excuse.
So by reading this we should refrain from becoming anger. Because anger destroys one faith. The person in anger forgets where he is and says anything which he regrets after.
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Today people are becoming angry because of the lifestyle and the society we live in. When a person is under stress he or she tends to become angry because the jobs not done or their children donut listen to them. There become angry and the anger is taken out on the child.
When a person becomes angry to their parent then that mean he's angry with Allah Paradise lies between your parent . If you treat them and help them then Allah will reward you in this world and the hereafter. But if you displeased your parent
this means you are displeasing Allah then the person will be deprived from Allah's mercy. and the person will get punish in the hereafter.
The aim and objective of reading this is to practice what has been written and refine from becoming angry. To become angry for Islamic reason is permissible but it shouldn't cause anyone harm.
Women should control their anger. because anger effects everyone. So anger is lawful for islamic reason and if ones hourner is at risk's.Other then this Anger is not permissible.
Allah's Messenger ( )Said a Muslim is never allowed to stay angry with his Muslim brother over three day's , because he who does that, then dies will go to hell ( FIRE ) . ( This is reported by Abu Dawood ) (Sahih Al - Jami ) ( page 7609).
The messenger of Allah (Prophet Muhammad ( says about anger:
“ Anger is the effect of shaytaan and shaytaan was created from fire. And water extinguishes fire."
It is narrated in Bukhari that two people were arguing in the presence of Rasulullah ( ) One of the two became so angry that his face went red and his veins swelled. Rasulullah () Lifted his face towards that person and said to him that I know a sentence if you were to say it your anger will go away. The sentence is ( taw’wz ). The translation is as follows:
THE VIRTUES OF CONTROLLING ONES ANGER.
There are many virtues in Ahadeeth recarding a person who controls his anger. In Tabraani . ( A book of Hadeeth ). It is narrated that Rasulullah ( ) Said : Who ever controls there temper Allah will take away punishment from him and who so ever safe guard's his tongue Allah will conceal his sins.
In another Hadeeth which is narrated in (Tirmizi and Abu Dawood): Rasulullah() Who ever controls their temper in a state that if he wanted he could have took revenge. Then On the day of judgement Allah will call him in front of everyone and will give him the choice of picking the Hoor of his choice. So by controlling your anger Allah will give the choice of picking any Hoor from Paradise (Jannat). But today youngsters have forgotten the world hear after and there are to indulge in this world that we have forgotten the command of Allah and the way shown by our beloved Prophet Muhammad () so from now on we should change our lifestyle. And we should live our life according to the way shown by our beloved Prophet
Muhammad (). because success in this world and the hereafter lies in the command of Allah and the way shown by our beloved Prophet Muhammad.(). May Allah gives us the ability to practice upon this ( Aamin ).
THE REMEDY FOR ANGER SHOWN BY OUR PROPHET MUHAMMAD ()
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The remedy for anger is that when a person who is angry should control his anger . In the Ahadith there are three way's shown to control ones Anger. 1). is to say Ta'awwuz
2). is to doWudu (Abulution ) or drink water.
3). is to lie down on the floor
So when a person becomes angry he should perform ablution. Then the person should lie down because when a person is lying he becomes humble because this is the quality of the earth due to it being low and not bursting. This is the opposite to fire which is the origin of shaytaan which results to pride. When a person is lying down he is far from revenge and retaliation then a person who is sitting is further then the one who is standing.
In reality anger is a spark of fire and its flames are always bursting. The cure is that you extinguish Back
The fire with water so that the evilness doesn't spread. i.e. by water it means to make wudu(Ablution).
The person who is angry should make wudu.then the person should recite the verses from the Holy Qur'ran which is (AYAH KURSI ) which is in the (3rd para, 2nd ruku). by reciting the Holy Qur'ran the person with anger it will cool him down because Anger is from shaytaan.
The person who is angry should be left alone to cool down and the above remedy should be practice's.The anger should go away.
In the state of anger one should use the above mentioned remedy so that he doesn't regret later.
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Posted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 10:03 am
Does it matter if the Muslim is angry with a non-Muslim? because the way it looks like, the really mad extremist Muslims tend to try and blow up the non-Muslims as part of anger management, along with desecrating holy places of other religions.
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Posted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 4:35 pm
Absurd Thought
Does it matter if the Muslim is angry with a non-Muslim? because the way it looks like, the really mad extremist Muslims tend to try and blow up the non-Muslims as part of anger management, along with desecrating holy places of other religions. well i guess thats natural for them... this post is just talking about what we muslims should do instead of getting angry i myself is practicing this way of control.
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Posted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 5:20 pm
XxXZero_BeatXxX Absurd Thought
Does it matter if the Muslim is angry with a non-Muslim? because the way it looks like, the really mad extremist Muslims tend to try and blow up the non-Muslims as part of anger management, along with desecrating holy places of other religions. well i guess thats natural for them... this post is just talking about what we muslims should do instead of getting angry i myself is practicing this way of control.
oh yes, it's so natural to blow up yourself, innocent people, and other people's places of worship. rolleyes
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Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 9:27 am
Sorry, i don't think i got anger problems, soo i don't think its soo important reading this.
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Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 4:20 pm
Zaaki Sorry, i don't think i got anger problems, soo i don't think its soo important reading this. you will be suprized how many muslim do bro and it makes look bad
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Posted: Wed Nov 26, 2008 4:52 pm
Absurd Thought XxXZero_BeatXxX Absurd Thought
Does it matter if the Muslim is angry with a non-Muslim? because the way it looks like, the really mad extremist Muslims tend to try and blow up the non-Muslims as part of anger management, along with desecrating holy places of other religions. well i guess thats natural for them... this post is just talking about what we muslims should do instead of getting angry i myself is practicing this way of control.
oh yes, it's so natural to blow up yourself, innocent people, and other people's places of worship. rolleyes they see your invasion of there lands bad in many many including warfare and religous ways. so in there mind yes its the right thing to do i never said i support sucide bombings not all mujahideen are like that and the one that dont are the true holy warriors. futher more if they keep there temper down its even better but its not madatory Especially if your fighting your enemy
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Posted: Thu Nov 27, 2008 6:25 am
XxXZero_BeatXxX Zaaki Sorry, i don't think i got anger problems, soo i don't think its soo important reading this. you will be suprized how many muslim do bro and it makes look bad But anger is normal for a human...
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Posted: Thu Nov 27, 2008 6:37 am
Zaaki XxXZero_BeatXxX Zaaki Sorry, i don't think i got anger problems, soo i don't think its soo important reading this. you will be suprized how many muslim do bro and it makes look bad But anger is normal for a human... yes but controlling your anger rlly isnt. thats why it has its benifets and makes you a stronger person.
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Posted: Sat Nov 29, 2008 11:58 am
XxXZero_BeatXxX they see your invasion of there lands bad in many many including warfare and religous ways.
I thought Islam was a religion of TOLERANCE AND PEACE. So building a place of worship in Muslim lands is considered an invasion? What next? celebrating holidays that aren't Islamic are act of the devil?
XxXZero_BeatXxX so in there mind yes its the right thing to do
In everybody's mind it's the right thing to do. In Saddam's mind, it was right to kill thousands of his own people. Same for Stalin. Hitler thought it was okay to Millions of innocents, and the Taliban thought it was right to deprive women of their basic human rights. Quite frankly, in my mind I find it quite okay to nuke Mecca to force people to wake up and get out of their ridiculous Muslim ideals that have a tendency to kill innocent people, but I'm not going to do it, or advocate it because it's a rather primitive way of doing things, much like how the mujahadeen to operate. XxXZero_BeatXxX i never said i support sucide bombings
But if it was for Allah, it's okay, because Allah knew your real intentions rolleyes
XxXZero_BeatXxX not all mujahideen are like that and the one that dont are the true holy warriors.
The only "holy" warriors I've seen are the police and military in Iraq (trained by the US) trying to regain control of their own country, the Afghanis trying to build themselves up again (US trained ones), and the Indians that fought so bravely against the Islamic terrorists in Mumbai.
And the US and British troops when they're behaving themselves.
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Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2008 3:28 pm
Absurd Thought XxXZero_BeatXxX they see your invasion of there lands bad in many many including warfare and religous ways.
I thought Islam was a religion of TOLERANCE AND PEACE. So building a place of worship in Muslim lands is considered an invasion? What next? celebrating holidays that aren't Islamic are act of the devil?
no not that i meant invasion as in military.... and by religous i meant sending muslims to prison and touturing them to turn away from islam. they even bribe he poor to come to christanity in somalia and judiasm. then they would get money. they dont rlly care for peace. XxXZero_BeatXxX so in there mind yes its the right thing to do
In everybody's mind it's the right thing to do. In Saddam's mind, it was right to kill thousands of his own people. Same for Stalin. Hitler thought it was okay to Millions of innocents, and the Taliban thought it was right to deprive women of their basic human rights. Quite frankly, in my mind I find it quite okay to nuke Mecca to force people to wake up and get out of their ridiculous Muslim ideals that have a tendency to kill innocent people, but I'm not going to do it, or advocate it because it's a rather primitive way of doing things, much like how the mujahadeen to operate. first of all u cant nuke mecca i challenge ANY NON MUSLIM TO JUST TRY and i swear to Allah they will fail saddam thought it was right becuz he had his view about shias that were wrong now he paid for his sins by death taliban..well i admit they do some crazyy un - islamic things to weman..but im sure the weman has done something to get that punishment...but like i said they MAY have taken it out of context and did not read the regulations and exceptions. but not all talib fighters r like that..... i seen interviews with them and trust me they r rlly serious about non violence to innocents. they dont attack non muslims just cuz ur in there country only if u attack destory the country will they fight u. there some people who liked saddam and sum who dont.. o well. besides most afghans support the taliban even weman. its not like all will like em..thats life people like certian things sum people dont..thats just how it is. i dont support everything about the taliban. some of there actions against the usa and the brits and canadian etc i do. its just there way of islam i dont rlly like..thats y they wage jihad agianst pakistan..because they claim that waziristan is actually afghan land... so pakistan returned the favor..... XxXZero_BeatXxX i never said i support sucide bombings
But if it was for Allah, it's okay, because Allah knew your real intentions rolleyes
thats wat THEY belive!!! thats not wat i personally belive!! i know people who r like this thats y i said that to explain how they feel!!!. but the Allah knows best. u c u can only blow urself up or sacrafice only if its a last resort. say u r wounded in battle... and u know for sure ur gonna die like a shot to the throat or lower stomach since u r already dieing u might as well take a few enimies with u.... only if its possible. apperantly the mujahid are not doing that. XxXZero_BeatXxX not all mujahideen are like that and the one that dont are the true holy warriors.
The only "holy" warriors I've seen are the police and military in Iraq (trained by the US) trying to regain control of their own country, the Afghanis trying to build themselves up again (US trained ones), and the Indians that fought so bravely against the Islamic terrorists in Mumbai.
And the US and British troops when they're behaving themselves.well thats ur opinion... ..im not gonna get in to the indian military since that belongs to another fourm.... but anyway ok im agianst the mumbia attacks....my respects goes out to there family and loved ones that were lost!!! btw they dont know who did the mumbia attacks they ASSUME it was muslims and they like to blame the pakistanis for it..they even blamed bangladesh if india wants another beating from pakistan ill repeat kane karun and kargil on those bastards !! the indian officals also think its hindu extermist !!! they want muslim hindu right so they can kill muslim just like in kashmir!!! and gujarat!!! just cuz the last gun men was a paki dosnt mean pakistan was involved or that he was a muslim. pakistan even offerd to help. but thats politics so im not gonna explain my whole opinion on what rlly happened........... ninja ninja ninja
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Posted: Fri Dec 05, 2008 8:01 am
Try to answer all her questions/debates...
I know it's hard lol But you somethimes need to suffer rofl
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Posted: Fri Dec 05, 2008 12:45 pm
Zaaki Try to answer all her questions/debates... I know it's hard lol But you somethimes need to suffer rofl im pretty sure i did...lol and yea there just too much typing lol
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Posted: Fri Dec 05, 2008 1:00 pm
Really, this war is subjective. Both sides are at fault. Sure, the islamic people shouldn't be bombing us, but the time, they were desperate. It wasn't like they had a huge army to invade the U.S. That was all they could do. Plus, the United States probably pissed off the middle east. The US pisses off a lot of countries. Then we invade the country and take it over. Yes, that is going to go well with another country. Not. We, as US citzens, consider it a good thing but the citzens of that country just see it as a invasion.
There are no holy warriers. This war was fueled by greed and used Islam as a way to justify their actions. The United States used the idea of "freedom" as a way to justify their actions.
That being said, I say go United States in the war. Finish the job!
xd Now, can we move back to the orignal topic of controlling anger? We can talk about war in another thread.
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Posted: Fri Dec 05, 2008 1:45 pm
ffdarkangel Really, this war is subjective. Both sides are at fault. Sure, the islamic people shouldn't be bombing us, but the time, they were desperate. It wasn't like they had a huge army to invade the U.S. That was all they could do. Plus, the United States probably pissed off the middle east. The US pisses off a lot of countries. Then we invade the country and take it over. Yes, that is going to go well with another country. Not. We, as US citzens, consider it a good thing but the citzens of that country just see it as a invasion. There are no holy warriers. This war was fueled by greed and used Islam as a way to justify their actions. The United States used the idea of "freedom" as a way to justify their actions. That being said, I say go United States in the war. Finish the job! xd Now, can we move back to the orignal topic of controlling anger? We can talk about war in another thread. Try to note, than IN EVERY TOPIC MORE THAN 50 POSTS, the topic changes wink
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