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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2008 1:43 am
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Manda_Tifa Diana Aries suhiko Diana Aries Hope y'all have everything set and together. Far from it *sips his cup of coffee* That's what baby registries are for. Sucker our family into buying most of what we need (I hope).
Not what I meant. sweatdrop Just hoping you two are both in a good stable relationship and have stable income coming in.
I am not the type to get all congratulatory when someone says they are having a child unless they were trying to have one in the first place. No, my thoughts turn to concern for the child being brought into the world.'Specially with this clown!! *ducks* Just kidding, Tats, you know I wish you all the best! rofl And I demand picture. *tosses a chocolate cream pie at Tifa* ha take that. I will when I'm able to get the new ones.
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2008 1:45 am
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2008 8:07 am
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Posted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 12:08 pm
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Posted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 4:22 pm
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Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 10:45 am
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suhiko I assure you the baby was wanted. It's just I personally have fallen on hard times. A lot of companies have hiring freezes going on which has left me without a job. There is plenty of love for this child and plenty of love given and received from Addie and I. Everything will work out eventually (hopefully freaking soon). It's my belief that as long as there is faith things will work out. I know what you're going through. When the decline first started in 2005, my wife and I found out we were having a baby girl (which, as with you, we preferred a girl first). I had a nice job, and then lost it shortly after she was born. I bounced from crummy job to crummy job until I landed something that was fairly stable. Then, as soon as we realized we were about to have another child (a boy) AND bought a house...the economy got worse and I was laid off. We love both of our children with all of our hearts, there's no denying that. But it is difficult raising two children on only my salary. On top of that, my new job is demanding so much of my time, I'm only home long enough to have dinner and sleep.
It's hard to get things right nowadays. But as long as you love your children the same and love your partner with the truest definition of the word, your home will be a happy one, no matter the money situation. Sure stresses will get in the way a bit, but it's up to you to decide how much it affects your life. The best advise I can give is when the walls are closing in is to "Let it go". Easier said than done, believe me I know. But don't let a bad situation taint your love. It's hard extremely hard work to do this, and requires a mentality that may be easy to manipulate, but it'll be easier to forgive and be forgiven, and it will be easier to maintain your love.
I could go on and on with more advice on the subject, but experience is the best way to learn the lessons. I can tell you exactly how it was for my family, but unless you've already been there, it's hard to understand the outcome.
Congratulations, and may your daughter be (almost) as beautiful as mine. whee
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Blue Atsushi-Kai suhiko I assure you the baby was wanted. It's just I personally have fallen on hard times. A lot of companies have hiring freezes going on which has left me without a job. There is plenty of love for this child and plenty of love given and received from Addie and I. Everything will work out eventually (hopefully freaking soon). It's my belief that as long as there is faith things will work out. I know what you're going through. When the decline first started in 2005, my wife and I found out we were having a baby girl (which, as with you, we preferred a girl first). I had a nice job, and then lost it shortly after she was born. I bounced from crummy job to crummy job until I landed something that was fairly stable. Then, as soon as we realized we were about to have another child (a boy) AND bought a house...the economy got worse and I was laid off. We love both of our children with all of our hearts, there's no denying that. But it is difficult raising two children on only my salary. On top of that, my new job is demanding so much of my time, I'm only home long enough to have dinner and sleep. It's hard to get things right nowadays. But as long as you love your children the same and love your partner with the truest definition of the word, your home will be a happy one, no matter the money situation. Sure stresses will get in the way a bit, but it's up to you to decide how much it affects your life. The best advise I can give is when the walls are closing in is to "Let it go". Easier said than done, believe me I know. But don't let a bad situation taint your love. It's hard extremely hard work to do this, and requires a mentality that may be easy to manipulate, but it'll be easier to forgive and be forgiven, and it will be easier to maintain your love. I could go on and on with more advice on the subject, but experience is the best way to learn the lessons. I can tell you exactly how it was for my family, but unless you've already been there, it's hard to understand the outcome. Congratulations, and may your daughter be (almost) as beautiful as mine. whee Sorry but I'm sure my daughter will be much more beautiful *but then again every dad thinks their daughter is the most beautiful daughter in the world.* I want to say thanks to everyone Especially You Atsushi. A lot of that makes sense. I will admit. It's been difficult dealing with this freaking recession. But I've been doing what I have to do. I'm constantly hunting down job opportunities and finally Found a part time. Now I just need a darn car. XD. But anyways. I take any and all advice that can be given. Just wondering If you were as scared as I feel. I'm so afraid of screwing up.
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