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Sparky_the3rd Vice Captain
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 Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 12:07 pm
Here is the convo we had about her bf!!xXxKireiKirstyxXx moon_the_angel_of_hell xXxKireiKirstyxXx moon_the_angel_of_hell xXxKireiKirstyxXx I just posted in "personal advice needed"... of course lol I know my bf is an a**... That's and understatement... I suppose... *sighs* I feel like I'm stuck... Well like usual everything will get btr... Then it'll happen again Better Again Better Again -sigh- Idk what to do anymore... I hate loving someone who treats me like this... xXxKireiKirstyxXx moon_the_angel_of_hell xXxKireiKirstyxXx moon_the_angel_of_hell xXxKireiKirstyxXx I asked him if his reputation meant more to him than I did. He didn't answer. THERE RIGHT THERE!!! YOU'RE NOT IMPORTANT TO HIM!!! I realized that. Then when came the moment I asked him if he loved me, all he could say is "kinda"... WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU????? WHY? WHY? WHY???? WHY HAVEN'T YOU LEFT HIM??? THAT PROVES RIGHT THERE IF IT WAS NEVER PROVEN BEFORE THAT IS PROOF ENOUGH THAT YOU CAN DO BETTER AND THAT YOU NEED TO LET HIM GO!! You really want me to break up with him, huh? ...make a poll forum in the guild about this, lol I want to see what others say.
Links to her other post:
I hate this
I'm here
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 12:18 pm
Okay.. A boyfriend is supposed to be a special friend, a friend that would be there for you for your troubles, good times, and bad times.
From the sound of this Boyfriend, it sounds like he dosn't really care for you. that Your just his arm candy, or that he is only in it for himself.
I might however, not know the whole story, and You should't let other people that you don't know Make decisions for you..
Think if he really likes you.. a "Kinda" Love is not "love" its just "I sorta like you"
I however vote dump him..
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 12:20 pm
I think people all too often mistake companionship for love. Not that I'm saying this is the situation in your case as I don't know anything about it. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 12:30 pm
Oh wait...I'm not done..last pm. They are kinda out of order: xXxKireiKirstyxXx moon_the_angel_of_hell xXxKireiKirstyxXx moon_the_angel_of_hell Slowly break away...try!!! I'm begging you! Earlier today, I told him that he's pushing me away, and if he doesn't want to be with me, to just break up. He wouldn't do it. Of course he wont!!!!!! It's you that needs to leave him!!! Please!!! I'm sick of seeing you get hurt. He said that he wont break up with me because I'll kill myself, and that's bad for his reputation.
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Sparky_the3rd Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 1:15 pm
moon_the_angel_of_hell Oh wait...I'm not done..last pm. They are kinda out of order: xXxKireiKirstyxXx moon_the_angel_of_hell xXxKireiKirstyxXx moon_the_angel_of_hell Slowly break away...try!!! I'm begging you! Earlier today, I told him that he's pushing me away, and if he doesn't want to be with me, to just break up. He wouldn't do it. Of course he wont!!!!!! It's you that needs to leave him!!! Please!!! I'm sick of seeing you get hurt. .
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 1:25 pm
We've been together for a Year and 2 months since Sunday.
This have been happening since the first 2 or 3 months we've been together.
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 1:28 pm
-ScrippyPaws- moon_the_angel_of_hell Oh wait...I'm not done..last pm. They are kinda out of order: xXxKireiKirstyxXx moon_the_angel_of_hell xXxKireiKirstyxXx moon_the_angel_of_hell Slowly break away...try!!! I'm begging you! Earlier today, I told him that he's pushing me away, and if he doesn't want to be with me, to just break up. He wouldn't do it. Of course he wont!!!!!! It's you that needs to leave him!!! Please!!! I'm sick of seeing you get hurt. .
He kinda does... And how old are you? That may help...
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 1:59 pm
We're both 18, he's 3 months older than me.
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 2:06 pm
So your still in high-school/college, correct?
What does he do that's good?
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 2:29 pm
i have to say you should leave him...
when it come to the point in a relationship where the person you are with is causing you stress and despair, you just let them go
i seriously suggest you leave him
no questions about it...
I've watched too many women end up completely broken-hearted to sit by and let it happen again and not say anything
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 4:15 pm
Break up.
What kinda man chooses reputation over love?
An Idgit. xD
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 4:26 pm
LOOK AT THAT KIRSTY EVEN THE GUILD MEMBERS SAID LEAVE HIM!!!
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Sparky_the3rd Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 5:55 pm
XxBroken_And_ShatteredxX So your still in high-school/college, correct? What does he do that's good?
Here's a list of all the Positive things about him:
Holds me when I'm scared
Tickles me when I'm mad
Cuddles me when I'm cold
Kisses me when I'm sad
He buys me cute clothes
Takes me to the movies
Takes me to expensive restaurants
Sings me lullabies when I can't sleep
Tells me I'm his world
He's not all a bad person, I just hate his mean side.
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 6:00 pm
Hmm...you do have a point....But everyguy has his good points. Like me, I listen to both sides of the story before making a statement. I don't know what hes and everything here are just words...so I do not vote...
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 6:20 pm
Hmm..... There may be a reason behind that other than it would hurt his reputation... Because I doubt it would.... Quote: Holds me when I'm scared Tickles me when I'm mad Cuddles me when I'm cold Kisses me when I'm sad He buys me cute clothes Takes me to the movies Takes me to expensive restaurants Sings me lullabies when I can't sleep Tells me I'm his world And I consider those as REALLY good things. The bottom half I don't do for my girl-friend. Mainly because I have no money, but still... All-in-all, I think you should see where it leads to before you break-up.
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