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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 11:29 am
Well,this is the problem: I've started wearing a hijaab so my dad would get proud at me Recently i realised this is the only reason i wore it ( i did it on my 12), becus i just opened my eyes round my 14-15 year. As a child i wasnt social and shy to everyone,and i didnt know what i wanted to be in my life. But then i realised i had to do what i do since my 4th; drawing. I've never knew that i can be what I want,and not by listenin to ur dad.
Thats why i dont want the headscarf anymore,because it blocks me from a lot of things. I couldnt play the violin,because ' headscarfed girls cant play in orkests' and i couldnt get work. And so there is,a lot of other things.
I also see my dad DOESNT DO ANYTHING for islam ( nearly) he almost never go to a mosque,sometimes on friday. He cant read the Kuran. When hes free from work he go to cafe's. I saw in,that by my ads side of the family,the women has to listen to the men,and if there is one thing,just one thing in the whole world i hate with my whole heart,is that women are suprressed by men.
I know that just a few of muslims this do,and there is also not-muslims who do this.
But im now wondering... Is it okay if i go open? I wear the hijaab every day,with the same lump in my throat,and when i look at myself,i see that is not me. I want to go,doing a game art study later,and i'm doing pre-university now because of my dad,and he want me to go to uni. But im starting to refusing him.
I don't want to wear the hijaab without my heart.
And i dont listen to a man,who can talk,but go to cafe's and drink alcohol.
I searched for extra reasons,and i looked at what my dad would do if i quit praying. He said NOTHING. I quit reading Kuran. And he said NOTHING again. My mother then told me,that the only reason he doesnt want me to quit wearing the hijaab,is because he wanted to let his family see what good daughters he do have. But he keeps his drinking and not praying a secret( his family lives in turkey,but we live in holland)
I dont know what to do anymore...Im confused about my identity,all because of my dad
Can somebody please help,and say me what is the best in their eyes? I would really be thankful.
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 11:56 am
Salam dear sister smile
I can see ur problem, and ur like "no one else does it, why should i do it?"
that's like with me. My parrents don't do namaz, only very rare, and dad dossen't know qur'an, and sisters don't wear hijab and all. my family is abit non-muslim in act, but not in heart.
I guess like ur dad 3nodding
That dossen't mean i should not read qur'an, that does not mean i shoulden't do namaz, that dossen't mean i can't be a good muslim, right?
The society + islam can sometimes be very hard, if ur not in a muslim country. Which i kinda know u ain't. I ain't either, i live in Denmark. All racists.
The thing about women/man. Women should lower their gaze it's said, and in the family they should help each others. Like in Denmark, people always get divorced and fight.
Like if the wife made a deal with the husband to clean the house, and if he diden't. then the wife would probably send the husband out of the house.
It is important for muslims to kinda work for each others, and help as much as they can. 3nodding
to be continued.....
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:02 pm
Sister, ur saying u don't wanna go to uni? Is that because u honestly don't want, or u wanto fight with ur dad??? razz
What do u wish to become? Some educations requires univercity.
Without ur heart? But ain't u a good muslim? :O
Life is a test, imagine that all humans are false, only u are real, and Allah is looking at what u do, all the time. ninja
Drink alcohol? :O Ya Malik!!! That's very haram.
U should do it with the head, the heart, and the faith.
Sister, u say ur confused with ur identity? You mean, u wanto follow ur parrents? If ur parrents are good muslims, u become it. If they are bad, then u become bad?
Don't wear hijab for ur dad, but for Allah. Ok? smile heart I really hope ur problem will be solved smile
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:05 pm
The_Pathan Salam dear sister smile I can see ur problem, and ur like "no one else does it, why should i do it?" that's like with me. My parrents don't do namaz, only very rare, and dad dossen't know qur'an, and sisters don't wear hijab and all. my family is abit non-muslim in act, but not in heart. I guess like ur dad 3nodding That dossen't mean i should not read qur'an, that does not mean i shoulden't do namaz, that dossen't mean i can't be a good muslim, right? The society + islam can sometimes be very hard, if ur not in a muslim country. Which i kinda know u ain't. I ain't either, i live in Denmark. All racists. The thing about women/man. Women should lower their gaze it's said, and in the family they should help each others. Like in Denmark, people always get divorced and fight. Like if the wife made a deal with the husband to clean the house, and if he diden't. then the wife would probably send the husband out of the house. It is important for muslims to kinda work for each others, and help as much as they can. 3nodding to be continued..... A. Salam It's true what you say,but i do read qur'an and pray. it was for some time i stopped,i wanted to see his reaction. I didnt want to forget it all because of him. The problem is the hijaab.. There are girls here who wears them,but they wear superskinny clothes,and when im open im actually closer clothed then them,who shows butt and all. But they dont accept it that i dont wear a hijaab. But thanks brother,for the help you gave heart
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:08 pm
well.. if you really don't want to wear the hijab then don't wear it. However don't stop praying and reading the Quran because of your father. I personally don't believe that a piece of clothing can bring you closer to Allah, if you believe in Allah truly then sister continue making salaats and continue reading the Quran. As for your father, include him in your prayers and pray for him, he needs it.
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:22 pm
Thank u all heart im so happy to see,that my voice IS heard here.
@ The_Pathan:
Sister, ur saying u don't wanna go to uni? Yes,i want to follow my dream i had since my childhood; being a game artist,or just a illustration artist.
What do u wish to become? Im doing pre-university because i started with it in the time i didnt know what to do with my life,but now ive opened my eyes,and see that i CAN foloow my dreams,to become the artist i want..
Without ur heart? But ain't u a good muslim? I hope im a good muslim,i pray i read the Qu'ran, but i just dont want to wear the hijaab. thats all. Isnt it bad,wearing the hijaab,if you dont want it and you know it?
Life is a test, imagine that all humans are false, only u are real, and Allah is looking at what u do, all the time.
Drink alcohol? Ya Malik!!! That's very haram. Yea,tell my dad about it. I was always to scared to tell him,but someday i will..
U should do it with the head, the heart, and the faith.
Sister, u say ur confused with ur identity? You mean, u wanto follow ur parrents? If ur parrents are good muslims, u become it. If they are bad, then u become bad? No,with my identity i mean,myself. Ayse ( thats my name) the hijaab is not my thing. It's not who i am. I'm always attracting the wrong persons,i dont want to attract. My mom is the only person i trust,and she says to me: if you dont want to wear a hijaab,dont do it. But keep praying and reading.
Be honest,if YOU were a girl in this situation,what would you do?
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:36 pm
Twiggy twigs Thank u all heart im so happy to see,that my voice IS heard here. @ The_Pathan: Sister, ur saying u don't wanna go to uni? Yes,i want to follow my dream i had since my childhood; being a game artist,or just a illustration artist. What do u wish to become? Im doing pre-university because i started with it in the time i didnt know what to do with my life,but now ive opened my eyes,and see that i CAN foloow my dreams,to become the artist i want.. Without ur heart? But ain't u a good muslim? I hope im a good muslim,i pray i read the Qu'ran, but i just dont want to wear the hijaab. thats all. Isnt it bad,wearing the hijaab,if you dont want it and you know it? Life is a test, imagine that all humans are false, only u are real, and Allah is looking at what u do, all the time. Drink alcohol? Ya Malik!!! That's very haram. Yea,tell my dad about it. I was always to scared to tell him,but someday i will.. U should do it with the head, the heart, and the faith. Sister, u say ur confused with ur identity? You mean, u wanto follow ur parrents? If ur parrents are good muslims, u become it. If they are bad, then u become bad?No,with my identity i mean,myself. Ayse ( thats my name) the hijaab is not my thing. It's not who i am. I'm always attracting the wrong persons,i dont want to attract. My mom is the only person i trust,and she says to me: if you dont want to wear a hijaab,dont do it. But keep praying and reading. Be honest,if YOU were a girl in this situation,what would you do? from my old post don't wear it if you don't want to.
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:39 pm
Bharatiyaa_ larki Twiggy twigs Thank u all heart im so happy to see,that my voice IS heard here. @ The_Pathan: Sister, ur saying u don't wanna go to uni? Yes,i want to follow my dream i had since my childhood; being a game artist,or just a illustration artist. What do u wish to become? Im doing pre-university because i started with it in the time i didnt know what to do with my life,but now ive opened my eyes,and see that i CAN foloow my dreams,to become the artist i want.. Without ur heart? But ain't u a good muslim? I hope im a good muslim,i pray i read the Qu'ran, but i just dont want to wear the hijaab. thats all. Isnt it bad,wearing the hijaab,if you dont want it and you know it? Life is a test, imagine that all humans are false, only u are real, and Allah is looking at what u do, all the time. Drink alcohol? Ya Malik!!! That's very haram. Yea,tell my dad about it. I was always to scared to tell him,but someday i will.. U should do it with the head, the heart, and the faith. Sister, u say ur confused with ur identity? You mean, u wanto follow ur parrents? If ur parrents are good muslims, u become it. If they are bad, then u become bad?No,with my identity i mean,myself. Ayse ( thats my name) the hijaab is not my thing. It's not who i am. I'm always attracting the wrong persons,i dont want to attract. My mom is the only person i trust,and she says to me: if you dont want to wear a hijaab,dont do it. But keep praying and reading. Be honest,if YOU were a girl in this situation,what would you do? from my old post don't wear it if you don't want to. I understand it,thanks heart i will think about it
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:41 pm
Twiggy twigs Bharatiyaa_ larki Twiggy twigs Thank u all heart im so happy to see,that my voice IS heard here. @ The_Pathan: Sister, ur saying u don't wanna go to uni? Yes,i want to follow my dream i had since my childhood; being a game artist,or just a illustration artist. What do u wish to become? Im doing pre-university because i started with it in the time i didnt know what to do with my life,but now ive opened my eyes,and see that i CAN foloow my dreams,to become the artist i want.. Without ur heart? But ain't u a good muslim? I hope im a good muslim,i pray i read the Qu'ran, but i just dont want to wear the hijaab. thats all. Isnt it bad,wearing the hijaab,if you dont want it and you know it? Life is a test, imagine that all humans are false, only u are real, and Allah is looking at what u do, all the time. Drink alcohol? Ya Malik!!! That's very haram. Yea,tell my dad about it. I was always to scared to tell him,but someday i will.. U should do it with the head, the heart, and the faith. Sister, u say ur confused with ur identity? You mean, u wanto follow ur parrents? If ur parrents are good muslims, u become it. If they are bad, then u become bad?No,with my identity i mean,myself. Ayse ( thats my name) the hijaab is not my thing. It's not who i am. I'm always attracting the wrong persons,i dont want to attract. My mom is the only person i trust,and she says to me: if you dont want to wear a hijaab,dont do it. But keep praying and reading. Be honest,if YOU were a girl in this situation,what would you do? from my old post don't wear it if you don't want to. I understand it,thanks heart i will think about it but still where the hijab during prayer.. and when you go to the mosque of couse
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 12:46 pm
Bharatiyaa_ larki Twiggy twigs Bharatiyaa_ larki Twiggy twigs Thank u all heart im so happy to see,that my voice IS heard here. @ The_Pathan: Sister, ur saying u don't wanna go to uni? Yes,i want to follow my dream i had since my childhood; being a game artist,or just a illustration artist. What do u wish to become? Im doing pre-university because i started with it in the time i didnt know what to do with my life,but now ive opened my eyes,and see that i CAN foloow my dreams,to become the artist i want.. Without ur heart? But ain't u a good muslim? I hope im a good muslim,i pray i read the Qu'ran, but i just dont want to wear the hijaab. thats all. Isnt it bad,wearing the hijaab,if you dont want it and you know it? Life is a test, imagine that all humans are false, only u are real, and Allah is looking at what u do, all the time. Drink alcohol? Ya Malik!!! That's very haram. Yea,tell my dad about it. I was always to scared to tell him,but someday i will.. U should do it with the head, the heart, and the faith. Sister, u say ur confused with ur identity? You mean, u wanto follow ur parrents? If ur parrents are good muslims, u become it. If they are bad, then u become bad?No,with my identity i mean,myself. Ayse ( thats my name) the hijaab is not my thing. It's not who i am. I'm always attracting the wrong persons,i dont want to attract. My mom is the only person i trust,and she says to me: if you dont want to wear a hijaab,dont do it. But keep praying and reading. Be honest,if YOU were a girl in this situation,what would you do? from my old post don't wear it if you don't want to. I understand it,thanks heart i will think about it but still where the hijab during prayer.. and when you go to the mosque of couse Of course i will do it then,my aunt (mother side) is open too,but she puts a hijaab on for praying and mosque
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Posted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 5:34 am
Twiggy twigs Thank u all heart im so happy to see,that my voice IS heard here. @ The_Pathan: Sister, ur saying u don't wanna go to uni? Yes,i want to follow my dream i had since my childhood; being a game artist,or just a illustration artist. What do u wish to become? Im doing pre-university because i started with it in the time i didnt know what to do with my life,but now ive opened my eyes,and see that i CAN foloow my dreams,to become the artist i want.. Without ur heart? But ain't u a good muslim? I hope im a good muslim,i pray i read the Qu'ran, but i just dont want to wear the hijaab. thats all. Isnt it bad,wearing the hijaab,if you dont want it and you know it? Life is a test, imagine that all humans are false, only u are real, and Allah is looking at what u do, all the time. Drink alcohol? Ya Malik!!! That's very haram. Yea,tell my dad about it. I was always to scared to tell him,but someday i will.. U should do it with the head, the heart, and the faith. Sister, u say ur confused with ur identity? You mean, u wanto follow ur parrents? If ur parrents are good muslims, u become it. If they are bad, then u become bad?No,with my identity i mean,myself. Ayse ( thats my name) the hijaab is not my thing. It's not who i am. I'm always attracting the wrong persons,i dont want to attract. My mom is the only person i trust,and she says to me: if you dont want to wear a hijaab,dont do it. But keep praying and reading. Be honest,if YOU were a girl in this situation,what would you do? About university. I believe your old enough to deside this, and that you are avaiable to eat bread, and have a roof from being a game artist, and if that's ur passion, and if that's what u find fun, then do it smile About hijab, it is very bad not to wear it sad 1 time ago i asked my mom why she diden't wear it. She told me that her stepfarter forced her to wear it all the time, and she don't wanto wear it, but she tells that she knows it's haram not to wear it. It's haram not to wear it, but u can wear it in ur own house, so don't worry. it's only when u go out, shopping ect. I find it a complicated dad of urs :O You got farz to tell him about it. Wearing the hijab means that u covor urself, that u covor ur beauty. That's like the diffrence of a muslim virgin with hijab, and a non-muslim whore. Wearing hijab is very important, and Allah knows why. It's about being the slave of Allah, and obey Allah. Let's say i wanto eat pork, cuz it's very tasty or wutever. That dossen't mean i can eat it. U must put a filter ( a hijab ). Not a burqa, or niqab, just a simple hijab 3nodding U attract wrong people with hijab? :O Is that what ur telling me? Well, i have to be wise and tell u that u have to wear hijab. sad Try to see the beauty in it 3nodding It's like wearing underwears, and not wearing underwears. It's important to wear it. If i were a girl? Sorry i can't get me in that situation sweatdrop rofl U can sometimes see if a girl is religious when u look at her head razz lolz xd Hijab or not hijab 3nodding On boys u can't. Only that thing the Mullah's wear. Well the only problem about hijab is to get a job. Cuz u know, it's hardest for muslims to get work, especially if they are religious. Even for muslim men it's hard, so for girls with hijab it's very hard. But that's the only problem. 3nodding If there are more problems then please say smile
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Posted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 1:00 pm
The_Pathan Twiggy twigs Thank u all heart im so happy to see,that my voice IS heard here. @ The_Pathan: Sister, ur saying u don't wanna go to uni? Yes,i want to follow my dream i had since my childhood; being a game artist,or just a illustration artist. What do u wish to become? Im doing pre-university because i started with it in the time i didnt know what to do with my life,but now ive opened my eyes,and see that i CAN foloow my dreams,to become the artist i want.. Without ur heart? But ain't u a good muslim? I hope im a good muslim,i pray i read the Qu'ran, but i just dont want to wear the hijaab. thats all. Isnt it bad,wearing the hijaab,if you dont want it and you know it? Life is a test, imagine that all humans are false, only u are real, and Allah is looking at what u do, all the time. Drink alcohol? Ya Malik!!! That's very haram. Yea,tell my dad about it. I was always to scared to tell him,but someday i will.. U should do it with the head, the heart, and the faith. Sister, u say ur confused with ur identity? You mean, u wanto follow ur parrents? If ur parrents are good muslims, u become it. If they are bad, then u become bad?No,with my identity i mean,myself. Ayse ( thats my name) the hijaab is not my thing. It's not who i am. I'm always attracting the wrong persons,i dont want to attract. My mom is the only person i trust,and she says to me: if you dont want to wear a hijaab,dont do it. But keep praying and reading. Be honest,if YOU were a girl in this situation,what would you do? About university. I believe your old enough to deside this, and that you are avaiable to eat bread, and have a roof from being a game artist, and if that's ur passion, and if that's what u find fun, then do it smile About hijab, it is very bad not to wear it sad 1 time ago i asked my mom why she diden't wear it. She told me that her stepfarter forced her to wear it all the time, and she don't wanto wear it, but she tells that she knows it's haram not to wear it. It's haram not to wear it, but u can wear it in ur own house, so don't worry. it's only when u go out, shopping ect. I find it a complicated dad of urs :O You got farz to tell him about it. Wearing the hijab means that u covor urself, that u covor ur beauty. That's like the diffrence of a muslim virgin with hijab, and a non-muslim whore. Wearing hijab is very important, and Allah knows why. It's about being the slave of Allah, and obey Allah. Let's say i wanto eat pork, cuz it's very tasty or wutever. That dossen't mean i can eat it. U must put a filter ( a hijab ). Not a burqa, or niqab, just a simple hijab 3nodding U attract wrong people with hijab? :O Is that what ur telling me? Well, i have to be wise and tell u that u have to wear hijab. sad Try to see the beauty in it 3nodding It's like wearing underwears, and not wearing underwears. It's important to wear it. If i were a girl? Sorry i can't get me in that situation sweatdrop rofl U can sometimes see if a girl is religious when u look at her head razz lolz xd Hijab or not hijab 3nodding On boys u can't. Only that thing the Mullah's wear. Well the only problem about hijab is to get a job. Cuz u know, it's hardest for muslims to get work, especially if they are religious. Even for muslim men it's hard, so for girls with hijab it's very hard. But that's the only problem. 3nodding If there are more problems then please say smile thanks alot Pathan,you help me alot. I'm trying to wear it,but its kinda hard. Today i told everyone i was planning to being a game artist,and most of them were surprised and didnt believe me.. So your mother doenst wear a hijaab? But you know she is still a good muslim right? thats what i mean. I know a lot of girls who wear hijaabs,but still whorish with guys.. And im really shy around them,the only thing i talk with them is about games,and thats all. Itts stupid though,everyone thinks i do it for the boys,but i do it since my 4th sad guys are just sometimes funnier to talk about games than girls,youknow. but yea,i want it really to just go open. And i dont do it to be attractive,im too shy for that stuff. I just want some short hair,because long hair gets attraction. Thats all,just easy and natural. Is it that much to ask?
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Posted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 2:22 pm
The_Pathan Twiggy twigs Thank u all heart im so happy to see,that my voice IS heard here. @ The_Pathan: Sister, ur saying u don't wanna go to uni? Yes,i want to follow my dream i had since my childhood; being a game artist,or just a illustration artist. What do u wish to become? Im doing pre-university because i started with it in the time i didnt know what to do with my life,but now ive opened my eyes,and see that i CAN foloow my dreams,to become the artist i want.. Without ur heart? But ain't u a good muslim? I hope im a good muslim,i pray i read the Qu'ran, but i just dont want to wear the hijaab. thats all. Isnt it bad,wearing the hijaab,if you dont want it and you know it? Life is a test, imagine that all humans are false, only u are real, and Allah is looking at what u do, all the time. Drink alcohol? Ya Malik!!! That's very haram. Yea,tell my dad about it. I was always to scared to tell him,but someday i will.. U should do it with the head, the heart, and the faith. Sister, u say ur confused with ur identity? You mean, u wanto follow ur parrents? If ur parrents are good muslims, u become it. If they are bad, then u become bad?No,with my identity i mean,myself. Ayse ( thats my name) the hijaab is not my thing. It's not who i am. I'm always attracting the wrong persons,i dont want to attract. My mom is the only person i trust,and she says to me: if you dont want to wear a hijaab,dont do it. But keep praying and reading. Be honest,if YOU were a girl in this situation,what would you do? About university. I believe your old enough to deside this, and that you are avaiable to eat bread, and have a roof from being a game artist, and if that's ur passion, and if that's what u find fun, then do it smile About hijab, it is very bad not to wear it sad 1 time ago i asked my mom why she diden't wear it. She told me that her stepfarter forced her to wear it all the time, and she don't wanto wear it, but she tells that she knows it's haram not to wear it. It's haram not to wear it, but u can wear it in ur own house, so don't worry. it's only when u go out, shopping ect. I find it a complicated dad of urs :O You got farz to tell him about it. Wearing the hijab means that u covor urself, that u covor ur beauty. That's like the diffrence of a muslim virgin with hijab, and a non-muslim whore. Wearing hijab is very important, and Allah knows why. It's about being the slave of Allah, and obey Allah. Let's say i wanto eat pork, cuz it's very tasty or wutever. That dossen't mean i can eat it. U must put a filter ( a hijab ). Not a burqa, or niqab, just a simple hijab 3nodding U attract wrong people with hijab? :O Is that what ur telling me? Well, i have to be wise and tell u that u have to wear hijab. sad Try to see the beauty in it 3nodding It's like wearing underwears, and not wearing underwears. It's important to wear it. If i were a girl? Sorry i can't get me in that situation sweatdrop rofl U can sometimes see if a girl is religious when u look at her head razz lolz xd Hijab or not hijab 3nodding On boys u can't. Only that thing the Mullah's wear. Well the only problem about hijab is to get a job. Cuz u know, it's hardest for muslims to get work, especially if they are religious. Even for muslim men it's hard, so for girls with hijab it's very hard. But that's the only problem. 3nodding If there are more problems then please say smile Uh.. no.. I can't wear the hijab all of the time because my mom won't let me.. and I am very religious, so thats not all true Zaki, also I know alot of good Muslimahs who dress modestly and still cover the awrah, and they don't wear the hijab. Hijab is important in Islam but, if you look at other countries like Bangladesh not all women wear the hijab.So, does this mean that they are whores?? not really.. in my opinion it's how people interpret the Quran. I still however wish that my mom let me wear it regularly.
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Posted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 6:14 am
Quote: thanks alot Pathan,you help me alot. I'm trying to wear it,but its kinda hard. Today i told everyone i was planning to being a game artist,and most of them were surprised and didnt believe me.. ohh :O but i think it's fine if u become a game artist xd Do it if u think it's good =D Quote: So your mother doenst wear a hijaab? But you know she is still a good muslim right? thats what i mean. I know a lot of girls who wear hijaabs,but still whorish with guys.. And im really shy around them,the only thing i talk with them is about games,and thats all. Itts stupid though,everyone thinks i do it for the boys,but i do it since my 4th guys are just sometimes funnier to talk about games than girls,youknow. No she don't. Yes she is muslim. Good, i dunno. Well atleast she's not a bad one. Yes, i know they can be. But it's good being both good, and wear hijab biggrin Yes, girls ain't much into games razz But still don't talk with them without a hijab. It's not hara mto talk smile Sister, don't ask for short hair. it's haram. But dear sister, please just keep it, i recommend. I know ur a good muslim and a good person biggrin @ Bharaat U maybe got ur mom as a excuse. Fine 3nodding But in Bangladesh people ain't that intelligent about islam, as in other muslim countries like Egypt ect. And no that dossen't mean ur a whore,but u don't always litsen to Allah.
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Posted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 4:56 pm
The_Pathan Quote: thanks alot Pathan,you help me alot. I'm trying to wear it,but its kinda hard. Today i told everyone i was planning to being a game artist,and most of them were surprised and didnt believe me.. ohh :O but i think it's fine if u become a game artist xd Do it if u think it's good =D Quote: So your mother doenst wear a hijaab? But you know she is still a good muslim right? thats what i mean. I know a lot of girls who wear hijaabs,but still whorish with guys.. And im really shy around them,the only thing i talk with them is about games,and thats all. Itts stupid though,everyone thinks i do it for the boys,but i do it since my 4th guys are just sometimes funnier to talk about games than girls,youknow. No she don't. Yes she is muslim. Good, i dunno. Well atleast she's not a bad one. Yes, i know they can be. But it's good being both good, and wear hijab biggrin Yes, girls ain't much into games razz But still don't talk with them without a hijab. It's not hara mto talk smile Sister, don't ask for short hair. it's haram. But dear sister, please just keep it, i recommend. I know ur a good muslim and a good person biggrin @ Bharaat U maybe got ur mom as a excuse. Fine 3nodding But in Bangladesh people ain't that intelligent about islam, as in other muslim countries like Egypt ect. And no that dossen't mean ur a whore,but u don't always litsen to Allah. Ok.. you are right. I try to convince my mom to let me wear it regularly no luck... but as soon as I leave this house which is 3 yrs. too long I'm wearing my Hijab every single day!!! I'm still happy that I can wear it though 3nodding
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