I Want Kids But...

[Tsukira]

My boyfriend does not.
We were in the car and we were listening to music on my iPOD and he turned to the song 'Tie Me Down' by New Boyz.
And he said that is how he feels and laughed.

I laughed as well and I said I didn't care.
Somehow the conversation changed to us talking about kids.
We had the conversation before, but we stopped talking about it.

Mainly, I want kids, but he does not.
He broke it down to the point when he asked me, if he proposed to me right then and there, would I marry him, I said yes, I would.

I know in the long run, he would most likely change his mind.
He wanted kids before, saying that he wanted to have a girl and a boy,
And then all of a sudden changes his mind.

He asked if we would break up over this in years to come if we are still together
And I told him I do not know.
He got upset that I was unsure of it all, and that if it was the other way, he would be sure that he wants to be with me.

Really, I want kids, badly.
I want to be a mother and go through all that.
It hurt a lot knowing that I might not ever get that if I stay with him and he never changes his mind.
In the end, I cried and he tried comforting me, saying he was sorry, but I know he isn't.

We might break up in the end over this.
I don't want to cause I want to have kids with him.
I pray to God that he changes his mind.

Discuss:
Do you want kids?
If so, at what age.
If not, why?  

[Gouki Zusaki]

1 son, a baby boy named Lamar.
I want kids around 24-26 years old.

Im gonna have him with a black girl so he'll be kinda darker than me, caramel color, with pretty eyes and hair like his dad, and im gonna make him love music. Hes gonna be super creative. I cant wait to have a son to take care of! heart  

[Tsukira]

Shut up.
stare  

[Gouki Zusaki]

Tsukira

Shut up.
stare

??
I'm serious...  

[x-MangoIceeT]

Gouki Zusaki

1 son, a baby boy named Lamar.
I want kids around 24-26 years old.

Im gonna have him with a black girl so he'll be kinda darker than me, caramel color, with pretty eyes and hair like his dad, and im gonna make him love music. Hes gonna be super creative. I cant wait to have a son to take care of! heart

same dream as mine...

hmm...
kinda scary. eek  

[Tsukira]

Gouki Zusaki

Tsukira

Shut up.
stare

??
I'm serious...

I know.
I am being a jealous b***h right now.  

[eBoz74]

i almost had a kid last year but lost it but id have kids now  

[Lil_Toymachinegirl]

mm i always wanted 20 kids
but now i just want 3 kids only
age like around 24-27
2 boys and 1 girl
i would name one of the boy Deloreon Juan
and the other boy i can let the guy choose the name
and for the girl Nia Jordan  

[Tsukira]

eBoz74

i almost had a kid last year but lost it but id have kids now

You never told me that.

Lil: That is so cute.  

[x-MangoIceeT]

I was pregnant 3 times
But I lost the babies crying  

[Lil_Toymachinegirl]

Tsukira

eBoz74

i almost had a kid last year but lost it but id have kids now

You never told me that.

Lil: That is so cute.

oh wow didn't know that either
and thanks haha  

[Lil_Toymachinegirl]

k3ki-x

I was pregnant 3 times
But I lost the babies crying

Omg you poor thing!!!!!!
wow well hope all goes good
for the next one  

[x-MangoIceeT]

I don't plan on having kids anytime soon. 4laugh  

[HACKEDzusaki]

Gouki Zusaki

1 son, a baby boy named Lamar.
I want kids around 24-26 years old.

Im gonna have him with a black girl so he'll be kinda darker than me, caramel color, with pretty eyes and hair like his dad, and im gonna make him love music. Hes gonna be super creative. I cant wait to have a son to take care of! heart

 

[Jared3121]

I am too young to have kids now but maybe in my twenties I think so.