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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 9:13 am
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 7:11 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 06, 2011 9:02 am
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Posted: Sat Aug 06, 2011 9:30 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 06, 2011 9:35 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 06, 2011 9:39 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 06, 2011 9:40 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2011 4:16 am
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Hemlock_Thorne Hello IWON Guildies, Can you please help me by giving me tips & advice to deal/cope with rejection? After nalaman ng 2 kong kaibigan na I'm gay , one of them unfriended me in FB at di na nagpakita sakin at ang isa naman di na ako kinakausap o binabati kahit batihin o kausapin ko siya. Feeling hurt, angry, sad, despair, halo-halong emosyon. Need ko lang ng ways to heal at move on sa rejection nila ng totoong ako.
Sa totoo lang, you're brave and I salute you talaga.. It's really hard to tell the truth lalo na sa mga taong takot kang mawala sila.. Pero you still choose to be honest with them..yun nga lang iba yung naging outcome.. At first maybe they're just shock sa nalaman.. pero if they really are you're friends tatanggapin ka nila maging sino ka man.. I may not have the right or in the position to say this.. just teach yourself na wag umasa sa kanila.. there are certain factors kasi na pinagdadaanan ang tao just to reach ung point of acceptance..
1-Denial= at first iisipin nila na hindi totoo.. or hindi nila matanggap ung fact na ur gay kasi nakasanayan nila qng ano ka dati...result ireremove ka nila sa friends lists sa FB or hindi ka muna kakausapin 2- Anger= sa una magagalit sila sau dahil sa una hindi mo sinabi na ur gay.. kaya may tendency lalayuan ka nila or hindi ka kakausapin.. 3- Bargaining= "Sana kung hindi gay si ganun hanggang ngaun siguro okay pa kami" pwede yan din isipin ng 2.. usually dyan ung mga words na "cguro" "baka" etc..and ito ung time na unti unti na nila narrealize ung fact na gay ka... 4- Acceptance= ito ung last, finally napagisip isip na nila na they should accept you as who you are..
Ang advice q po sau..its not your fault if gay ka.. actually gaya ng sinabi q..saludo aq sau..mahira talaga maging honest lalo na if alam mo ung magiging reaction nila.. isipin mo na lang at least naging honest ka,,and its not your lost..its them! kasi nawalan sila ng katulad mo na isang true friend..
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Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2011 4:37 am
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Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2011 4:08 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2011 9:45 pm
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Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 11:19 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 12:57 am
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