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 Posted: Mon Jun 17, 2013 12:14 pm
So I finally crumbled and joined a datin' website. I made my little profile and described myself as accurately as possible.
Not sure what else to say. While I don't usually think such things work, I am startin' to feel kinda desperate and hopeless, mainly because I feel like I'm so weird, I have no chance of meetin' the right person in person, so goin' online broadens my chances.
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Posted: Mon Jun 17, 2013 12:33 pm
Humans have a pretty broad capacity for love. Just become good friends and move on from there.
Though, I suppose your particular situation complicates things... friends might be totally ok with your identity as a friend, but might not be able to get past that as an intimate relationship... sweatdrop
I kinda gave up on the whole love thing. I'm more interested in a good friend I can live with, cuddle with, and sure "sleep with". But love..... maybe it'll come someday.
And even if I had just the good friend and cuddle partner, I could find other people to sleep with if the need arose...
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Posted: Mon Jun 17, 2013 12:34 pm
That said: good luck! Nothing wrong with trying new things.
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Posted: Mon Jun 17, 2013 12:35 pm
KazeRin Humans have a pretty broad capacity for love. Just become good friends and move on from there. Though, I suppose your particular situation complicates things... friends might be totally ok with your identity as a friend, but might not be able to get past that as an intimate relationship... sweatdrop I kinda gave up on the whole love thing. I'm more interested in a good friend I can live with, cuddle with, and sure "sleep with". But love..... maybe it'll come someday. And even if I had just the good friend and cuddle partner, I could find other people to sleep with if the need arose... Yeah, that's my main issue. While friends are good and all, I wanna spend my life with someone and do all sorts of crazy and fun things, but with how I am, I fear that there's no one that would be a good fit.
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Posted: Mon Jun 17, 2013 12:43 pm
Semok KazeRin Humans have a pretty broad capacity for love. Just become good friends and move on from there. Though, I suppose your particular situation complicates things... friends might be totally ok with your identity as a friend, but might not be able to get past that as an intimate relationship... sweatdrop I kinda gave up on the whole love thing. I'm more interested in a good friend I can live with, cuddle with, and sure "sleep with". But love..... maybe it'll come someday. And even if I had just the good friend and cuddle partner, I could find other people to sleep with if the need arose... Yeah, that's my main issue. While friends are good and all, I wanna spend my life with someone and do all sorts of crazy and fun things, but with how I am, I fear that there's no one that would be a good fit. There's always someone.. And lots of someones. It's just not as easy when you don't conform to the binary biological norm.
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Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 12:21 am
KazeRin Humans have a pretty broad capacity for love. Just become good friends and move on from there. Though, I suppose your particular situation complicates things... friends might be totally ok with your identity as a friend, but might not be able to get past that as an intimate relationship... sweatdrop I kinda gave up on the whole love thing. I'm more interested in a good friend I can live with, cuddle with, and sure "sleep with". But love..... maybe it'll come someday. And even if I had just the good friend and cuddle partner, I could find other people to sleep with if the need arose... YOU SAID HUMANS? Does that mean you aren't human? O.O
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Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 8:10 am
Aoi the Crossdresser KazeRin Humans have a pretty broad capacity for love. Just become good friends and move on from there. Though, I suppose your particular situation complicates things... friends might be totally ok with your identity as a friend, but might not be able to get past that as an intimate relationship... sweatdrop I kinda gave up on the whole love thing. I'm more interested in a good friend I can live with, cuddle with, and sure "sleep with". But love..... maybe it'll come someday. And even if I had just the good friend and cuddle partner, I could find other people to sleep with if the need arose... YOU SAID HUMANS? Does that mean you aren't human? O.O No. I'm implying that all humans have a broad capacity for love. As in, it's a human trait. Regardless of ethnicity or upbringing or whatever. I don't know about other animals. They theoretically don't understand love. They work like we're supposed to - we have sex and make babies, thus furthering their species.
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Posted: Wed Jun 19, 2013 8:42 pm
KazeRin! You killed Ochi's Mochi! razz
Dating sites are difficult. I have joined many, and been on many awkward dates. Can't say I had too much success on them. I used pof.com and okcupid.com. What made me most frustrated, is that everyone's profile is the same... "I like music, having fun and breathing air." Psh.
I found my dream girl online, though. In a forum-site of all places. Not Gaia. A much darker kinkier place than this. Mwahaha.
The way I look at it... I'm a puzzle piece, and there are millions of other puzzle pieces out there. The right one fits without much effort, whereas the wrong piece won't fit no matter how hard you force it. So let it be, and let it happen naturally. If you approach women with the intention of only friendship, they will let down their walls and you can really get to know them, and if you're compatible it will happen naturally.
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Posted: Thu Jun 20, 2013 2:01 am
ochimaru KazeRin! You killed Ochi's Mochi! razz Dating sites are difficult. I have joined many, and been on many awkward dates. Can't say I had too much success on them. I used pof.com and okcupid.com. What made me most frustrated, is that everyone's profile is the same... "I like music, having fun and breathing air." Psh. I found my dream girl online, though. In a forum-site of all places. Not Gaia. A much darker kinkier place than this. Mwahaha. The way I look at it... I'm a puzzle piece, and there are millions of other puzzle pieces out there. The right one fits without much effort, whereas the wrong piece won't fit no matter how hard you force it. So let it be, and let it happen naturally. If you approach women with the intention of only friendship, they will let down their walls and you can really get to know them, and if you're compatible it will happen naturally. AHAHAHAHA OH GOD YOU CAME BACK FROM THE GRAVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE ARE YOU WILLING TO JOIN THE ROP PIRATES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?????????????? WE WOULD LOVE YOU TO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! biggrin Yes I Have been watching too much one piecec.
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Posted: Thu Jun 20, 2013 5:31 am
If there was a website for cave-dwelling ninjas that worship their belly-buttons than I would surely join.
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Posted: Thu Jun 20, 2013 8:45 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2013 3:58 am
But seriously folks! I still meet women the old fashioned way; wait for my friends to dump 'em before I swoop in to pick at the left-overs.
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Posted: Fri Jun 21, 2013 6:30 am
portraitofaudacity But seriously folks! I still meet women the old fashioned way; wait for my friends to dump 'em before I swoop in to pick at the left-overs. *thumbs up*
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Posted: Sat Jun 22, 2013 12:42 am
SO WILL YOU 2 JOIN THE ROP PIRATES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!???????????? biggrin
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Posted: Wed Jun 26, 2013 7:10 am
Guess I'll do a little update. I've now talked to three people, and one person added me as a buddy and wants to chat with me on some sort of messenger so she can learn more about me. Another person and I have also been talkin' about nothing but pokemon for a while, so that's fun.
I also got a few winks from some people, so I guess that's nice.
But yeah. Don't know how I feel about it, because I haven't really felt any sort of spark. I feel kinda bad because one person at least seems to be pretty interested in me, and I feel kinda...indifferent, I guess? It's kinda a fear of mine to have someone like me that I don't like back, because I don't like hurtin' people or rejectin' 'em.
I know that I can't really judge a person from only a few exchanges of messages, but usually there's an initial kinda spark I feel when I talk to someone I like. I dunno. confused
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