Alrighty....im not a fan of drama ....but humor me

[Forever_the_child]

Yes i have useless ... pointless..high school drama *gasp*
I have learned that it's pretty much unavoidable.....
ANYWAYS the reason im posting this is because it is a mess!

my friend anna went out with this guy....jerry..(no duh they= fake names)
but they were all good but constantly making-out and what not....so we find out last friday that he has been cheating on her...so we all had a huge pow wow to keep her spirits up.....anyways shes thinking of giving the looser another chance and what-not...which is kinda good i guess but she's my besty and i know that she deserves better!

Questions, Comments, Complaints?



Btw im kristin and im an unactive guild member sweatdrop stressed  

[Forever_the_child]

well...this is good.....  

[zz1000zz]

Lately this guild has been fairly slow, so try to give people some time. Especially seeing as many members may not be interested in the topic.  

[Dragonfire Goddess]

I guess it's her decision and you can't make it for her, but if you're going to advise her she should know that if he cheated on her once he's more than likely to do it again.  

[Hel Daughter of Loki]

Yeah, my best friend did the same thing... but what can you do? if you tell them to do something they usually do the opisite, so just be there for her. Give her your opinion, but you can't force it...

 

[ketchakik]

i'd advise her not to....
guys who cheat will keep cheating 9 times out of ten it has nothing to do with the woman (hell supermodels get cheated on like crazy)
she'd be better off with a guy who cant even concive of cheating..  

[The Reused]

hmm. i have no experience on relationships, so i dont know  

[R-e-d _ C a r e s s]

Her life, her descision. In my opinion, she shouldn't be giving him a second chance. Cheating isn't something that should be condoned (and yes, giving them a second chance is telling them that they really can, essentially, get away with it). Also, it sounds like he's been doing this for an extended period of time - doubly un-okay. Your best friend should not be with this person anymore. She definitely deserves someone with the maturity to choose to like her and only her and the willpower to then stick to that decision. Why on earth should she give him another chance? Doesn't sound like he deserves it, from what you've said.

If it were up to me, I'd dump him and then pretty much broadcast to the rest of the female population in the area that he's a cheater who shouldn't be trusted beyond a one-nighter. But that's just me... I suppose I'm a little sensitive about the whole "cheating" thing (bad experience). But condoning it just continues the problem. Bleh...Cheaters... ><  

[xdemonicallyxyours13x]

dramallama cheese_whine dramallama

 

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[littlewonder]

Perhaps she's trying to avoid the truth that he can't be trusted.  

[TheWitchGotRobin]

I'd say she should confront him about it then gage his reaction. If he sounds really sorry then give him another shot, but if it happens again, drop him. Period.

Of course, if he gets an attitude about it then totally drop him, no question.  

[Dante Omura]

Darkness Is My Life's Blood

To quote the Manciple's Tale from The Canterbury Tales

The Manciple's Tale

One who is faithful, will never cheat, so it is useless to keep an eye on them, however one who is unfaithful, will cheat no matter how well watched

basically don't let her give him another chance once a cheater always a cheater.

Light Is My Deaths Curse

 

[celtic_faerie]

The Vampire Ruler

Darkness Is My Life's Blood

To quote the Manciple's Tale from The Canterbury Tales

The Manciple's Tale

One who is faithful, will never cheat, so it is useless to keep an eye on them, however one who is unfaithful, will cheat no matter how well watched

basically don't let her give him another chance once a cheater always a cheater.

Light Is My Deaths Curse

not true! scream

ok, here's the deal, if he's done it once, it could be a mistake. if he's done it twice, it could mean that he didn't learn from his first mistake. but if it's a constant thing, then, yeah, "always a cheater."

but here's the thing about that "once a cheater always a cheater" thing: i've cheated on my boyfriend twice. i know, i know, "how horrible, how does this not make my point?" both times, the guy got me drunk. they both knew that i liked them, but wouldn't do anything with them because i had a boyfriend and was/am in love with him. i learned from my mistakes and truly am sorry. plus, that was a point in my life when i was on an emotional roller coaster. not that i'm saying these are excuses, i'm saying these might have been reasons for my actions. the first time, i broke up with my boyfriend because i didn't want to hurt him as bad as i knew i would. the second time, i told him almost right away.
if he shows no remorse, than he is that "cheating" stereotype. let him have another chance.  

[Forever_the_child]

THANKIES MUCHAS GUYS!!!!!!!