Um... Death is just another part of life, and not a paticularly pleasent one (at least for those who didn't do the dying) at that. I've seen the dead first hand, and it's just... death. Everything in them is gone, whiped clean, destroyed and abandoned...
Honestly, I don't mean any disrespect, but I just don't understand people who perpetuate such stereotypically goth behavior...
Oh, and you spelled rules wrong (don't worry about it though, dyslexic so I'm constently spelling things incorrectly).