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 Posted: Tue May 08, 2018 5:26 pm
Hmmm....I feel yucky again today so don't think it's the cookie. Maybe I'm just tired/need better sleep and the heat doesn't help.... 
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Posted: Tue May 08, 2018 9:12 pm
Sid the Bear Hmmm....I feel yucky again today so don't think it's the cookie. Maybe I'm just tired/need better sleep and the heat doesn't help....
emotion_hug
Been drinking plenty of water?
Aye... Heat does not help at all.
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Posted: Wed May 09, 2018 3:55 pm
Wa-onderer_1
emotion_hug
Been drinking plenty of water?
Aye... Heat does not help at all.
=^_^=
I feel like I have been drinking as much as normal so I don't think it's from dehydration...I feel relatively fine today (a bit of a headache because of the rain but not feeling yucky). 
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Posted: Wed May 09, 2018 9:21 pm
Sid the Bear Wa-onderer_1
emotion_hug
Been drinking plenty of water?
Aye... Heat does not help at all.
=^_^=
I feel like I have been drinking as much as normal so I don't think it's from dehydration...I feel relatively fine today (a bit of a headache because of the rain but not feeling yucky).
It is not just "dehydration" but I read somewhere that if someone does not drink, at least, 8 Eight ounces of water ( 2 Liters ) daily, they usually feel tired and have occasional headaches.
emotion_hug
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Posted: Thu May 10, 2018 4:29 pm
Wa-onderer_1
It is not just "dehydration" but I read somewhere that if someone does not drink, at least, 8 Eight ounces of water ( 2 Liters ) daily, they usually feel tired and have occasional headaches.
emotion_hug
=^_^=
Yea, I used to not drink enough water and had those problems but I started making sure I drink enough water last year (my then boyfriend was super good at drinking lots of water). 
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Posted: Thu May 10, 2018 9:17 pm
Sid the Bear Wa-onderer_1
It is not just "dehydration" but I read somewhere that if someone does not drink, at least, 8 Eight ounces of water ( 2 Liters ) daily, they usually feel tired and have occasional headaches.
emotion_hug
=^_^=
Yea, I used to not drink enough water and had those problems but I started making sure I drink enough water last year (my then boyfriend was super good at drinking lots of water).
emotion_brofist
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2018 8:16 pm
Welp, looks like my boyfriend and I might be breaking up. We had a discussion today and it didn't go well. I gave him some things to consider but I don't think he'll ultimately change his mind about what he wants (he thinks he wants to stay single forever even though he didn't say that when we started dating). I feel like I was misled and I'm now going to have wasted a year an a half and have given up an opportunity to date another awesome guy who clearly wanted the same things as I do because of this. And I have to pretend everything is ok at dinner with family tomorrow at my parents' with him not being there cause he needs to think about things before we meet up again to make a final decision. Ugh. I thought last year was tough but this year as been kicking my butt in almost every aspect of my life with things out of my control even though I've work so darn hard to try to stay positive. I almost feel like I should stop caring and start just doing what's easiest instead of what I think is right for me. Like why am I trying so hard only to get nowhere? Sorry for the rambling and being so depressing but I just feel so tired of it all.
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Posted: Fri May 11, 2018 9:15 pm
Sid the Bear Welp, looks like my boyfriend and I might be breaking up. We had a discussion today and it didn't go well. I gave him some things to consider but I don't think he'll ultimately change his mind about what he wants (he thinks he wants to stay single forever even though he didn't say that when we started dating). I feel like I was misled and I'm now going to have wasted a year an a half and have given up an opportunity to date another awesome guy who clearly wanted the same things as I do because of this. And I have to pretend everything is ok at dinner with family tomorrow at my parents' with him not being there cause he needs to think about things before we meet up again to make a final decision. Ugh. I thought last year was tough but this year as been kicking my butt in almost every aspect of my life with things out of my control even though I've work so darn hard to try to stay positive. I almost feel like I should stop caring and start just doing what's easiest instead of what I think is right for me. Like why am I trying so hard only to get nowhere? Sorry for the rambling and being so depressing but I just feel so tired of it all.
sad D-@-M-N... don't let it get to you nor bring you down. It is HIS FAULT, not yours. You tried and tried several times but not him.
emotion_hug
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2018 7:58 am
Wa-onderer_1
sad D-@-M-N... don't let it get to you nor bring you down. It is HIS FAULT, not yours. You tried and tried several times but not him.
emotion_hug
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Yea, it's like he expects me to hold him accountable and then when I try to point things out to him, he uses me as something tangible to blame/to justify his own reverse psychology pattern of thinking rather than seriously considering what I said and acknowledging that I'm just trying to help him out like he asked me to. Damned if I do, damned if I don't. I'm not saying I'm perfect or it's all his fault but it's like he's bent on self-sabotaging (he admitted as much but conveniently forgets that he did) without truly doing anything to change that, then there's nothing I can do about it except move on if he doesn't want to really face reality/put in the effort/make this a priority. It just sucks that people have this unrealistic expectation that a year and a half of dating means everything should be figured out and it's all happy ever after when in honestly that is when reality really settles in and the foundation to a long lasting solid relationship starts getting built. They say they understand but aren't really accepting reality. They delude themselves thinking that 'it's just not working out' as a way out rather than making the harder choice of putting in the effort and then wonder why they can't find someone they can continually connect with and that everyone they date/marry (& then divorce) are better as just friends. On the plus side, I'm handling this fairly well. It's uncanny how I can be so logical and have my priorities straight (focusing on things I need to do rather than dwelling on things out of the control/wallowing in self pity). I might be part Vulcan if Vulcans are real (which they aren't).
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Posted: Sat May 12, 2018 9:19 pm
Sid the Bear Wa-onderer_1
sad D-@-M-N... don't let it get to you nor bring you down. It is HIS FAULT, not yours. You tried and tried several times but not him.
emotion_hug
=^_^=
Yea, it's like he expects me to hold him accountable and then when I try to point things out to him, he uses me as something tangible to blame/to justify his own reverse psychology pattern of thinking rather than seriously considering what I said and acknowledging that I'm just trying to help him out like he asked me to. Damned if I do, damned if I don't. I'm not saying I'm perfect or it's all his fault but it's like he's bent on self-sabotaging (he admitted as much but conveniently forgets that he did) without truly doing anything to change that, then there's nothing I can do about it except move on if he doesn't want to really face reality/put in the effort/make this a priority. It just sucks that people have this unrealistic expectation that a year and a half of dating means everything should be figured out and it's all happy ever after when in honestly that is when reality really settles in and the foundation to a long lasting solid relationship starts getting built. They say they understand but aren't really accepting reality. They delude themselves thinking that 'it's just not working out' as a way out rather than making the harder choice of putting in the effort and then wonder why they can't find someone they can continually connect with and that everyone they date/marry (& then divorce) are better as just friends. On the plus side, I'm handling this fairly well. It's uncanny how I can be so logical and have my priorities straight (focusing on things I need to do rather than dwelling on things out of the control/wallowing in self pity). I might be part Vulcan if Vulcans are real (which they aren't).
emotion_hug emotion_brofist =^_^=
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Posted: Sun May 13, 2018 1:11 pm
Wa-onderer_1 emotion_hug emotion_brofist =^_^= Somehow we managed to work things out. I guess at the very essence of the issue was whether we both love each other enough despite the uncertainty/doubts and all the things we still have to work on/figure out. We do and we're frankly not having any fundamental issues (we haven't said anything absolutely hurtful to one another, we're in agreement on the major facets of life, we communicate and are honest with one another etc). So relieved.
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Posted: Mon May 14, 2018 8:33 pm
Sid the Bear Somehow we managed to work things out. I guess at the very essence of the issue was whether we both love each other enough despite the uncertainty/doubts and all the things we still have to work on/figure out. We do and we're frankly not having any fundamental issues (we haven't said anything absolutely hurtful to one another, we're in agreement on the major facets of life, we communicate and are honest with one another etc). So relieved.
cool emotion_brofist emotion_hug
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Posted: Tue May 15, 2018 3:56 pm
Wa-onderer_1
cool emotion_brofist emotion_hug
=^_^=
It's so hot today (and will be all week) so I made iced milk tea (with some coconut jelly). We're also moving up a floor at work by the end of Friday so I've started packing my desk and I'm surprised I don't have more stuff having worked there for 7 years. At least it'll make moving later this year to the other building easier (other building's floor isn't ready but we can't stay on our current floor because we're renting it out).
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Posted: Tue May 15, 2018 9:30 pm
Sid the Bear Wa-onderer_1
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It's so hot today (and will be all week) so I made iced milk tea (with some coconut jelly). We're also moving up a floor at work by the end of Friday so I've started packing my desk and I'm surprised I don't have more stuff having worked there for 7 years. At least it'll make moving later this year to the other building easier (other building's floor isn't ready but we can't stay on our current floor because we're renting it out).
Been pretty hot here too. Surprised that it didn't storm but had some rain.
Hope that it will all work out and you can get away from that arsehole that loves to play loud noises'; also, to get away from that alarms.
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Posted: Wed May 16, 2018 4:55 pm
Wa-onderer_1
Been pretty hot here too. Surprised that it didn't storm but had some rain.
Hope that it will all work out and you can get away from that arsehole that loves to play loud noises'; also, to get away from that alarms.
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I'm moving offices so that won't affect the loud neighbor and alarms which is at home. Unfortunately, I can't sell my apartment right now because of a special assessment so I won't be moving house anytime soon.
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