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 Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2012 9:00 pm
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Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2012 2:06 am
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Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2012 4:51 am
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Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2012 4:51 am
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Dear Dr. Love,
I really need yer advice, meron kong kaaway. simula 1st yr. hanggang 2nd yr. nung nag 3rd yr. kame, may mga nagsabe saken na gusto nya ko. tapos nagsimula na syang magpakita na he's interested sobrang saya ko, hindi ko alam na gusto ko na dn pala sya, dati pa. pero nung time na un, may na lilink na sakanya. :c hindi ko alam kung seryoso ba talaga sya, pero ako ung pinili nya, at pagdating namen ng 4th yr. naging close kame nung babaeng gusto nya, SUPER close, hindi ko alam kung sinong pipiliin, nahihirapan ako. Mahal ko sya pero mahal ko na dn ung kaibigan ko. i need yr help.
heart iAgua
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Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2012 3:23 pm
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BitesizeNikki Dear Dr. Love,
Hmm. Hindi ko po alam kung san mag sisimula. Ka c napaka gulo ng isip ko. xD hahaha. hmm, eto na, wen im in 3rd yr. high school, transfer student ako sa bagong school, so natural wala pa mxadong kakilala. so nung nag botohan sa JICA OFFICER sa school namin, JICA rooms (STAR SECTION ROOMS) na love at first sight aq, tawagin na natn cyang "J" peo 4th yr. na cya nun. top1 sa room nila. and my naging kaClose aq sa room na classmate ko name "R" at nalaman niyang my gusto ako kay "J". naging close nga kami ni "R" and that time, niligawan ako ni "R" . seryoso cya tlga. and si "J" seryoso sa studies. So, sinagot ko si "R" minahal ko na siya. dahil pinakita niya sa simpleng paraan na mahal niya ko. at nasabi niya sakin na mag kapatid pala sila ni "J" D; Oh noh !!! Pero, until now my gusto padn ako kay "J" ang kuya ng boyfriend ko ngaun si "R". Sabihin na natn kailngan ko na lang kalimutan si "J", pero medyo mahirap eh. Dr. Love, help naman ? gonk ; |
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Posted: Sun Jan 22, 2012 9:38 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 5:21 am
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Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 5:00 pm
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raiica Dear Dr. Love, Last summer, may katext-mate akong guy. As in super kulit niya. Lalo na nung nag exchange na kami ng Friendster and Multiply. Sobrang kulit. Cute siya pero nakakaasar na yung kulit eh. Ang gusto niya, lagi mong siyang katext,,, basta maiirita ka. Eh nung isang araw sa LRT, on the way to school na ko, may nakita akng guy. Familiar, nung nakita ko ng malapitan, siya na pala yon!! Grabe!! Sobrang gwapo pala niya sa Personal.. neutral eh after nung summer hindi na kami mag katext crying Anong gagawin ko DR. LOVE?!?!? Hindi na siya nag rereply sakin.
Dear raiica,
Aaahh crush ang pagtawag dyan, normal yan, it's a sign of growing up! smile What is a crush? It is a feeling of extreme fondness for someone. Does that mean that you want to be friends with that person? Or is it that he/she arouses the same emotions that you have when he's with you? No, definitely not! Though not true love, crush does have a touch of romantic feelings. May be you really like someone and now you know that (for some reason) you can't nurture those emotions any longer. Don't think that your crush is the Mr. Perfect. Well, actually no one is. So you didn't lose something that was one of its kind. It is important to understand that what is meant for you will come to you even if you don't know whether it exists, and what goes away was never really yours. Hindi naman masama kung minsan ikaw naman ang mag-effort even just to say hi, tutal you are friends all along.. But of course i understand..babae ka, nahihiya ka kung ikaw mag-first move, why not send a joke or pick up line and pretend that you group messaged it to everyone, malay mo magreply dba? biggrin and I hope he does. aabangan ko ang susunod na kabanata ng lovestory mo.. until then do not forget to study hard, you're still young pa naman, goodluck blaugh
Love,
DR LOVE ng IWONCLAN
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Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 5:12 pm
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Silentkill_xXxo22 dear dr. love.. ganito ksi.. my gf akoh ngaun.. ilang beses nah koh nkipagbreak skanya kya lng bnabalikan koh dn.. ksi naaawa akoh.. tska takot dn akoh.. pano ksi sbi nya magssuicide daw sya.. eek kya lng hndi nah koh masaya.. pano koh mki2pagbreak ng hndi sya msa2ktan.. ptulong poh.. PLEASE.. -- Edward.. =]
Dear,Silentkill_xXxo22,
Do not get sucked into all her problems. People use their problems as a way of manipulating people so be careful. The only way to do this is with honesty, explain to her that you care deeply and will always be her friend, but that the relationship is not what you want anymore and that you feel it best to break up.
If you are close to her parents, maybe also alert them to the fact that she has expressed suicidal feelings. (I seriously suggest you communicate with them)
Although you may have strong feelings for her, you cannot put your life on hold if you truly feel it is better for you to not be a couple anymore.
It is never easy to end a relationship, but when it needs to be done, then it is best done quickly and honestly, as dragging it out only makes it harder and more painful.
All the best to you smile
Love,
DR LOVE ng IWONCLAN |
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Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 5:30 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 6:18 pm
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 5:12 pm
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Holy Knollie ↠ нoly , ιт'ѕ ĸɴollιe ! ↞
= = = = = = = ❉ ❈ ❉ = = = = = = = • • • I solemnly swear that I am up to no good... Dear Dr Love,
It's not really my love problems but it does concern me. I would appreciate your advice.
Okay, the story is that I have two friends, both of them are guys. I used to have a crush on Guy #1 but I've decided to move on from him because I realised that we are too different and it would probably be best that we just remain good friends.
Recently, I found out that Guy #2 is bi-sexual and has a crush on Guy #1. He says that he wants to move on from Guy #1 but couldn't because he's in love with him too much. However, we all know that Guy #1 is straight. Guy #2 has asked for my advice on how to move on but I don't know what to tell him. neutral
Please help! gonk
... Mischief managed. • • • = = = = = = = ❉ ❈ ❉ = = = = = = =
Dear Holy Knollie,
Moving on should not be a risk but a challenge. It is when you decide to stay locked forever in the clutches of this foolish desire that you will stand the risk of falling in too deep, where you may never be able to get back and start over again.I admire your persistence in pursuing to move on
About Guy #2, I have always believed that no one should judge homosexuals in their quest for what they justify as normal relationships. The love that they feel for their partners is the same kind of affection that any of us would feel for the opposite sex. The passion, the intensity and the genuineness of that feeling are the same, except that the other is focused on someone of the same sex, in a relationship which our society doesn’t explicitly condone.
In any relationship, there are moments when one wakes up to a realization that he or she is no longer capable of living up to his or her side of the bargain. There is no permanence in human relationships. It is only our bond with God that will remain unchanged.
Affairs of the third kind don’t always have happy endings not because the couples didn’t share love. Perhaps they shared that love for the wrong reasons. God has created man and woman to complement each other in a relationship that will find its fulfillment in a family. God never intended a man to have a family with another man, or a woman with another woman.
Everything that happens in our lives is a calling from God. Even during the most difficult times, God works in us to strengthen and make us better persons. There is nothing crooked that HE cannot straighten. There is no mistake that HE cannot forgive. There is no life that HE cannot change. All of us are cleansed in a process of pain that may sometimes seem unbearable. But God never fails to give us the courage to go through it. Life is too short. Tell guy # 2 don’t waste it in tears and misery. be happy, for no matter how many times we fall, God will always give us a fresh start in finding the right person, the right way, in the right relationship.
Sincerely.
DR LOVE ng IWONCLAN |
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 5:44 pm
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De ShouT Dear Dr. Love, may gusto po akong idate dito sa gaia .. panu ko ba sasabihin sa kanya or panu ko sya makukumbinsi na bigyan ako ng time kahit saglit lng.. sweatdrop
Dear De ShouT,
Asking a girl for a date should be easy. All you have to do is ask, right? But it's not always that simple if you're shy or nervous. At some point though, you're going to have to step up and be bold, or forever be left to wonder what would have happened.
I too have fallen inlove once from a fellow Gaian, we've became the best of friends, shared love and interest, but it's sad that not all things last good. But that person will always have a space in my heart, although we're both looking now in different paths..
Anyways for tips, are you rooting to meet this girl in personal or just plain gaia romance? Since this is cyberworld, Well you make certain that you start up a good conversation because girls love it when they can hold a good conversation with a girl.
Send her flowers via gift or trade (old fashion panliligaw), give her inspiring quotes, help her with her quest / problems as well.. find a perfect spot in gaia towns, bring her there and tell her how you really feel. Make sure that you look neat and clean and maybe even dress up a little more than you would normally would to show that you were looking forward to the date.
Hope I helped. Goodluck biggrin
Sincerely,
DR LOVE ng IWONCLAN |
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