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Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 8:51 am
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 7:27 am
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Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 3:17 am
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 10:14 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 27, 2008 6:49 am
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Posted: Wed Oct 29, 2008 7:35 am
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I believe that unaggressive love spells are fine. While forcing someone to change their entire life, by dumping their current partner and turning to you is certainly bad, I think that a spell that would make someone interested in you subtly and let them draw their own conclusions about that interest would be fine.
Usually, I define good and bad like this:
If it's making them interested in you, it's probably bad. However, if it's just making yourself more interesting to them, while leaving free will in tact to make a choice, I think that's acceptable.
It's kind of hard to explain, I guess.
On a related note: I feel that love spells made to rekindle passion or bind two people who are already together and may be drifting apart are perfectly fine. Such people obviously want to be together, or they wouldn't be, and I feel in that sense, it isn't harming anyone.
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 6:18 pm
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here's how i look at them: i did one in february of 2007, mainly because i didnt want to be alone on valentine's day (silly 16 year old me biggrin ). i found one that said something along the lines of "bring the best love to me." Some dude (from myspace) asked me out the next day, but i said no (and he kept asking for weeks). this other guy that i liked asked me out too, so i started going out with him. he cheated on me two weeks in, i broke up with him, and that other guy (from myspace) kept asking me out. i gave in finally, and we've been together since march of 2007.
so, some loves spells are okay (it did bring the best love to me, he's made me more mentally stable), but others, directed at specific people or group of people, are not good, because they control/direct people's thoughts, if they're strong enough.
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Posted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 9:11 pm
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Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 11:46 pm
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Posted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 6:44 pm
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Posted: Fri Apr 01, 2011 7:58 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 02, 2011 8:20 am
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I think a lot of people misuse the word love when talking about love spells. Most times, especially if they are talking about a particular person, they are talking about lust or envy, and not love. If you really love someone, why would you want to trick, coerce or force them into doing anything?
I think that the danger with love spells is that you can get what you ask for, but what you ask for may not be what you need or even what you truly want. I know I've desired people that probably weren't good for me at all.
I think using spellwork to help yourself work through personal issues with love and accepting love is a good thing. I think that a lot of people have a lot of hangups regarding love and their own worth, and that many aspects of their life are benefited by working through these hangups.
I don't even really have a problem with using a spell to allow someone to notice you...but I would stop there. Kind of like a "hey, I exist, check me out' type of thing, but then the ball's in your court and you have to take it from there.
I wouldn't consider doing a spell to bind together two people already in a relationship, not even one to bind my husband to me if I felt he was drifting away. Perhaps a spell to help facilitate a discussion between us regarding the status of our relationship. But I have been in a lot of relationships that were held together by things that weren't honest compassion and love, and being locked into a relationship like that makes me shudder.
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Posted: Sat Apr 02, 2011 4:18 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 02, 2011 5:44 pm
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