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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 8:11 pm
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Zaaki squinty1989 Why do you like to make it confusing? xd She loves me like hell and we both want to live together forever and ever! Yet I can't marry her now and we have to wait. After studying lotsa ratri posts i can translete. Ratri thinks that you MUST love someone to marry the person... But i know that to love someone is not that important.
wait, hold on, unconditional love is no longer IMPORTANT to CONSIDER in a possible marriage? It's no longer a primary factor in joining a man and a woman in marriage? Then what the heck is?! Seriously, that just sounds messed up. People ought to marry someone they love, not just because tradition dictates them to marry. There are so many kids that live in messed up families because their parents shouldn't have married...ugh, it's terrible. And do you know how terribly high divorce rates are? How high domestic abuse is?
Good, glad to hear that.
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Posted: Fri May 23, 2008 8:51 am
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Zaaki squinty1989 Why do you like to make it confusing? xd She loves me like hell and we both want to live together forever and ever! Yet I can't marry her now and we have to wait. After studying lotsa ratri posts i can translete. Ratri thinks that you MUST love someone to marry the person... But i know that to love someone is not that important.
For your informtaion.. you read everything in a wrong way because i did mention that i love her. and she loves me. |
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Posted: Sat May 24, 2008 2:41 am
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squinty1989 Zaaki squinty1989 Why do you like to make it confusing? xd She loves me like hell and we both want to live together forever and ever! Yet I can't marry her now and we have to wait. After studying lotsa ratri posts i can translete. Ratri thinks that you MUST love someone to marry the person... But i know that to love someone is not that important. For your informtaion.. you read everything in a wrong way because i did mention that i love her. and she loves me.
so why are you not marrying her? |
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Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 3:14 am
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Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 5:15 am
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Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:31 pm
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tassan squinty1989 The reason I didn't marry her is because simply... I CAN'T! Since I am studying and I now her family as well as mine will say I need to be able to support her spiritually and financially.. And I can't do the "Financial" part... then you need to wait till you are financially ready?? what are your ages?
السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته it's always better to raise a family when you're financially ready.
I refuse to marry until I at least graduate college, which is about 2-3 years from now.
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 1:20 am
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tassan squinty1989 The reason I didn't marry her is because simply... I CAN'T! Since I am studying and I now her family as well as mine will say I need to be able to support her spiritually and financially.. And I can't do the "Financial" part... then you need to wait till you are financially ready?? what are your ages?
I am 18 going 19 and she is 17 going 18...
We are crazy about each other.
And I know I sound crazy..
But love sucks when you miss the other so much....
I want to be there for her and support her |
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 7:41 am
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squinty1989 tassan squinty1989 The reason I didn't marry her is because simply... I CAN'T! Since I am studying and I now her family as well as mine will say I need to be able to support her spiritually and financially.. And I can't do the "Financial" part... then you need to wait till you are financially ready?? what are your ages? I am 18 going 19 and she is 17 going 18... We are crazy about each other. And I know I sound crazy.. But love sucks when you miss the other so much.... I want to be there for her and support her
but you can talk to here through mobile lol
you just send her A MESSAGE and she replies back...!!!
that way you can't listen each others voice...!!
while in islam this is what prohibited "VOICE OF FEMALE SHOULD NOT BE REACHED TO A MALE" |
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 9:37 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 9:58 am
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squinty1989 tassan squinty1989 The reason I didn't marry her is because simply... I CAN'T! Since I am studying and I now her family as well as mine will say I need to be able to support her spiritually and financially.. And I can't do the "Financial" part... then you need to wait till you are financially ready?? what are your ages? I am 18 going 19 and she is 17 going 18... We are crazy about each other. And I know I sound crazy.. But love sucks when you miss the other so much.... I want to be there for her and support her
السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته Love will find a way. I find it hard to be with the man whom I love, but we figure out all sorts of ways to be able to keep in contact, even when we're far away from each other. Patience is extremely hard, 'specially when you're young. Not to say that hormones aren't playing a part.... 3nodding which is completely natural.
I wish you the best of luck.
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 11:37 am
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Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 1:45 am
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 9:25 am
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dark__sunshin Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 11:12 am
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