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Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 2:37 am
And if it's just some random people who think ur name is funny, then why make so much out of it? Let them laugh happily ^_^
Though no one laughed hearing my name or my religion. They been hitting me becuz of it, but not thinking it is fun just like that. stare
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Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 5:37 pm
The_Pathan Cora, so if i went to u and hit very hard in ur stomack so u needed to go hospital. U would just ignore it, and continue like that? that is not "making fun of someone" through that is physcical assulating someone while they are related thier is a difference between them. So to answer your question no. That said note that different words and phrases mean different things to different people. I think of "being made fun" of as verbal abuse and horse play not outright assualt like you just describe. Sadly their are disdications between degrees of abusive behavior. Anyhow in the case you describe that is beyond just "mere" being made fun of that is physical assualt. Which I feel like you can never ignore.
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Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 11:31 pm
The_Pathan Hamzah2424 I cant just go around punching people, i dont want to get in trouble. stressed And you call yourself Hamzah? Here the Hamzah's are the cool ones. Well, i recommend you to tell the teacher, would that be a idea???? If you don't wanna help yourself, then i don't wanto help u. If u don't tell the teacher, then don't tell us. If the teacher don't care, then... Tell me wink Im in 8th grade in Middle school i cant just tell the teacher, what diffeference would that make? The only person who stopped making fun of me is this kid who called me hamster so i called him a fat a** and he stopped.
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Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 11:35 pm
Bye the way here is the list of nick names people have given me.
List Hammy Hamster Carrot(The way they pronounce my last name) Carrot Cake Muslim Hamcarrot and HammyK. crying
BIG LIST
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Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2009 4:27 am
ohh, i feeeel sooo sorry for you crying crying ( sweatdrop not rly )
But i still wanto find u a solution...
I know it's embrassing telling the teacher, he/she can't do anything else than saying "don't call Hamzah anything he don't like"
But well, are they chineze, white, black, tell me. ???
But Hammy, litsen up u carrot... lol
The best thing u can do, is not to swear since it is haram. You can go to that guy, stand infront of him. Then say "what did u say?".
if he does not reply, then say "do not say that again"
If he continues, or if he does something bad, then u can always hit him. But if he hits u first, then if he is stronger, tell teacher. Is he weaker, hit him back harder to give him a lesson.
Got it? If u do this, Your problem will be solved. And if u get in trouble then just say the truth, if u got a good reason to hit him. As u do wink
Ok, ur problem is solved.
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Posted: Sun Dec 20, 2009 10:20 am
Its not like a cuss i never cuss but i have to sometimes. Isn't it ok to defend yourself with words?
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Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 3:14 am
Hamzah2424 Its not like a cuss i never cuss but i have to sometimes. Isn't it ok to defend yourself with words? Yes, u can. But you are not allowed to swear. So deffend urself with words without swearing wink Also, if u had a high Imaan, try using prayers, and stuff... I mean, just go to the 99 names of Allah topic in the lecture forum. Allah will bless u, when u need help.
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Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 3:56 am
It would be better for you if you just let them be. Prophet Muhammad is never angry when insulting Him and or sometime throwing human poop at Him. Just let them be, Allah SWT will punish them eventually..
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Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 9:01 am
The_Pathan tassan The_Pathan It is haram not to do anything about it. Allah told us to protect ourself 3nodding If some guys in your school starts to bully you somehow by hitting you and talking bad, you need to use your rage. They fear you, they think you are some kinda taliban. Which you are somehow lol razz So just do something. The teacher wont help, try to see if they help. If they are good they help, if they are not, they will simply not care. So first use ur mouth, then later u gotta use what u got. proof proof proof? Cause Allah told us to protect ourselves, if u want prove, then read the qur'an. Don't ask stupid questions, u are muslim, and u have learned about this. I have read the Quran that is why I am asking rofl rofl
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Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 10:21 am
Well then u also know, that you must protect yourself. It's like li'l jihad, protecting urself.
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Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 1:34 pm
i've been called a terrorist so many times it's not even funny. i just laugh along, because i know i'm not what they make me out to be. if anyone ever asks you what you believe in, inform them that your religion is between you and your God. that way you won't get called any names, and people will understand that it's none of their business.
whoever told you to take action into you own hands, the quran doesn't tell you to go beat people because they're being crude and disrespectful. it asks you to to be forgiving, and patient. just go on about with your life and do what's important to you, because in the end the only being they're going to have to deal with is allah.
no one needs to know what you believe in except for allah.
but that is just my opinion. the way you decide to take matters into your own hands in what you decide to do.
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Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 5:13 pm
eat more happy no one needs to know what you believe in except for allah. 3nodding cause anyone person's relationship is between you and God not you God and everyone else trying to impose whatever relationship they have with God in place of your own.
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Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2010 1:22 pm
The_Pathan Peace solves no problem, i have personal experiance. rofl I have personal and historical evidence which would disagree with you there.
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Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2010 3:58 pm
Ignore them, Allah will deal with them on the day of Judgement, and when they go to Al Naar (Hell) You will be laughing at them. But if they hit you, you have the right to hit them back but if they hit u lightly don't punch them so hard they get a concussion..
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Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 5:03 am
Voldemort point two The_Pathan Peace solves no problem, i have personal experiance. rofl I have personal and historical evidence which would disagree with you there. lol I diden't think u were so intelligent, mashallah! xd ur completely right 3nodding
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