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 Posted: Thu Aug 26, 2010 3:16 pm
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Dornkus Zizzykitty That would be an awkward relationship if she's a co-worker of yours. Some places even have rules against co-workers dating. I don't know what the policies are about dating where I work, but it's a pretty lax job overall. Still . . . I can see it now: Me: So, maybe you and I could catch a movie sometime? Her: Nope. Not interested. Me: Oh. Huh. Well. See you tomorrow.
Aww, that would be sad.
We'd still love you, Dornkus. :>
Dornkus Zizzykitty Asexuality would be convenient but not many people really are. That's probably because it's a gene that doesn't pass on very easily. I still wish I had it. Then when my friend is says "u shud ask sum1 out!" I could be all "lol ah'm asexual!"
You'd probably have to explain asexuality though.
Maybe I'm underestimating your friends but I know a good amount of people I'd have to explain asexuality to.
Dornkus Zizzykitty -I'm kind of in the same situation right now except tit's the one I'm not interested in is coming on really strong so it makes it hard to be into him  "Heh. You said "tits!" Heh, heh." So you're not interested because he's way too interested, or is it he's way too interested and you're not interested regardless of that?
Derp.
Sorry, Freudian slip.
They're semi-common with me it seems.
I'm not terribly interested either way.
I knew this guy in 8th grade so I haven't seen him for years.
He found me on Facebook and asked for my number so I gave it to him and for the first week or so he texted me all the time.
I was out of town so I wasn't real busy so it was cool but when I got back I went to spending all of my time with my friends and he seems to have become discouraged since I was always with friends when he'd ask what I was doing.
So maybe my lack of interest is because I haven't actually seen him in person for years.
Or maybe it's because it's weirding me out he seems to be so attached to me after only seeing pictures of me on Facebook and texting me.
(I may or may not have commitment issues, doesn't everyone in a way?)
It also kind of creates a conflict of interests because the person I'm interested in is much less overbearing and much more relaxed.
I know they're interested in me in a roundabout way but if I want them then I'm going to have to do some work.
But once I get it then they would be loving, caring, etc.
There's much more an element of unpredictability in the other person and I might have had a slight growing crush on them for a while now.
Sorry, didn't mean to explain my whole love life but I'm bad at explaining one specific part of a scenario.
If I explain one part then I just end up explaining the entire thing.
Dornkus Zizzykitty -Pretzels are cool but I've never liked them much, I prefer crackers. It's like I don't know you, anymore!
I'm sorry!
I only lied because I care! |
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Posted: Thu Aug 26, 2010 8:40 pm
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Zizzykitty Derp. Sorry, Freudian slip. They're semi-common with me it seems.
Freudian slips or tits?
I'm sorry. I know what you meant, but I had to say it.
I feel shame.
Zizzykitty I'm not terribly interested either way. I knew this guy in 8th grade so I haven't seen him for years. He found me on Facebook and asked for my number so I gave it to him and for the first week or so he texted me all the time. I was out of town so I wasn't real busy so it was cool but when I got back I went to spending all of my time with my friends and he seems to have become discouraged since I was always with friends when he'd ask what I was doing. So maybe my lack of interest is because I haven't actually seen him in person for years. Or maybe it's because it's weirding me out he seems to be so attached to me after only seeing pictures of me on Facebook and texting me.
Creepy.
Zizzykitty Sorry, didn't mean to explain my whole love life but I'm bad at explaining one specific part of a scenario. If I explain one part then I just end up explaining the entire thing.
No need to apologize. Sometimes the whole situation needs to be explained so that the part that was questioned makes more sense.
Zizzykitty I'm sorry! I only lied because I care!
YOU NEVER LOVED ME, AND YOU NEVER WILL!!! |
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Posted: Fri Aug 27, 2010 1:27 am
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Dornkus Zizzykitty Derp. Sorry, Freudian slip. They're semi-common with me it seems. Freudian slips or tits? I'm sorry. I know what you meant, but I had to say it. I feel shame.
Oh you're bad.
You should feel shame.
Yeah, it is kind of creepy.
Probably adding to my anxiety about finally seeing him.
Dornkus Zizzykitty Sorry, didn't mean to explain my whole love life but I'm bad at explaining one specific part of a scenario. If I explain one part then I just end up explaining the entire thing. No need to apologize. Sometimes the whole situation needs to be explained so that the part that was questioned makes more sense.
That's what I've always figured but people just tell me I ramble.
At least you get me!
Dornkus Zizzykitty I'm sorry! I only lied because I care! YOU NEVER LOVED ME, AND YOU NEVER WILL!!!
THIS IS WHY IT'S SO HARD.
YOU ALWAYS DOUBT ME.
WHEN WILL YOU LEARN THE TRUE DEPTH OF MY FEELINGS? |
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Posted: Fri Aug 27, 2010 12:25 pm
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Zizzykitty Oh you're bad. You should feel shame.
Shame has been felt.
Zizzykitty That's what I've always figured but people just tell me I ramble. At least you get me!
I tend to do that also, so I understand.
Zizzykitty THIS IS WHY IT'S SO HARD. YOU ALWAYS DOUBT ME. WHEN WILL YOU LEARN THE TRUE DEPTH OF MY FEELINGS?
THAT'S IT!
I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!
I'M MOVING IN WITH MY MOTHER, AND YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO BEG ME TO TAKE YOU BACK! |
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Posted: Fri Aug 27, 2010 2:13 pm
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Posted: Fri Aug 27, 2010 3:48 pm
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Posted: Tue Aug 31, 2010 9:33 pm
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Dornkus Zizzykitty I'M SORRY, BABY. PLEASE COME BACK. I LOOOOOOVE YOU. PLEASE? Aww, you know I can't stay mad at you!
Aww, come here.
I'll stop yelling.
I'm sorry, it was my fault. |
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Posted: Sun Nov 21, 2010 12:33 pm
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Wow. This thread is still here? After all these months? Just goes to show you how slow it's been around here.
Zizzykitty Dornkus I don't know what the policies are about dating where I work, but it's a pretty lax job overall. Still . . . I can see it now: Me: So, maybe you and I could catch a movie sometime? Her: Nope. Not interested. Me: Oh. Huh. Well. See you tomorrow. Aww, that would be sad. We'd still love you, Dornkus. :>
So, despite my best efforts, I managed to become interested in the co-worker that my friend told me to ask out.
You see, she is fun to talk to. She has one of my styles of humor, and I can actually reference video games and memes without feeling awkward.
The main problem with that is that I just found out that she has a boyfriend.
Fortunately, it wasn't like this:
Me: So, maybe you and I could catch a movie sometime?
Her: Nope. I have a boyfriend.
Me: Oh. Huh. Well. See you tomorrow.
It was more like this:
Oh Socially Awkward Penguin, how I wish I didn't relate to you so well.
And if my guess-timation is correct, they started going out around the time this thread was made. That was around the time I wasn't interested in her. I wish I had found out back then so that I wouldn't have become interested.
I couldn't sleep very well, I have indigestion, and my body temperature is lower (and it's not because of the weather; it's snowing here, by the way). I'll get over it. Eventually.
On the bright side, at least things won't be awkward. For her, at least.
And don't worry. I wasn't stalking her; she friended me. Don't look at me like that!
Now continue to love me!
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Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 12:50 pm
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Aww, that sucks, Donkus.
At least you found it out in the least awkward way possible.
I don't think you were stalking her.
But it sucks you didn't find out sooner.
You'll get over it and find someone else, I'm sure.
If it makes you feel better love hasn't been any better on my side.
Yes, I went on the date with the guy and I just had absolutely no feelings for him so I told him at the end and said I'd rather not see him again.
He kept trying to text me and sent me one message on Facebook.
I felt kind of bad until I found out that while he'd been professing his undying love to me, he'd been doing the same to one of my friends.
So that kind of justified my ignoring him.
But the person that I was actually interested in, has gone no where.
I keep trying to hang out but it's always just as friends and I can't figure out how to turn it towards the "date" direction.
So I keep getting frustrated and not calling them to ask if they want to hang out.
Which probably isn't helping my cause but a sign of some sort would be greatly appreciated.
I'll still love you if you still love me!
EDIT:
Also, since I did make this thread about my friend.
I hung out with him and his boyfriend last night and my friend was delighted that his boyfriend and I got along so well.
Apparently he was nervous about that, forgetting that I was already pseudo-friends with him from seeing him at parties.
I was just nervous his boyfriend would be scared of me since he's super-skittish when he's with my friend apparently.
He was actually pretty affectionate to both of us, which completely threw me off when he started leaning on me and didn't care that I was splayed across the couch, meaning my a** and feet were on him basically.
So anyway, that was me being glad they're happy and comfortable being around them together.
Rather than being that awkward third wheel.
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