SarahArden
I'd sure as hell have a kickass funeral.
But yeah if my spouse let me, I'd have a goth civil union. I don't know why but even if I married a man, I'd want a civil union as opposed to a marriage. I would not want religion playing any factor whatsoever because a) my odds of finding a hot Wiccan are not really that good and b) I don't know what a "wiccan" wedding is like and I don't want anything creepy and c) no one else in my family is Wiccan.
So anyway, my civil union:
Red carpets
Black cloth over everything
Red roses in black vases
Black candles in silver holders
Red and black tuxes and dresses for the "wedding party"
Flower girl sprinkling dried red roses
Song for when I walk down the aisle would be some piano solo from CORPSE BRIDE
But yeah if my spouse let me, I'd have a goth civil union. I don't know why but even if I married a man, I'd want a civil union as opposed to a marriage. I would not want religion playing any factor whatsoever because a) my odds of finding a hot Wiccan are not really that good and b) I don't know what a "wiccan" wedding is like and I don't want anything creepy and c) no one else in my family is Wiccan.
So anyway, my civil union:
Red carpets
Black cloth over everything
Red roses in black vases
Black candles in silver holders
Red and black tuxes and dresses for the "wedding party"
Flower girl sprinkling dried red roses
Song for when I walk down the aisle would be some piano solo from CORPSE BRIDE
Some of my good friends had a Wiccan wedding, it was a civil wedding recognised by our province. The bride wore a beautiful brown dress with beaded embroidery, it was very Earth-mothery, and the the groom wore a nice shirt and a tie. I think they privately handfasted in the traditional way, whereas the civil union ceremony was more of a generic civil union with a bit of Wiccan flair.
And yes, there are lots of Wiccan boys out there. For some reason I see more of them than Wiccan girls....Now what is up with that? xd ...