Relationship problums

[NivlaB0i]

So yeah, I read maybe the first 3 posts and gave up as I started seeing a pattern... What I basically got is that you two weren't as close as you use to be, and you know what, becoming a friendly-only basis would/will/has only made it worse, and now you're regretting it.

Honestly: Move on. It feels bad now, but you'll feel better later.

You're doing it wrong!

You should totally check out my sign quest!

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[ketchakik]

Maggot4life91

Ok, on October 3rd my boyfriend and I broke up after a year and 7 months and its been like a month and I want him back. I miss him dearly and I beleive he does to. So do ya'll have any ideas on how to get him back?

i'd go with a big romantic gesture that shows you stil have feelings for him...
course you should pick something that he'd really like  

[inuyashas_lilgirl]

Maggot4life91

well sweatdrop i brought up that i thought we were starting to act like just friends, but now that we are just friends we never talk or even look each other in the eye (well i try to talk to him) crying emo cry

That is exactly what happened to me.
My boyfriend, who is now my husband, and I had
been dating for 3 years at the time. At the time, he had
been acting really quiet, like something was bothering him.
Then one day, when I was talking about a project for school, he just
blew up.
"Shut up! You always talk to me so casually, about casual
normal things...you don't even like your my girlfriend! We act like were just friends, and I'm sick of it." He screamed in my face. Then he left me.

It ******** killed me.
We hadn't talked in a whole month,
avoiding each other whenever we could.
I missed him like hell, and I guess he did too.

So when day, I came up to him, and told him I loved him.
We made up, and have been fine ever since.

My advice: Just tell him how you feel. Okay, no offense to the males out there, but us females got it more together than the men, you have to take charge and tell him you love him, miss him, and want him.

BUT, If you find that he's just not the one for you, forget about it.
If he's not the right person for ya, you'll know, trust me. And you WILL move on. If you turly love him, you'll also know.
You can't decide your destiny, but you can accept it.

If he's the right one, then you need to be with him.

I wish ya luck, hon.
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[Spooky Wasabi Princess]

Isel

Give up-

You'll just break up with him again in the future.

As harsh as that sounds, I agree.