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Posted: Thu Jan 01, 2015 10:13 pm
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Frigga didn’t so much as flinch when Loki snapped at her. She had dealt with such outbursts before, they didn’t hurt her. Letting her son speak, she didn’t look away from him. “I know it is hard. And I know it will take time. You cannot get over all of your hurt so quickly, but letting go a little at a time will allow you to move forward. Perhaps one of the first things you can do is stop looking at things in such a definitive manner.” She said slowly. Looking away, she shook her head and began to speak again. “I know my relationship with Odin has not been something to aspire to, and I know you have few fond or good memories of us, but we loved each other deeply, and for a long time before either you or Thor were born.” She said slowly. She was ashamed of the relationship her children had seen their parents share. Though she’d always been a devoted wife, and Odin a devoted husband, there was so much missing, and she knew that, but it hadn’t always been that way. “And I can promise you, that looking at things only as black and white, as yes and no, good and bad, it will not work. You are seeing Anthony in a light where the only options he has is to marry you or not, to accept the child or not. It is okay and more likely that he will be unsure. Let him be in that gray area and convince him, let him work things out. He has allowed such things with you. You were unsure of your Jotun form, uncertain of his reaction and the reaction of others, but you let Anthony convince you.” Frigga suggested slowly. “Talk to him about the things you worry about. Do not phrase it as a decision he must make, and do not judge his words from the start. Talk to him about children and family, don’t force the topic, let the conversation fade when it needs to, and talk about it again later. You will see a change, and then you can decide if that change is for better or worse.”
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Frigga thought over Loki’s question for a moment before responding. “Do not talk about children of your own. There are several couples living with the two of you is there not? And they may all have children one day. I imagine both Anthony and yourself will feel some attachment to those children, being related to or close to the parents of these children.” She suggested slowly. “If he can warm up to the idea of being an uncle or something similar, it shows that he is not too far off from warming up to being a father. The way he treats a child that is not his own will actually be worse than how he treats his own.” Thinking over everything, she added another suggestion. “And Thor has told me that being a hero on Midgard often puts him in direct contact with children, both in saving and helping them, and in them simply recognizing him and approaching him. Certainly Anthony has these same experiences. As long as children is not the sole topic you bring up with him, he will not notice. After all, he already knows your attachment to children, he will not grow too suspicious.” Frigga promised. “And what you must remember Loki is that what people say and do is often different. You do it as well. He may say that he is uncomfortable with children, may say he does not want a child, but if you place a child in his arms, he will not turn away from it. He is not so heartless and cold.”
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