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[Haviv Oltalon]

no you arent, your a smart person, you know your capabilities and arent going to do something that exceeds them, you might change your mind at some point, being able to bear children is a gift not everyone has its something you shouldnt let go to waste  

[h a n g r y]

ur a guy, you cant have an opinion on this
;p! lol  

[Haviv Oltalon]

i wasnt speaking of myself, i was speaking for someone  

[Salanica]

Everyone has their own views rofl I'd rather go through childbirth agony, cause it would feel like a major achievment.  

[Haviv Oltalon]

i personally am not sure i want them simply because my parents expect me to be the one to give the grandchildren, they make it seem like i dont have a choice  

[Salanica]

That's how I sometimes feel :/ I'm not a kid person really, and I'm not a huge Uni person, but I feel like I have to just cause everyone else wants it  

[Haviv Oltalon]

im not either, i dont have the patience for it, i just said what i said earlier because i know someone who cant have children and would love to be able to have them  

[Salanica]

Lifes really unfair at times for alot of people... then you get the assholes who have it all.  

[h a n g r y]

i wish i was incapable of getting pregnant. that way i wouldnt have to use contraceptives.
i dont see why ppl are against adopting a kid, ur saving a life.  

[Haviv Oltalon]

dont wish that kitty, you have the choice to have children, you dont have to have them, but if you decide at some point you want them, then you can, there are people that want children, a little piece of their own flesh and blood in the world and they cant always have them  

[h a n g r y]

-.-" you have no idea how much i dont want to give birth. i can't even be pressured into it, everyone can just fukk off. i like my body the way i is now.  

[Haviv Oltalon]

no no, you got me wrong, im not saying you should, just be happy that you have the capability, this is one of those, be happy you have food cause others are starving things, you dont have to have children, just be glad that should the posibility you ever want one of your own arise you can  

[h a n g r y]

i'm offended lol  

[Haviv Oltalon]

im sorry thats not my intention, maybe its just something you cant understand right now, or im doing a horrendous job of explaining it  

[Salanica]

Again, it's all down to personal choice. Adaption is a good thing, but then I'd feel bad if my kid came up and said 'whose my real mother?' or 'whose my real father?'