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Nennies

PostPosted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 2:50 am


While I agree wholly that we don't need valentines day, I disagree with several things you say.

Jin Saga


We muslim dont need this "Day" ... Love to Muslims is a Different Love to the Unbelievers,

They sleep with 7 different persons each month... Is that Love?


No, and nobody says it is. (by the way, most people don't sleep with 7 different people each month)

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Woman get Payed by man if they sleep with them.. Is that Love?

No, and nobody says it is. (Prostitution, by the way, also occurs in Islamic countries and among muslims. It's an age old profession that is everywhere)

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Guys see a girl walking on the street, and they think its fine and so they say to themselfs "Im in love" ..Well I wonder is that Love?

Infatuation. It happens to muslims all the same, but that's why we keep our distance.

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Love is based on respect.. it doesnt even mean something physical.

Islam puts great emphasis on the physical aspect of love, of a couple being intimate together, enjoying each other. It is highly regarded and very important in Islam.

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You dont need a Girlfriend who can give you " Love " Love on this world is nothing but a word. . Love from Allah (swt) is everything.


"On earth will be your dwelling place and your means of livelihood for a time. Al-Baqara [2:60]

Of course, Islamically we disagree with having girlfriends, boyfriends and dating in general (this, however, does not mean that girlfriends/boyfriends do not love each other, because they do).
And love for Allah is most important above all. However, we should not ignore our worldly place and all its aspects. You almost seem to forget that humans marry, form a lifelong bond, muslims or not, and that they share a deep love for each other. You need a wife/husband to give you love.

Anyone, not just muslims, is capable of this love. The love between a non-muslim couple may be just as deep as the love a muslim couple feel for each other. And anyone is capable of feeling love for Allah.

Of course I vehemently disagree with the things you mention, but very few people would call them love.
PostPosted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 8:54 pm


valentine is the name of father(christian) that live long long time ago.....he has married the king n the king's son.....n the father killed himself for wat he was done...n people name the love for couple by his name....n everytime they said valentine like they really need him not jesus.....

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 15, 2010 5:52 am


I love this lecture ^_^
PostPosted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:10 am


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valentine is the name of father(christian) that live long long time ago.....he has married the king n the king's son.....n the father killed himself for wat he was done...n people name the love for couple by his name....n everytime they said valentine like they really need him not jesus.....


Oh seriously?? Valentine was an actual person? I had no idea.. I thought that it was just a made up holiday.

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PostPosted: Wed Feb 03, 2010 5:55 am


AC Cloud Strife VII
valentine is the name of father(christian) that live long long time ago.....he has married the king n the king's son.....n the father killed himself for wat he was done...n people name the love for couple by his name....n everytime they said valentine like they really need him not jesus.....
valentine is the name of father(the christian god?) and he(a male) was married to the king and the prince?
And then he mae suicide?

WAAH THAT IS JUST SO GAY!!!

Christian god was married to the king and the son and then made suicide? That sounds sooo stupid!
PostPosted: Wed Feb 03, 2010 8:21 am


Erhm,i dont think we would make such a BIG problem because of this..
Can't you just decide on your own if you want to celebrate valentines day or not? Nobody forces you to do it :

And it makes sense if ur deeply in love,because people do the most amazing things then,they would never do before. Dont forget that

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 9:03 am


ya, but why only love in valentines day? ^_^
PostPosted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 9:42 am


i like this topic. good lecture nennies. =]
i never thought of all that. *forwards that to friends*
=D

i think valentines day is really nice. maybe not for young kids like us cuz we're not supposed to be lovey dovey at our age *cough cough*
but like for parents and married couples. ^__^
i think it's cute way to reunite and just let the couples be. =)
happy loving parents = happy family. XDDD

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 7:36 am


hey
PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 8:07 am


thats a good question rolleyes

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 8:39 am


well i agree in one way but not another
this day can be special for muslims too, u can give gifts to your wife/ husband to show ur love. This day can be used to show love for family member and even friends, it doesnt have to be the way unbelievers do it, its the day we show respect and love to people we care about. So i dont think its the day of the devil really.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 9:40 am


divineseraph
You are right and wrong. Payment for sex is not common practice for "nonbelievers". That's called prostitution, which is fairly uncommon, comparatively.

What you are talking about is the capitalistic love that is bottled and sold to you.

It is sold in the clothes you wear, the car you drive, the scent you spray on. It's a symbol of status or power meant to attract a sexual partner. The capitalists can not sell true love, so they market sex as love to gain profit.

Much of the system plays on our wants and needs, and seeing as capitalism can never satisfy them, it sells us cheap imitations instead and tells us that we should be happy with that.

^This.

plus love is love no matter a believer does it or a non believer, what you said is lust.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 9:57 am


Jin Saga
Salaam wa Aleikom Brothers & Sisters,

A week ago or so, I walk talking to a friend , and suddenly the Topic Valentines Day jumped on... and the more we talked about it, him sending cards etc.. the more I started to think to myself..

What Is Valentines Day... Really?

What is Valentines Day?.. everybody is in a love mood... kissing, sending valentines carts, etc.

Valentines Day, > People In Love

We muslim dont need this "Day" ... Love to Muslims is a Different Love to the Unbelievers,

The Unbelievers their Love is based on... Sleeping with eachother, kissing etc.
they dont have the Respect we have for "Love",

They sleep with 7 different persons each month... Is that Love?

Woman get Payed by man if they sleep with them.. Is that Love?

Guys see a girl walking on the street, and they think its fine and so they say to themselfs "Im in love" ..Well I wonder is that Love?

Love is based on respect.. it doesnt even mean something physical.

We Muslims dont need this Valentine Day... It's the Day of the Devil.
This so called Love, is the Love of the Devil... do you want to be loved by the Devil?

Forget this Day, Forget this so called Love...

You should Focus on the love Of Allah (swt) be worried If He loves you...
Because If Allah (swt) loves you... than you need nothing more.

You dont need a Girlfriend who can give you " Love " Love on this world is nothing but a word. . Love from Allah (swt) is everything.




mashallah!! You are so right!!
PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 10:15 am


we should make some more lectures ^_^

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 10:57 am


Valentine's Day is neither a day of lust or the devil, but a day that is an excuse for the big shots of the world to sell meaningless item that say things such as "i love you" or "you are my other half", but there is nothing wrong with this. all the evil in the world such as prostitution and cheating thy spouse happens everyday not only on valentine's day. so it is not up to Muslims as a whole to decide whether this is a day that we cannot celebrate for i have sent valentines to all my friends, some teacher, my parents, siblings, and family in order to say thank you and i care about you deeply. Valentine's Day is a day to express the other side of you that people sometimes miss. a side that says i am happy to be with you on this earth and I thank Allah (swt) that we are all together.
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