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 Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 1:54 pm
It's good to love someone, AND have that love returned. Many people can't recognize that, though.
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 3:44 pm
i think it is better to never love at all, because once you do love, and they don't love you back, or they 'did' or 'do' but do something that ends up hurting you, it hurts so much that all other pain is nothing to it, and the world becomes piontless, its better to be numb then to have no existance.... at least it is to me...
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 7:21 pm
Broken_Shadow_Child i think it is better to never love at all, because once you do love, and they don't love you back, or they 'did' or 'do' but do something that ends up hurting you, it hurts so much that all other pain is nothing to it, and the world becomes piontless, its better to be numb then to have no existance.... at least it is to me...
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Posted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 5:06 am
I've had many guy's "fall in love with me" whom I have not given a chance. One of my friends told me I should just take a chance because, you never know, you might fall in love and find eternal happiness or something like that. But I think he's got it wrong. I think He just feels a desperate need for someone to love him, Anyone. And it has given him a different view on love.
I have not cared too much about searching for someone to love. I was set on the idea of waiting until the right guy came along. And he has. I am glad I did not give my love to those other guys, and That I can now give all my love to my one true love.
I mean, Maybe I'm too young to say this sort of thing, but I think He really is what you'd call my "soulmate". But then again, I'm the one who knows me and him, and not anyone else reading this, So I guess I'm more qualified to say it than anyone else.
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Posted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 11:28 am
Sometimes i dont know if love is a good thing or not.
Love provides allot of strenghts but also allot of weaknesses.
As for example , if you love someone your often more detirmind to do things , you often have someone you can share your dark times with and more of that sweet squishy blah blah blah.
But when you really love someone and the feeling is not Mutual it can be devistating when someone rejects or breaks up with you.
Also (this wont happen allot but still ... ) when your loved one is in danger you often act out of love instead of thinking 1st and using your brain.
I dont know , Love can be a fantastic thing but at the same time also verry horrible.
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Posted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 1:49 pm
Love is either tormenting or joyous, depending on how you use it.
If you use it to care for someone else, help them when they need it, and they reciprocate it, then it's a good feeling.
But if either person uses it selfishly, like deciding to pursue another or use the power they have over the other to their advantage, it becomes crushing.
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-Resurrected Writer- Crew
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Posted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 2:01 pm
You need to be smacked. Real hard
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Posted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 4:40 pm
I love my girlfriend. She loves me. It works out nicely.
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Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 1:57 pm
I see nothing wrong with long-distance love. I love someone who lives far away. I can't see myself seeing anyone else. I don't want to see anyone else. I want to be with him and only him, and we want to be together so badly but we can't because we're young and we can't control where we live or where we go yet. I love him so much and I want to be with him so badly it hurts!
I believe in love. I feel it in my heart and I know it's real.
But lately I've contemplated about love, and how in today's society love's forsaken, hidden, and replaced with lust. Random hookups, one-night stands, people only wanting casual sex with no strings attatched. High school couples saying "I love you" when they really don't. People saying they're in love to get their partners to put out. Men expecting women to put out, women putting out because of the expectation. Sex, intimacy, the word "love," they're all being tossed around so casually . . . People believe they're in love, they get hurt, and they lose their faith in love. So they sleep around, date around, not even trying to find love but just trying to feel wanted and accepted.
I suppose this was what Tenessee Williams meant to say in Camino Real. People sacrifice their golden hearts for shallow and material things. People who don't believe anyone could say they were sincere and truly mean it. People who have sex with many partners and make them feel special, like "chosen heroes," when they really mean nothing at all; that "hero" will soon leave, and another will soon come. People who don't believe in love, or can't see love when it's right in front of them, or dismiss it as being nothing at all. People who've had many sexual partners finally finding real love, and being crushed by those who don't believe in love.
I can't do it. I can't date around. I can't go on a date with a guy I don't have feelings for, much less have sex with a guy I didn't truly love with all my heart and soul.
Yeah, it's probably that time of the month . . .
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Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 3:03 pm
I've been thinking about love a lot recently, because I'm in a long-term relationship and I've noticed that the nature of it has changed. They say the wild, crazy infatuation stage only lasts a few months before it fizzles. That's what's happened to us, and I find I'm happier now that it's gone.
If you're lucky — if you've found somebody who could be 'the one' — the initial mania transforms into a deep friendship. You get more comfortable with each other and put a lot more trust in the stability of the relationship. It may not be as exciting as having a new lover, but there's nowhere near as much jealousy, uncertainty, or awkwardness.
Personally, I think drama sucks. Courtship and dating are hard on almost everyone and I'll be glad never to go through it again. But I also think they're worth it, if they bring you together with someone who truly loves you and whom you love in return. And in my experience, anyone who is confident and cares about others can find such a person... even if it does take time.
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Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 6:01 pm
Love someone..... worth loving. 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2006 6:09 pm
coriander18 I think it's better to love and lost then to have never loved at all. Pain is something that goes along with being alive. I also think that long distance relationships don't work. If your far away from each other. Keep in contact but see others as well. I think it's rare for someone to find another their really happy together and can enjoy a long life together. So if your getting older and haven't found them, don't sweat it and continue on with your life. I also believe love isn't something you can force. If you dwell on it too much and it might never come. On that note. I am in love. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs. There are ups and downs. But I know the downs are only rough because the ups are so good. agreed
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Posted: Mon Nov 20, 2006 5:03 am
I hate all that 'I will never love. I am a cacoon of darkness. My emotions are burried so deep that I blah blah blah' crap.
Love is awesome.
Who cares if you break up? Just write a few bad poems and move on!
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Posted: Mon Nov 20, 2006 5:04 am
zabura_kakashi You need to be smacked. Real hard
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Posted: Mon Nov 20, 2006 1:35 pm
spooky_sez I hate all that 'I will never love. I am a cacoon of darkness. My emotions are burried so deep that I blah blah blah' crap.
Love is awesome.
Who cares if you break up? Just write a few bad poems and move on! Love is awesome, you're right. I mean, it shouldn't be taken lightly. I hate it when people say "I love you" when they don't mean it, and people who flirt and date around and lead people on when they have no intention of having a relationship. Taking the subject lightly causes people to get hurt. You might not get hurt but others might. I think I agree with the quote "loving might be a mistake, but it's worth making," but only if it's real love.
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