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duello

PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 11:47 am


Indeed, I’ve heard it said that anti-Christianity is the last socially acceptable prejudice. I see that played out on a day to day basis.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 12:26 pm


Ilinca
While it is true that we may be brainwashing our children into being Christian, it seems that we are brainwashing our teens and young adults into not being Christian (music, literary material, other forms of propaganda, social pressures "I don't date Christians" "Uptight" "Crazy" "Not cool" "Afraid they're going to try to drag me to their church" etc., the unattractiveness of the Christian lifestyle to teens). Now, I personally am agnostic, but I simply couldn't help but notice that its going both ways...


Personally, (in terms of where I live...America) I've never read or heard of ANY widespread propaganda against Christianity. [Because the country is roughly 80% Christian.] All arguments against Christianity that I've heard are very well-founded....Unlike the enormous amounts of Christian propaganda against atheists and other religions that usually amount to the "Because I said so! And I'm right!" defense.

However, my main point in writing this topic was not to focus on specifically religion...It was to focus on any form of brainwashing a child through parents asserting the absolute truth of their own beliefs. (This just happens to occur most often in a religious environment.)
Yes, an atheist who has no way of providing any reasons for their beliefs is just as bad as a religious person who can't provide adequate reasons for their beliefs as well. I agree with you that people who are atheists or of other religions can use these same weak tactics to brainwash children against different religions, but that's really beside the point.

The point I'm trying to get across is that the usual flimsy, baseless tactics of setting a child against a particular idea before they even have the ability to fully consider it is mentally abusive and irresponsible. Children don't have developed minds, and they look to adults for guidance. If an adult swears in the name of all that is true that their ideas are correct, then it is ingrained into the mind of that child--what reason do they ever have to question it? The result is always the same....grown adults operating not on logic and reason, but on the same flimsy, baseless ideas of the generation before them. (If you don't believe me, then just look at centuries old, disproven creationist rhetoric being repeated thousands and thousands of times even in the face of TONS of real scientific data, for example.)

TheCranialSlave


TheCranialSlave

PostPosted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 12:45 pm


duello
Indeed, I’ve heard it said that anti-Christianity is the last socially acceptable prejudice. I see that played out on a day to day basis.


Okay, let's stick to reality. In a country where more than 80% of the population considers themselves to be a part of the Christian religion and find support for their beliefs in the majority of the people surrounding them....Who do YOU think is going to react violently to differing ideas?

I'm not saying that there aren't people out there in America who are irrational and automatically hate every Christian....

But a few weeks ago when Rajan Zed gave a Hindu prayer in the Senate...who do you think rudely disrupted it by standing up in the middle of his speaking, and started ranting about Jesus?

The reality of it all is that in America, Christians can claim far fewer instances of prejudice than any other groups. As far as I'm concerned, no instance of prejudice is okay....but, you know what? Christians certainly send the message that it is---Unlike your assertion that it's the other way around. "Indeed, I’ve heard it said that anti-Christianity is the last socially acceptable prejudice." No, dear. No.

When Christians stop pushing for prayer in schools, for Christian materials in official buildings, for the "sanctity" of heterosexual marriage....and every other thing which clearly demonstrates a religious prejudice against those who just MIGHT have other ideas....then I'll believe your statement.
PostPosted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 3:48 pm


while i agree that there are religious fanatics out there, like any religion the radicals are in the minority. furthermore, Christianity is the only one not leagaly protected and having that protection enforced against prejudice.

and for the record, I am not christian. i am closer to the pagan religions, and I see senseless hatred against christians on a daily basis. from my fellow pagans intentionaly damaging church property to my world religions teacher at college explaining that she hated chatholosism because of how strict and judgemental the faith was. in short, every religion is judged by its radicals. because a few muslims are millitant, all arabs and muslims go through hightened screening at airports. Because some christians are intolerant assholes with no respect for anyone outside thier faith, the rest meet with prejudice from the victims of the minority.

duello


TheCranialSlave

PostPosted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 2:03 pm


duello
while i agree that there are religious fanatics out there, like any religion the radicals are in the minority. furthermore, Christianity is the only one not leagaly protected and having that protection enforced against prejudice.

and for the record, I am not christian. i am closer to the pagan religions, and I see senseless hatred against christians on a daily basis. from my fellow pagans intentionaly damaging church property to my world religions teacher at college explaining that she hated chatholosism because of how strict and judgemental the faith was. in short, every religion is judged by its radicals. because a few muslims are millitant, all arabs and muslims go through hightened screening at airports. Because some christians are intolerant assholes with no respect for anyone outside thier faith, the rest meet with prejudice from the victims of the minority.


For one thing, (as far as Christianity is concerned) intolerance and lack of reason is NOT just an attribute of Christian fanatics. The sects identified as "radicals" may go about spreading their ideas in more overtly hateful or illegal ways, but their actions are always have a basis in common Christian beliefs. I mean, the typical Christian may not go out and parade offensive posters which say "God hates fags", like the Westboro church. No, instead they're asserting the "sanctity" of heterosexual marriage and voting against gay rights when it comes to the marriage issue, even though it logically poses no threat to anyone.

Instead of ensuring that every teen gets comprehensive sex education, they're instituting multi-million dollar abstinence-only programs that teach false information about birth control and reinforce outdated gender roles. Even though this approach is absolutely harmful, most believe that efforts to wipe out pre-marital sex are more important than healthy prevention measures of std's and pregnancy.

Instead of actually taking the time to understand scientific concepts, evolution is accepted less in the United States than in any other western country. This is largely due to the beliefs in Biblical creationism. As a result, ideas with religious agendas...such as intelligent design...are frequently put forth as being scientifically credible and suitable to be taught in schools.

All I'm saying is that it's the liberal Christians that are in the minority who might meet undue prejudice, but certainly *not* the majority. The majority of Christians ARE the intolerant ones with no respect to people outside of their belief system. They may not be killing themselves and others in the name of religion, but that's probably only because that belief which is evident in some Muslim sects, doesn't really appear in any Christian sect. However, don't think for a moment that they aren't practicing tactics which are just as devisive in order make sure that their beliefs are carried out socially and legally.

Yeah, senseless hatred will always take place among those who refuse to think, but I've got to say that to the community of Americans who base their standards around logic (instead of ancient, primitive ideals), the majority of Christians really are bringing this negativity upon themselves. To the people who do value reason, the irritation with the Christian religion is definitely *not* senseless or unfounded.
PostPosted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 11:52 am


I agree with you, although I am a practicing Christian, as stated before. And I will admit that most of the things I learned off the church were not the best of teachings and were quite narrow minded.

But when I was offered the position of teaching, I jumped at the chance to change what they had been learning. I quit five years later, one because of college, another being that because I was seen as too "liberal" by the other teachers simply because I integrated other religions into the class along with ours, and the biggest saying they can remember are: "Every religion claims to be a way to the afterlife, including ours. We cannot be narrow minded in proclaiming our religion if we hope to bring peace to this world."

I hope those words stuck with them...especially after readin this.

Patron with a Mission


duello

PostPosted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 1:19 pm


TheCranialSlave
duello
while i agree that there are religious fanatics out there, like any religion the radicals are in the minority. furthermore, Christianity is the only one not leagaly protected and having that protection enforced against prejudice.

and for the record, I am not christian. i am closer to the pagan religions, and I see senseless hatred against christians on a daily basis. from my fellow pagans intentionaly damaging church property to my world religions teacher at college explaining that she hated chatholosism because of how strict and judgemental the faith was. in short, every religion is judged by its radicals. because a few muslims are millitant, all arabs and muslims go through hightened screening at airports. Because some christians are intolerant assholes with no respect for anyone outside thier faith, the rest meet with prejudice from the victims of the minority.


For one thing, (as far as Christianity is concerned) intolerance and lack of reason is NOT just an attribute of Christian fanatics. The sects identified as "radicals" may go about spreading their ideas in more overtly hateful or illegal ways, but their actions are always have a basis in common Christian beliefs. I mean, the typical Christian may not go out and parade offensive posters which say "God hates fags", like the Westboro church. No, instead they're asserting the "sanctity" of heterosexual marriage and voting against gay rights when it comes to the marriage issue, even though it logically poses no threat to anyone.

Instead of ensuring that every teen gets comprehensive sex education, they're instituting multi-million dollar abstinence-only programs that teach false information about birth control and reinforce outdated gender roles. Even though this approach is absolutely harmful, most believe that efforts to wipe out pre-marital sex are more important than healthy prevention measures of std's and pregnancy.

Instead of actually taking the time to understand scientific concepts, evolution is accepted less in the United States than in any other western country. This is largely due to the beliefs in Biblical creationism. As a result, ideas with religious agendas...such as intelligent design...are frequently put forth as being scientifically credible and suitable to be taught in schools.

All I'm saying is that it's the liberal Christians that are in the minority who might meet undue prejudice, but certainly *not* the majority. The majority of Christians ARE the intolerant ones with no respect to people outside of their belief system. They may not be killing themselves and others in the name of religion, but that's probably only because that belief which is evident in some Muslim sects, doesn't really appear in any Christian sect. However, don't think for a moment that they aren't practicing tactics which are just as devisive in order make sure that their beliefs are carried out socially and legally.

Yeah, senseless hatred will always take place among those who refuse to think, but I've got to say that to the community of Americans who base their standards around logic (instead of ancient, primitive ideals), the majority of Christians really are bringing this negativity upon themselves. To the people who do value reason, the irritation with the Christian religion is definitely *not* senseless or unfounded.


So essensuly while you see only the thousands who are narrow-minded bigots, I'm seeing the thousands who silently practice Christianity and do nothing to oppress or insult anyone of other faiths. Where you see only the small sects of Christianity such as the Westboro Baptist Church (I have yet to meet a single Christian who approved of them) I see the thousands of Christians who work in support of the gay/lesbian movement.

And as for "intelligent design," I don’t see what the problem is with teaching alternative theories of origin. While there is certainly fossil evidence to support evolution, there are also large gaps in the fossil evidence, places where thousands of years of mutation are completely absent from our fossil records. Furthermore, it has NEVER in the history of man been observed where a species has mutated so far from its parent species that it can no longer procreate with that species. Until that can be proven evolution is still just a theory, not a law, and certainly not a proven fact. I have continually watched anyone who opposes evolution as the only option get verbally, and in some cases physically, attacked by evolutionists. In terms of belief, evolution is as much a religion as any other, with just as many convoluted relics that it drags out to prove it's case, without ever really being able to.

Don’t get me wrong, evolution is a useful theory. But it is still just a theory. to treat it as fact without proving its truth beyond question is to elevate it to a religious position, at which point evolutionists become no better than the Christians they so forcefully oppose.
PostPosted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 3:29 pm


Here's a religion you've probably never heard of: Unitarian Universalism . That's what I am, it's kinda like agnostic but we've got guidelines: 7 priciples that have nothing to do with ...religious stuff, mostly they're about fair treatment, interdependent web and the democratic system(if you want the long version contact me).

We explore other religions, I've gone to a Buddist, Jewish, Muslim, Catholic, Quaker, Baptist, and Methodist service before. And of course Unitarian ones. They're accepting of whatever your beliefs are and people within the religion almost never have the same beliefs. It's kind of hard to brainwash kids when everyone is telling them to write their own beliefs.

Although most Unitarians are majorly democratic sweatdrop .

strangerthanfiction


duello

PostPosted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 5:49 pm


strangerthanfiction
Here's a religion you've probably never heard of: Unitarian Universalism . That's what I am, it's kinda like agnostic but we've got guidelines: 7 priciples that have nothing to do with ...religious stuff, mostly they're about fair treatment, interdependent web and the democratic system(if you want the long version contact me).

We explore other religions, I've gone to a Buddist, Jewish, Muslim, Catholic, Quaker, Baptist, and Methodist service before. And of course Unitarian ones. They're accepting of whatever your beliefs are and people within the religion almost never have the same beliefs. It's kind of hard to brainwash kids when everyone is telling them to write their own beliefs.

Although most Unitarians are majorly democratic sweatdrop .


Actually I have heard of them. I hold a lot of respect for what little I know of them. Although the first place I ever heard of them was in a religious joke making fun of them and Jehovah’s witnesses.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 7:08 pm


duello
TheCranialSlave
duello
while i agree that there are religious fanatics out there, like any religion the radicals are in the minority. furthermore, Christianity is the only one not leagaly protected and having that protection enforced against prejudice.

and for the record, I am not christian. i am closer to the pagan religions, and I see senseless hatred against christians on a daily basis. from my fellow pagans intentionaly damaging church property to my world religions teacher at college explaining that she hated chatholosism because of how strict and judgemental the faith was. in short, every religion is judged by its radicals. because a few muslims are millitant, all arabs and muslims go through hightened screening at airports. Because some christians are intolerant assholes with no respect for anyone outside thier faith, the rest meet with prejudice from the victims of the minority.


For one thing, (as far as Christianity is concerned) intolerance and lack of reason is NOT just an attribute of Christian fanatics. The sects identified as "radicals" may go about spreading their ideas in more overtly hateful or illegal ways, but their actions are always have a basis in common Christian beliefs. I mean, the typical Christian may not go out and parade offensive posters which say "God hates fags", like the Westboro church. No, instead they're asserting the "sanctity" of heterosexual marriage and voting against gay rights when it comes to the marriage issue, even though it logically poses no threat to anyone.

Instead of ensuring that every teen gets comprehensive sex education, they're instituting multi-million dollar abstinence-only programs that teach false information about birth control and reinforce outdated gender roles. Even though this approach is absolutely harmful, most believe that efforts to wipe out pre-marital sex are more important than healthy prevention measures of std's and pregnancy.

Instead of actually taking the time to understand scientific concepts, evolution is accepted less in the United States than in any other western country. This is largely due to the beliefs in Biblical creationism. As a result, ideas with religious agendas...such as intelligent design...are frequently put forth as being scientifically credible and suitable to be taught in schools.

All I'm saying is that it's the liberal Christians that are in the minority who might meet undue prejudice, but certainly *not* the majority. The majority of Christians ARE the intolerant ones with no respect to people outside of their belief system. They may not be killing themselves and others in the name of religion, but that's probably only because that belief which is evident in some Muslim sects, doesn't really appear in any Christian sect. However, don't think for a moment that they aren't practicing tactics which are just as devisive in order make sure that their beliefs are carried out socially and legally.

Yeah, senseless hatred will always take place among those who refuse to think, but I've got to say that to the community of Americans who base their standards around logic (instead of ancient, primitive ideals), the majority of Christians really are bringing this negativity upon themselves. To the people who do value reason, the irritation with the Christian religion is definitely *not* senseless or unfounded.


So essensuly while you see only the thousands who are narrow-minded bigots, I'm seeing the thousands who silently practice Christianity and do nothing to oppress or insult anyone of other faiths. Where you see only the small sects of Christianity such as the Westboro Baptist Church (I have yet to meet a single Christian who approved of them) I see the thousands of Christians who work in support of the gay/lesbian movement.

And as for "intelligent design," I don’t see what the problem is with teaching alternative theories of origin. While there is certainly fossil evidence to support evolution, there are also large gaps in the fossil evidence, places where thousands of years of mutation are completely absent from our fossil records. Furthermore, it has NEVER in the history of man been observed where a species has mutated so far from its parent species that it can no longer procreate with that species. Until that can be proven evolution is still just a theory, not a law, and certainly not a proven fact. I have continually watched anyone who opposes evolution as the only option get verbally, and in some cases physically, attacked by evolutionists. In terms of belief, evolution is as much a religion as any other, with just as many convoluted relics that it drags out to prove it's case, without ever really being able to.

Don’t get me wrong, evolution is a useful theory. But it is still just a theory. to treat it as fact without proving its truth beyond question is to elevate it to a religious position, at which point evolutionists become no better than the Christians they so forcefully oppose.


There's so much wrong with this post that my head is spinning.

No, I didn't say that EVERY Christian was intolerant. I said that intolerance can be attributed to sects of Christianity other than just those labeled as "radicals". Try reading what I actually said, for a start.

And, if so many Christians are working towards homosexuals obtaining full marital rights, like you say they are---then it would have already happened! You know why? Because more than 80% of the country identify themselves as Christians. If even half that number rallied against the those imposing a Christian agenda on the entire nation, then there would be adequate opposition. But, clearly, there aren't actually that many Christians who are in favor of the separation of church and state. We've got heavy restrictions on stem cell research, restrictions limiting access to abortion, restrictions limiting acces to birth control, misleading and uninformative sex education programs, national prayer day, public displays of the ten commandments on federal property, "In God We Trust" in the pledge of allegiance and on money, prayer in the senate, etc.....how much more evidence do you need that there isn't adequate opposition against these things?

Lastly, I think you need to actually learn what the definition of a scientific theory is, and the method by which scientists arrive at those theories. But, I'll tell you that they begin by gathering observable, measurable evidence. Then, they attempt to make a model which can explain the relationship of these natural phenomenas. This is useful for making predictions about nature.

Intelligent design, on the other hand, has nothing to do with scientific evidence. The main premise of intelligent design is to say that because we can't [yet] explain everything we would like to know about nature, then obviously it was created by a higher being. It is a conclusion drawn out of thin air. There is no real research to support it.

Frankly, evolution is the most reliable way of explaining many of the earth's natural processes, whether you like it or not. Of course it's not perfect- science is progressive. But there's no reason for you to insert god into the parts of science which we have yet to discover. Work towards truth, not towards what you think SHOULD to be true.

TheCranialSlave


TheCranialSlave

PostPosted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 7:31 pm


strangerthanfiction
Here's a religion you've probably never heard of: Unitarian Universalism . That's what I am, it's kinda like agnostic but we've got guidelines: 7 priciples that have nothing to do with ...religious stuff, mostly they're about fair treatment, interdependent web and the democratic system(if you want the long version contact me).

We explore other religions, I've gone to a Buddist, Jewish, Muslim, Catholic, Quaker, Baptist, and Methodist service before. And of course Unitarian ones. They're accepting of whatever your beliefs are and people within the religion almost never have the same beliefs. It's kind of hard to brainwash kids when everyone is telling them to write their own beliefs.

Although most Unitarians are majorly democratic sweatdrop .


Well, of course that's perfectly acceptable. In that evironment, children are actually learning that relgious beliefs are highly subjective. They would be able to come to the understanding that supernatural "belief" differs from observable "fact"- and then be free to choose or not choose a belief system with freedom of mind. Plus, I like that they would actually be learning about different religions- that would encourage tolerance of different ideas.

I certainly advocate that children be exposed to religion, just not told that a certain religious viewpoint is a fact of reality before they can even understand that religion so subjective. I think doing that is very damaging.

You get approval. whee
PostPosted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 2:04 am


Just a few words: Final Fantasy VII - Advent Children

It's not a great film by any means (heck, probably just another excuse to push CG beyond limits and not worry about, say, script or acting quality). However there are hints of forcing religion on young children in certain scenes. The point of argument I'm making, even if it's not very well delivered, is that children can be influenced mildly or excessively by religious or cultivated means.

My primary concern about religion these days is its apparent reinvention. Are kids going punk/goth/emo because they fear of being corrupted by religion, or are they corrupted by it? Are more teenage girls in general becoming pregnant because, again, they want to be free of religion or because some sicko priest bestowed hidden faiths? You could watch all sorts of different movies like American History X or read plenty of books about this kind of manipulation, just to get the idea.

I hope I explained this well, too... sweatdrop

Tezur


strangerthanfiction

PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 10:58 am


duello
strangerthanfiction
Here's a religion you've probably never heard of: Unitarian Universalism . That's what I am, it's kinda like agnostic but we've got guidelines: 7 priciples that have nothing to do with ...religious stuff, mostly they're about fair treatment, interdependent web and the democratic system(if you want the long version contact me).

We explore other religions, I've gone to a Buddist, Jewish, Muslim, Catholic, Quaker, Baptist, and Methodist service before. And of course Unitarian ones. They're accepting of whatever your beliefs are and people within the religion almost never have the same beliefs. It's kind of hard to brainwash kids when everyone is telling them to write their own beliefs.

Although most Unitarians are majorly democratic sweatdrop .


Actually I have heard of them. I hold a lot of respect for what little I know of them. Although the first place I ever heard of them was in a religious joke making fun of them and Jehovah’s witnesses.


I'm surprised you've heard of the religion although not surprised it was through a joke but I think that might be even better xd .


Here is a couple UU jokes I like:

Three children were talking about their religions.
"I'm a Catholic," said one, "and our symbol is the cross."
"I'm Jewish," said the second, "and our symbol is the Star of David."
The third child said, "I'm a Unitarian Universalist and our symbol is a candle in a cocktail glass!"
_____________________________________________________________
This one makes fun of everyone:

HOW MANY (xxxxxx) DOES IT TAKE TO CHANGE A LIGHT BULB?

Anglicans: 8. One to call the electrician and 7 to say how much they liked the old one better.

Charismatics: Only one. Hands are already in the air.

Lutherans: Change ?!?!?!?!?!

Mennonites: At least 15. One to change the bulb and 3 or 4 committees to approve the change. Oh, and a casserole.

Mormons: 5. One man to change the bulb and 4 wives to tell him how to do it.

Pentecostals: 10. One to change the bulb and 9 to pray against the spirit of darkness.

Presbyterians: None. God has predestined when the lights will go on and off.

Roman Catholics: None. They use candles.

Unitarians: We choose not to make a statement either in favour of or against the need for a light bulb. However, if in your own journey, you have found that light bulbs work for you, that is fine. You are invited to write a poem or compose a modern dance about your personal relationship with your light bulb. Present it next month at our annual Light Bulb Sunday Service, in which we will explore a number of light bulb traditions, including incandescent, fluorescent, 3-way, long-life, and tinted, all of which are equally valid paths to luminescence.



PostPosted: Thu Aug 23, 2007 10:40 am


"What do you get when you cross a Unitarian and a Jehovah’s witness? Someone who knocks on your door at 7:30 in the morning and doesn't know why."

Oh, and I like the light bulb one. It’s a little cliché' but funny.

Actually, I had my world religions teacher advise that I try the UU, as a place to practice as a neo-pagan.

duello


strangerthanfiction

PostPosted: Sat Aug 25, 2007 6:46 pm


duello
"What do you get when you cross a Unitarian and a Jehovah’s witness? Someone who knocks on your door at 7:30 in the morning and doesn't know why."

Oh, and I like the light bulb one. It’s a little cliché' but funny.

Actually, I had my world religions teacher advise that I try the UU, as a place to practice as a neo-pagan.


Yea, we've got pagans. There is a special service that my congregation holds on...I think friday evenings for pagans..or it might have been wicans, I can't remember but it is a good opportunity to learn what you personally believe.
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