AFG Sallies

[Angel Natavi]

I am ready. Discuss away.  

[Alektorphobia]

Now...Why are you trying to defend her from us correcting her? If she isn't corrected, she'll never learn or be able to tell the differance (the same goes in the art world)  

[Angel Natavi]

Asphyxiation_of_the_Mind

Now...Why are you trying to defend her from us correcting her? If she isn't corrected, she'll never learn or be able to tell the differance (the same goes in the art world)

I was only attempting to stop it from being so harsh. The correction that is. And yes. I acknowledge this, and I agree. If someone isn't corrected, the same behavior will go on. But it could have been done a little more kinder about it.  

[Alektorphobia]

Angel Natavi

Asphyxiation_of_the_Mind

Now...Why are you trying to defend her from us correcting her? If she isn't corrected, she'll never learn or be able to tell the differance (the same goes in the art world)

I was only attempting to stop it from being so harsh. The correction that is. And yes. I acknowledge this, and I agree. If someone isn't corrected, the same behavior will go on. But it could have been done a little more kinder about it.

I said it was nice as possible..."That's a rottie, not a dobie", I'm not gonna be mushy and say it like "Honey, that's not a dobie...that's a rottie, sweety" O_o

Sorry for the delay, I was deleting my posts like NG asked  

[Angel Natavi]

Asphyxiation_of_the_Mind

Angel Natavi

Asphyxiation_of_the_Mind

Now...Why are you trying to defend her from us correcting her? If she isn't corrected, she'll never learn or be able to tell the differance (the same goes in the art world)

I was only attempting to stop it from being so harsh. The correction that is. And yes. I acknowledge this, and I agree. If someone isn't corrected, the same behavior will go on. But it could have been done a little more kinder about it.

I said it was nice as possible..."That's a rottie, not a dobie", I'm not gonna be mushy and say it like "Honey, that's not a dobie...that's a rottie, sweety" O_o

Sorry for the delay, I was deleting my posts like NG asked

I know. From my point of view, it was NG who was the harshest. I don't like to be mushy at all, but there was a heck of a lot that could have been done differently. On all of our parts.  

[Alektorphobia]

Angel Natavi

Asphyxiation_of_the_Mind

Angel Natavi

Asphyxiation_of_the_Mind

Now...Why are you trying to defend her from us correcting her? If she isn't corrected, she'll never learn or be able to tell the differance (the same goes in the art world)

I was only attempting to stop it from being so harsh. The correction that is. And yes. I acknowledge this, and I agree. If someone isn't corrected, the same behavior will go on. But it could have been done a little more kinder about it.

I said it was nice as possible..."That's a rottie, not a dobie", I'm not gonna be mushy and say it like "Honey, that's not a dobie...that's a rottie, sweety" O_o

Sorry for the delay, I was deleting my posts like NG asked

I know. From my point of view, it was NG who was the harshest. I don't like to be mushy at all, but there was a heck of a lot that could have been done differently. On all of our parts.

I was called mean before NG even said anything O_o; For being honest, for the love of god, she can't be an artist if she can't even take being corrected  

[FogSage]

Damn, I missed the big fight. stressed

Anyway.......seems to me like someone was being BLUNT, not HARSH, to someone else.

This is a guild for adults. If they have the mentality of children, then they should not be here. Nuff said.  

[Angel Natavi]

And that is where I disagree with you. Those of us who do art, do it for fun, if not for profit. And those of us who can't take critisism, don't need to be discouraged because of it. I mean, I suck at graphite and drawing art. I know this. Yet I do it because I can. You really shouldn't discourage others because of one or two faults.  

[Angel Natavi]

FogSage

Damn, I missed the big fight. stressed

Anyway.......seems to me like someone was being BLUNT, not HARSH, to someone else.

This is a guild for adults. If they have the mentality of children, then they should not be here. Nuff said.

So that means that I should leave then huh? There is a difference between bluntness and harshnes.  

[FogSage]

Angel Natavi

And that is where I disagree with you. Those of us who do art, do it for fun, if not for profit. And those of us who can't take critisism, don't need to be discouraged because of it. I mean, I suck at graphite and drawing art. I know this. Yet I do it because I can. You really shouldn't discourage others because of one or two faults.

I don't discourage people. I take what I know and tell them what I think. If they take it the wrong way, then that's their problem, not mine.

Since I hadn't read the Cute Furs thread thingy, I didn't know that Sakii got confused. So sorry.

Asphy, I'd say what you did is perfectly fine. It was Sakii that overreacted.  

[Selene Aries]

I think that things are all cleared up now and from now on personal arguments should be delt with in PM. The Sallies is not ment to be a place for people to argue and deal with their problems with another.  

[FogSage]

Angel Natavi

FogSage

Damn, I missed the big fight. stressed

Anyway.......seems to me like someone was being BLUNT, not HARSH, to someone else.

This is a guild for adults. If they have the mentality of children, then they should not be here. Nuff said.

So that means that I should leave then huh? There is a difference between bluntness and harshnes.

Yes. Yes there is. And ASPHY was BLUNT, not HARSH.

I didn't say that YOU personally have a childish mentality. >_>  

[Alektorphobia]

Thank you Fog, you see where I was coming from.  

[UglyCoyoteNG]

FogSage

Angel Natavi

FogSage

Damn, I missed the big fight. stressed

Anyway.......seems to me like someone was being BLUNT, not HARSH, to someone else.

This is a guild for adults. If they have the mentality of children, then they should not be here. Nuff said.

So that means that I should leave then huh? There is a difference between bluntness and harshnes.

Yes. Yes there is. And ASPHY was BLUNT, not HARSH.

I didn't say that YOU personally have a childish mentality. >_>

>> Then I'll say it. Natavi, you have a childish mentality.  

[FogSage]

Diana Vulpes

I think that things are all cleared up now and from now on personal arguments should be delt with in PM. The Sallies is not ment to be a place for people to argue and deal with their problems with another.

As long as we're discussing this in a civil manner, I don't see why we can't talk about it. We aren't flaming one another, as it were.

But if you insist, then I will take your advice and do as you say. neutral