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Alannaa

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 2:36 am


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question,would anyone here forgive someone that tried to out them to their family?

If they were sorry. My mom tried to out me to a family counselor once it was awkward as hell but she apologized later and now we cool.
But if they're not sorry then they suck.
Sorry if that happened to you D:

my friend dennis want me to forgive the jack-a** that outed me to my brother...he isn't sorry in fact he is e-mailing them tryin to drive the point home to my family

What a douche! People need to mind their own damn business sometimes! I'm sorry hun gonk
i am honestly half way thinkin of gettin a group together and goin and beatin the guy till he can't walk,then breaking his knees so he never walks again,then breaking his jaw so he a** can't talk

Don't. You'll just end up regretting it.

If I had something to come out about and someone outed me, it would be hard to deal with, especially if they were so vindictive about the whole thing. But you have to remember that he's human, too. He has the opportunity to fix his sins sometime in the future. But if you force it to a physically violent level then he will probably never work to fix his mistakes. And then you'll have missed out on an apology or even a good friendship. And you'll make his other victims miss out along with you. Violence isn't the answer. Cliche aside, by hurting him, you'd really only hurt yourself.
PostPosted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 9:51 am


Alannaa
shea the anti-venom
Mazzie Bell
shea the anti-venom
Mazzie Bell
shea the anti-venom
question,would anyone here forgive someone that tried to out them to their family?

If they were sorry. My mom tried to out me to a family counselor once it was awkward as hell but she apologized later and now we cool.
But if they're not sorry then they suck.
Sorry if that happened to you D:

my friend dennis want me to forgive the jack-a** that outed me to my brother...he isn't sorry in fact he is e-mailing them tryin to drive the point home to my family

What a douche! People need to mind their own damn business sometimes! I'm sorry hun gonk
i am honestly half way thinkin of gettin a group together and goin and beatin the guy till he can't walk,then breaking his knees so he never walks again,then breaking his jaw so he a** can't talk

Don't. You'll just end up regretting it.

If I had something to come out about and someone outed me, it would be hard to deal with, especially if they were so vindictive about the whole thing. But you have to remember that he's human, too. He has the opportunity to fix his sins sometime in the future. But if you force it to a physically violent level then he will probably never work to fix his mistakes. And then you'll have missed out on an apology or even a good friendship. And you'll make his other victims miss out along with you. Violence isn't the answer. Cliche aside, by hurting him, you'd really only hurt yourself.
then what do i do,i have enough stress with out this so what do i do?


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Alannaa

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 9:18 pm


shea the anti-venom
Alannaa
shea the anti-venom
Mazzie Bell
shea the anti-venom

my friend dennis want me to forgive the jack-a** that outed me to my brother...he isn't sorry in fact he is e-mailing them tryin to drive the point home to my family

What a douche! People need to mind their own damn business sometimes! I'm sorry hun gonk
i am honestly half way thinkin of gettin a group together and goin and beatin the guy till he can't walk,then breaking his knees so he never walks again,then breaking his jaw so he a** can't talk

Don't. You'll just end up regretting it.

If I had something to come out about and someone outed me, it would be hard to deal with, especially if they were so vindictive about the whole thing. But you have to remember that he's human, too. He has the opportunity to fix his sins sometime in the future. But if you force it to a physically violent level then he will probably never work to fix his mistakes. And then you'll have missed out on an apology or even a good friendship. And you'll make his other victims miss out along with you. Violence isn't the answer. Cliche aside, by hurting him, you'd really only hurt yourself.
then what do i do,i have enough stress with out this so what do i do?

Talk to the guy. Ask him to stop. Tell him it's not okay and he's hurting you. Tell him it's not his secret to tell. If you want to come out, you'll come out. And only when you're ready.
PostPosted: Mon Nov 08, 2010 6:43 am


Alannaa
shea the anti-venom
Alannaa
shea the anti-venom
Mazzie Bell
shea the anti-venom

my friend dennis want me to forgive the jack-a** that outed me to my brother...he isn't sorry in fact he is e-mailing them tryin to drive the point home to my family

What a douche! People need to mind their own damn business sometimes! I'm sorry hun gonk
i am honestly half way thinkin of gettin a group together and goin and beatin the guy till he can't walk,then breaking his knees so he never walks again,then breaking his jaw so he a** can't talk

Don't. You'll just end up regretting it.

If I had something to come out about and someone outed me, it would be hard to deal with, especially if they were so vindictive about the whole thing. But you have to remember that he's human, too. He has the opportunity to fix his sins sometime in the future. But if you force it to a physically violent level then he will probably never work to fix his mistakes. And then you'll have missed out on an apology or even a good friendship. And you'll make his other victims miss out along with you. Violence isn't the answer. Cliche aside, by hurting him, you'd really only hurt yourself.
then what do i do,i have enough stress with out this so what do i do?

Talk to the guy. Ask him to stop. Tell him it's not okay and he's hurting you. Tell him it's not his secret to tell. If you want to come out, you'll come out. And only when you're ready.
tried that,he laughed,...it obvious he has no remorse or intention to stop.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 08, 2010 11:33 am


I definitely do NOT like this new fluoride they put on my teeth.. I was looking forward to the different flavored stuff they had before, and then I end up with this paste crap. It makes my teeth feel dirty and that's bothering the hell out of me. sad
PostPosted: Mon Nov 08, 2010 6:22 pm


so dead on this site ...


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Nyumonster


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 2:03 am


ninja
PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 8:46 am


SO...... I've been seeing this straight girl.

She's totally chill.

We spend a lot of time in my car smoking grape blunts and listening to music. Then we are off to the serious business. Cuddling.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 8:51 am


Is it weird I haven't told anyone irl that today I'm going to the place I use to go to when I was younger and on anti-depressants? They're going to do an evaluation..I'm not sure what that really involves, but I'm kind of nervous/scared and have debated canceling. But at the same time, I need to know what's wrong with me as far as my behaviors go. I'm sure the depression is still there but I'm able to deal with it better than when I was a teenager, but it's other things I wonder about. Why I get annoyed so easily, if I have anger issues that were never addressed, do I have a learning disability, why I hate most people, why I can't sympathize with people, why I don't have much in the way of emotions, etc etc.
PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 3:51 pm


*yawns*


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Vicious_Cuteness

PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 8:50 pm


Hey guild it's been a while, what's up?
PostPosted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 3:20 pm


Vicious_Cuteness
Hey guild it's been a while, what's up?

*glomps*

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 3:48 pm


hi....
PostPosted: Thu Nov 11, 2010 12:12 am


Yay...insomnia xP

Can't sleep.....


IN THAT CASE!!! COFFEE!!! XDDDD

Vicious_Cuteness


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 11, 2010 1:17 am


Wow it's almost 4:30 am, so late lol
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