Cactus Juice Ravings [OOC Chatroom]

[Hiro the Herp]

call_me_ishmail1

Snuffins

DGwar

Snuffins

SNUFFY!
I'm kinda bored and whatnot!
What should I do?!
gonk

gimme a minute to finish up this post and maybe we can start up a game of league...or i'll blow up the arenas...i mean, spice up our tournament, lol

You should have mentioned the league. I am on there and have been sort of itching for more people to actually play with. pubbies are getting boring.

What's league?  

[call_me_ishmail1]

I am assuming league of legends, but that's only because that's the only thing I have ever heard to referred to as league that is multiplayer.  

[DGwar]

Sigh...
Why is it that when I talk to girls i get instantly friendzoned?

 

[Hiro the Herp]

DGwar

Sigh...
Why is it that when I talk to girls i get instantly friendzoned?

Do you show any initiative that you might actually like them? Or are you the type that acts friendly all the time?  

[DGwar]

Hiro_Uzaki

Do you show any initiative that you might actually like them? Or are you the type that acts friendly all the time?

I've actually told one girl who friendzoned me that i was in love with her and she simply told me that she wasn't sure she could be with me like that. Which is odd, because she offered to sleep with me.

 

[Missandei]

DGwar

I've actually told one girl who friendzoned me that i was in love with her and she simply told me that she wasn't sure she could be with me like that. Which is odd, because she offered to sleep with me.

That's so awkward. neutral  

[call_me_ishmail1]

DGwar

Hiro_Uzaki

Do you show any initiative that you might actually like them? Or are you the type that acts friendly all the time?

I've actually told one girl who friendzoned me that i was in love with her and she simply told me that she wasn't sure she could be with me like that. Which is odd, because she offered to sleep with me.

How was this told. As in method of communication (IM, face to face, call on phone ect.) And as well, if you said literally that, it may have been rather direct and a little too hard on them. Bear in mind that using that word all over the place will cause people to lose confidence in your using it. Try softening what you say. Instead of love, use crush or like or something similar at first. Makes it easier to get in as you are telling them "I have feelings for you, but I don't know if they are serious yet. Let's find out together."  

[Cute Things In Jars]

DGwar

Hiro_Uzaki

Do you show any initiative that you might actually like them? Or are you the type that acts friendly all the time?

I've actually told one girl who friendzoned me that i was in love with her and she simply told me that she wasn't sure she could be with me like that. Which is odd, because she offered to sleep with me.

Friend Zoned....WITH BENEFITS! wink


@Ish

I did mean LoL...if you wanna add me, my name is Braysta  

[DGwar]

to be my old roommate.
And after about 6 months almost a year of being her friend I told her that i can't believe i let myself fall in love with her.
She then hugged me and after awhile asked me to spend the night, told me she didn't think she could date me, but she would "fool around" with me.

 

[call_me_ishmail1]

DGwar

to be my old roommate.
And after about 6 months almost a year of being her friend I told her that i can't believe i let myself fall in love with her.
She then hugged me and after awhile asked me to spend the night, told me she didn't think she could date me, but she would "fool around" with me.

Ah. In that case, be glad. That type of person has problems with commitment. I wouldn't doubt some sort of trauma when they were younger they need to deal with. But the way you approached it wasn't bad. Face to face is good, and having a brief conversation like that is good. Just soften your approach and it will be better.  

[Cute Things In Jars]

DGwar

to be my old roommate.
And after about 6 months almost a year of being her friend I told her that i can't believe i let myself fall in love with her.
She then hugged me and after awhile asked me to spend the night, told me she didn't think she could date me, but she would "fool around" with me.

not sure if you're that kind of guy...
but if i was single...i'd hit it...  

[Ro Mayvine]

what about LoL?  

[ii_Conan-Kun_ii]

~looks around~  

[Missandei]

DGwar

to be my old roommate.
And after about 6 months almost a year of being her friend I told her that i can't believe i let myself fall in love with her.
She then hugged me and after awhile asked me to spend the night, told me she didn't think she could date me, but she would "fool around" with me.

Some girls are difficult, though. My last serious relationship started off as a friends with benefits thing that evolved into a very serious relationship. We talked about getting married and love all the time. Some people just don't want to officially declare any type of commitment. (Especially if you started off with saying 'fall in love'--that's risky.)  

[Cute Things In Jars]

Ro Mayvine

what about LoL?

I'm a beast with Tris....lol