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Keikara, I can't imagine how awful that must feel. I'm sorry he put you through that. Guys can be such assholes sad

I do XD

And the constant teasing till they finally got you bi-curious enough. xd

That is partly the attitude that got me to break down. Oddly enough it was some fan art of a fan-fic (or lemon) that really started the process of opening me up.

Yeah, what he said X3

I agree with the others as far as getting away from that guy. But it's your choice, he's your friend not ours. I know how tempting it is to just forgive and forget, but he went from one extreme to another so who's to say he won't flip again in the future? On one hand, he could just be an a**, but it sounds like he was nice enough before that incident, though I suppose that isn't enough to support whether he is or not...On the other he could have a personality disorder, in which case he WILL flip again, and that would also explain the alcohol abuse. You know him better than any of us though, so again, it's your call. He just doesn't sound like a person to get too close to. 'Course, that would be somewhat hypocritical of me. My mate and I got together under undesirable circumstances. That's a long story...but the short version is: He liked me, was too shy, ended up with another girl, shortly after becoming boyfriend of said girl, admitted his feelings for me and vice versa. I became the one he was cheating on his girlfriend with, for nearly two years. He put me through hell, and I wouldn't be with him now if his ex hadn't decided to take several rides on a friend of hers. However, things are fine now...But he never flipped out on me like that, never said a truley mean thing about me, in fact, he hated himself for what he was doing. I guess what I want to say is that anything could happen with him, he's unstable and you need to use your best judgement.
As for the kitten, it might make it's way back once it gets tired of it's adventure and gets hungry enough. That's what our cat did when he ran away, and he was gone for weeks.

Hush you. You love me to death and you know it, or else you wouldn't be so great to me. ~Cuddles~

@@; By the way. I died almost five times today. I had to do greatgrandmother duty today. @@;;;; She shouldn't have a driver's license. We went, for a mile, the wrong way on a ONE WAY STREET. @______________@ AND AND AND She kept trying to turn into oncoming traffick. My heart almost died within my little chest so many times. I can't believe her. But. >> The good thing about hanging out with her is that she randomly gives me her change. I made $5.01 today. >>;;

D: That must suck. I've heard of it happening to another friend of mine once too.