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 Posted: Mon Nov 27, 2006 3:03 pm
ketchakik love, it's worth any price... a moment of truely being loved is worth a lifetime of pain... it's something beautiful beyond the words of the poets, beyond sence, beyond reason. if you have ever really known total selfless love you have been truely blessed by the gods. YAY, very well said!
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Posted: Mon Nov 27, 2006 5:34 pm
You cannot avoid pain, whether you choose to love or not, pain will find you. So avoiding love to avoid pain is pointless. Besides love is way to beautiful to miss out on, its the most wonderful feeling, even if it doesn't last forever. Although I believe there is always a chance for it to last forever.
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Posted: Mon Nov 27, 2006 5:37 pm
Laharl Part Dux You cannot avoid pain, whether you choose to love or not, pain will find you. So avoiding love to avoid pain is pointless. Besides love is way to beautiful to miss out on, it the most wonderful feeling, even if it doesn't last forever. Although I believe there is always a chance for it to last forever.
I like the way you said that. you are very right.
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Posted: Mon Nov 27, 2006 5:39 pm
i don't know if i believe in love...i mean, i did at one point. i had a boyfriend who i loved dearly. but we broke up...and now we're back together, but i still don't know...it might just be the hormones or my parents talking, but i'm not sure love exists in todays generation...
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Posted: Mon Nov 27, 2006 6:03 pm
celtic_faerie i don't know if i believe in love...i mean, i did at one point. i had a boyfriend who i loved dearly. but we broke up...and now we're back together, but i still don't know...it might just be the hormones or my parents talking, but i'm not sure love exists in todays generation...
Love is not based on generation it is based on many other factors. First, being able to know one's needs and wants. Second being compatbility, and third being one's maturity to have a relationship(I'm not directing this at you I'm just saying in general).
I can see what you mean about people of this generation but I don't think think this is a loveless generation.The problem today is is that everything is more or less based on sex. Also theres is a lack of respect found in todays generation, which is a key element in any sucessful relationship. The thing one has to understand is that while it seems that the majority of people are like this it is not everbody. So love can still exists, it just seems less likely. In addition, one has to keep in mind that older generations have and have had there share of problems too. For instance, at one point marriages were arranged.
I hope that was cohesive...By the way thank you miturn
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Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 11:50 am
celtic_faerie i don't know if i believe in love...i mean, i did at one point. i had a boyfriend who i loved dearly. but we broke up...and now we're back together, but i still don't know...it might just be the hormones or my parents talking, but i'm not sure love exists in todays generation... I posted a rant about love and sex in today's society, somewhere earlier in this thread. I still stand by what I said 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 11:53 am
I believe you'll know when your true love comes. Even if you're like me and lost your heart a long time ago to heart break. I have hope I'll find it again someday and be able to move on.
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Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 1:02 pm
To love and be loved can be a good feeling. The hurt and problems that come with it can be worked out if both parties are willing to try. If not, remember what you both once had and try to incorporate what went right into the next relationship. (What went wrong should be reflected on and tried not to be repeated if it can be helped).
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Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 2:42 pm
to me.. i have found the one... i love him to death.. he used to love me that way, but things change.. . .. now i have another love.. this one could be the one... we have so much fun together.. and we both claim to love each other... we broke up today.. then we made my other b/f mad.. cuz we were all over each other on the way home..... ....... idk i dont really care much for the b/f i have now.. and cheating, to me, isnt that bad.. ive already been cheating on... and ive cheated on someone... i have a problem with guilt, so i will never cheat again.. but if my b/f cheats, its ok, i have no problem with it.....
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Posted: Tue Nov 28, 2006 3:11 pm
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Posted: Fri Dec 01, 2006 8:10 am
Love is a word nothing more
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Posted: Fri Dec 01, 2006 2:04 pm
undiscovered_darkness to me.. i have found the one... i love him to death.. he used to love me that way, but things change.. . .. now i have another love.. this one could be the one... we have so much fun together.. and we both claim to love each other... we broke up today.. then we made my other b/f mad.. cuz we were all over each other on the way home..... ....... idk i dont really care much for the b/f i have now.. and cheating, to me, isnt that bad.. ive already been cheating on... and ive cheated on someone... i have a problem with guilt, so i will never cheat again.. but if my b/f cheats, its ok, i have no problem with it..... I've been cheated on, and it really broke my heart. We tried to make things work, but he just wasn't willing to put in the work to make things right, and we broke up. I think I might just dump the next guy who cheats on me, but I might be willing to work it out if he is, which partially depends on how bad he was. That is, willing to do what it takes to earn back my trust.
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Posted: Fri Dec 01, 2006 3:17 pm
EmoXPickles_________x darkheart_vampire Love is only true if the other (the one you have your eye on) loves you back Cheating is one of the worst things. alot of my friends have loved someone...truely loved someone but only to have it slap them in the face when the cheated one of my best friends loved someone and married them then devorced because his wife cheated on him. he was really heart broken..but he told me that he wouldnt take anything that has happened back (not exact words but its pretty much what he told me) they were together for probably 15 .. years and then said ******** it...they both truly loved each other but things fell appart stuff like that happens i -for one- am in love and i really hope that nothing falls apart and another...ive learned that it take true heart break to make the creative side come out of us love is not complicated at all (for toxic tears) because you could love a dog or a bird or even plants but sometimes people can make it complicated by making giving up...or not trying some times people say that they love but they truly dont (it may be a crush) but anyway i lost the point i was making I have been in love manytimes its just that they never truely love me in return...it was just getting back at someone or proving that they could get a girlfriend or what ever...but now that i have the one i love and he loves me inreturn everythings fine...i just gotta not ******** it up..=) Accually love is pretty compliacted. I've been cheated on. And this person who cheated on me is the guy I love. I still love him and were still together. All I'm saying is...It is compliacted if you don't know what to do. Or what to say. I'm in a similiar situation, but not quite. A bit more complicated then just that. But, I have to say that...it somehow brought me and him closer together? Love IS complicated. Simple as that.
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Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 1:13 pm
Laharl Part Dux You cannot avoid pain, whether you choose to love or not, pain will find you. So avoiding love to avoid pain is pointless. Besides love is way to beautiful to miss out on, its the most wonderful feeling, even if it doesn't last forever. Although I believe there is always a chance for it to last forever. Very well said, I agree.
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Posted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 1:50 pm
hmm....I thought my relationship with my ex of four years was perfect. I thought she'd be the one I'd spend my life with. During the first year or two, things were great. We loved each other deeply, and I thought nothing could ruin it. But...I soon noticed all these little signs, but I chosed to ignore them. Then about two year ago, I was forced to move away, so we tried having a long distance relationship. The signs bugged me more and more, because I soon noticed them in all the emails and calls she made to me. She was different. Then March of this year, she broke up with me. I was miserable for 6 months, and I swore never to love again. Not too long ago, her older sister confessed that my ex had been cheating on me behind my back.
I ended up falling in love again with someone else. And Im very happy now. Happier than I have ever been. She's a really great person, and she and I seem to have been meant for each other.
I guess what Im trying to say is, no matter how much you try to avoid love, it will always find you, and in the wierdest ways too. You can't always predict love, so don't try to find it. Then again, don't abuse it either. If you do, it'll only seem like a game to you, and you'll lose the satisfactory of loving or being loved by someone. And long distance relationships only work out when both sides are trying to make it work. They must be willed enough to dedicate so much to it. But in the event that love doesn't work out for you, just move on and dont worry. Love will come again.
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