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 Posted: Wed Oct 22, 2008 10:13 pm
My next reply on lack of sex education is this: do you know how may unintended pregnancies are a result from lack of education?! Quite a few.
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Posted: Thu Oct 23, 2008 8:20 am
Britomartis-the-Valiant Zaaki 1. If people LIKE YOU, stopped talking about sex, soo that no teenagers knew what it was, then that problem would be solved wink Actually my parents never gave me the talk and since I was home schooled, my "school" didn't have any sex education. The result: I figured it out on my own. And people with your raging hormones probably figure it out pretty fast. I put the pieces together out of curiosity only (no raging hormones for me). However, I had no idea what rape was until I was 16. That's not a good position to be in. And Miniangel. The reason why friendships are allowed between girls and guys is because we don't have arranged marriage. Sorry, but most people here want to marry someone they like and know versus a complete stranger. It probably leads to stronger marriages. Why do you consider falling in love bad? Didn't God create us with that capacity? Falling in love isn't bad!! But that, leads to that. I'm sorry but I'm really getting tired, I mean, the truth is in front of us! And you're still denying it? When you fall in love, you'd want to be with that person for your whole life, right? Then what, what if the guy is scump? What if you want to stay a virgin and he doesn't? Guys and girls attract! Whether you like it or not, it's an universal LAW! I don't think that falling in love is bad, but can't you just stay in love without having to get closer to the guy? I mean, nothing is going to happen if you date. You'd still want some progress, right? What kind of progress will happen if you reached the highest point? There's nothing left but getting intimate, and having to break those rules, and then, that leads to pregnancy, and kids with unknown parents! I'm so angry with those these teenagers, who get pregnant, and then they leave the baby. And the baby has nobody. I mean, they want to date and fall in love, the next thing you know, there are kids involved. Get educated, you say! But, you know, getting educated isn't going to help, since the human being is created that way. Unless you're saying doing it without having to get a baby is good. Because you know what, that is disgusting. What is left when you get married? I truely can't understand this kind of life style..
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Posted: Thu Oct 23, 2008 9:34 am
Mini_Angel_1994 I mean, the truth is in front of us! And you're still denying it? I came in rather late to the conversation...what truth? Mini_Angel_1994 When you fall in love, you'd want to be with that person for your whole life, right? Usually Mini_Angel_1994 Then what, what if the guy is scump? There is always a chance with that. And marriage. Some guys don't show their true colors until they get married. My friend's mom met this wonderful guy, who had a promising career in the military and they didn't do anything "inappropriate" according to their Catholic standards. He ended up becoming a wife abuser. Everybody approved of him, saying how wonderful it was to be a military wife for her and what a great life they would have together. Now she's divorced and he still messes with her kids minds, turning the boys against her. Mini_Angel_1994 What if you want to stay a virgin and he doesn't? Generally, if you make this known to a guy, and he really loves you, then he'll respect you. If not, that's the signal to leave the relationship. It's not that complicated. Mini_Angel_1994 Guys and girls attract! Whether you like it or not, it's an universal LAW! Homosexuals, transexuals, pansexuals, *****, asexuals.....they defy that law. Most guys are straight. Most girls are straight. But not all. Mini_Angel_1994 I don't think that falling in love is bad, but can't you just stay in love without having to get closer to the guy? I mean, nothing is going to happen if you date. You'd still want some progress, right? What kind of progress will happen if you reached the highest point? There's nothing left but getting intimate, and having to break those rules, and then, that leads to pregnancy, and kids with unknown parents! Again, that is not the case. Not every guy and girl that start dating are sexually active and the girl gets preggos. 1. birthcontrol. Those who do want to get sexually active can do this, either by using a chemical form and a condom. And if the condom breaks, there's always the morning after pill. 2. Believe it or not, there are quite a few that practice abstinence. One of my other friend's mom and dad, when they were dating, there were rules. And her mom would tell the guy she was dating (her dad) when he was pressing boundaries and to back off. Mini_Angel_1994 Get educated, you say! But, you know, getting educated isn't going to help, since the human being is created that way. Getting educated also means that you learn birth control, which prevents babies. Abstinences is still 100% perfect, but most other forms reach to be that close when used in combination. And the morning after pill is very effective. Mini_Angel_1994 Unless you're saying doing it without having to get a baby is good. Because you know what, that is disgusting. What is left when you get married? I truely can't understand this kind of life style.. You try the shoes before you buy them. If you want to have kids, especially lots of kids, or want to be able to enjoy nights/days of pleasure with your husband, you wanna be able to enjoy the sex. But really, it's each to his/her own. For some people it works, for others, only abstinence. Again it's a matter of personal choice.
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Posted: Thu Oct 23, 2008 9:50 am
Truth that boys and girls attract.
But again, those pills and those condoms are not 100% perfect. Let us put babies apart. Those killing sicknesses, AIDS and what so ever. How do you deal with these?
I can't seem to be convinced of what you say. You try shoes before you buy them yes, but you don't go out of the store, and walk around a mile and then come back, and if you don't like it you give it back to the guy who sells it. That's what you guys are doing..
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Posted: Thu Oct 23, 2008 1:10 pm
Mini_Angel_1994 Truth that boys and girls attract. But again, those pills and those condoms are not 100% perfect.
Which is why i suggested abstinence. Mini_Angel_1994 Those killing sicknesses, AIDS and what so ever. How do you deal with these?
Condoms.
knowing your partner
facing the consequences due to ignorance and naivenessMini_Angel_1994 I can't seem to be convinced of what you say. You try shoes before you buy them yes, but you don't go out of the store, and walk around a mile and then come back, and if you don't like it you give it back to the guy who sells it. That's what you guys are doing..
Usually I don't walk a mile in shoes I don't like. Maybe about a yard or two. smile
And if it doesn't work, you chuck it in donation for the next poor soul to come in and move on in life, because you don't get refunds on used shoes.
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Posted: Thu Oct 23, 2008 1:39 pm
So, it's that way, your example reflected back on you! These shoes lose their quality, and then they're nothing, and then they go for poor people, as if something is wrong with them.
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Posted: Fri Oct 24, 2008 9:00 am
Britomartis-the-Valiant Zaaki 1. If people LIKE YOU, stopped talking about sex, soo that no teenagers knew what it was, then that problem would be solved wink Actually my parents never gave me the talk and since I was home schooled, my "school" didn't have any sex education. The result: I figured it out on my own. And people with your raging hormones probably figure it out pretty fast. I put the pieces together out of curiosity only (no raging hormones for me). However, I had no idea what rape was until I was 16. That's not a good position to be in. And Miniangel. The reason why friendships are allowed between girls and guys is because we don't have arranged marriage. Sorry, but most people here want to marry someone they like and know versus a complete stranger. It probably leads to stronger marriages. Why do you consider falling in love bad? Didn't God create us with that capacity? I figured it out by people like u stare
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Posted: Fri Oct 24, 2008 1:41 pm
Zaaki Britomartis-the-Valiant Zaaki 1. If people LIKE YOU, stopped talking about sex, soo that no teenagers knew what it was, then that problem would be solved wink Actually my parents never gave me the talk and since I was home schooled, my "school" didn't have any sex education. The result: I figured it out on my own. And people with your raging hormones probably figure it out pretty fast. I put the pieces together out of curiosity only (no raging hormones for me). However, I had no idea what rape was until I was 16. That's not a good position to be in. And Miniangel. The reason why friendships are allowed between girls and guys is because we don't have arranged marriage. Sorry, but most people here want to marry someone they like and know versus a complete stranger. It probably leads to stronger marriages. Why do you consider falling in love bad? Didn't God create us with that capacity? I figured it out by people like u stare Ehm! Anyways, things shouldn't be the way it is right now. These are still children, and they shouldn't even get involved in these things. At least.. Until they're 20! I mean, what kind of life it's going to be by the time when you're 20 and you've experienced everything? I personally think that this is wrong, pre-marriage relationships are totally wrong!
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Posted: Fri Oct 24, 2008 11:04 pm
Mini_Angel_1994 Falling in love isn't bad!! Then why avoid it like it is? Mini_Angel_1994 But that, leads to that. I'm sorry but I'm really getting tired, I mean, the truth is in front of us! And you're still denying it? What is obvious to you because of your upbringing is not obvious to me, pardon me for saying. Mini_Angel_1994 When you fall in love, you'd want to be with that person for your whole life, right? Then what, what if the guy is scump? What if you want to stay a virgin and he doesn't? This may sound frightening, but I don't think I want to be a virgin all my life. It would be nice to get married and have children. It would be strange to get married and remain a virgin. (I agree with you about premarital sex). Mini_Angel_1994 Guys and girls attract! Whether you like it or not, it's an universal LAW! Let's not open this can of worms. I happen to have been pretty much an asexual until a year ago. . . Mini_Angel_1994 I don't think that falling in love is bad, but can't you just stay in love without having to get closer to the guy? Don't confuse a crush with falling in love. And also, that's a lot of strain on a person's heart. Falling in love is a step in a process supposed to lead to marriage and children and a life together. Mini_Angel_1994 I mean, nothing is going to happen if you date. You'd still want some progress, right? What kind of progress will happen if you reached the highest point? There's nothing left but getting intimate, and having to break those rules, and then, that leads to pregnancy, and kids with unknown parents! People have some self-control and many people are able to wait until marriage to have sex. Perhaps I have a different view of this because I am at a different point in my life. I am in love with a guy and we want to get married in a couple years. Marriage is supposed to be the natural progression to a relationship that you described, not premarital sex and illegitimate children.
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Posted: Fri Oct 24, 2008 11:08 pm
Zaaki Britomartis-the-Valiant Zaaki 1. If people LIKE YOU, stopped talking about sex, soo that no teenagers knew what it was, then that problem would be solved wink Actually my parents never gave me the talk and since I was home schooled, my "school" didn't have any sex education. The result: I figured it out on my own. And people with your raging hormones probably figure it out pretty fast. I put the pieces together out of curiosity only (no raging hormones for me). However, I had no idea what rape was until I was 16. That's not a good position to be in. And Miniangel. The reason why friendships are allowed between girls and guys is because we don't have arranged marriage. Sorry, but most people here want to marry someone they like and know versus a complete stranger. It probably leads to stronger marriages. Why do you consider falling in love bad? Didn't God create us with that capacity? I figured it out by people like u stare Ummm, pardon? Just what kind of person do you think I am?
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The Dead Terrorist Achmed
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Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 9:56 am
Mini_Angel_1994 Truth that boys and girls attract.
I beg to differ. I am not attracted to girls in any way, shape or form.
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Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 7:43 am
Britomartis-the-Valiant Zaaki Britomartis-the-Valiant Zaaki 1. If people LIKE YOU, stopped talking about sex, soo that no teenagers knew what it was, then that problem would be solved wink Actually my parents never gave me the talk and since I was home schooled, my "school" didn't have any sex education. The result: I figured it out on my own. And people with your raging hormones probably figure it out pretty fast. I put the pieces together out of curiosity only (no raging hormones for me). However, I had no idea what rape was until I was 16. That's not a good position to be in. And Miniangel. The reason why friendships are allowed between girls and guys is because we don't have arranged marriage. Sorry, but most people here want to marry someone they like and know versus a complete stranger. It probably leads to stronger marriages. Why do you consider falling in love bad? Didn't God create us with that capacity? I figured it out by people like u stare Ummm, pardon? Just what kind of person do you think I am? A non-muslim?
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Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 7:46 am
Mini_Angel_1994 Zaaki Britomartis-the-Valiant Zaaki 1. If people LIKE YOU, stopped talking about sex, soo that no teenagers knew what it was, then that problem would be solved wink Actually my parents never gave me the talk and since I was home schooled, my "school" didn't have any sex education. The result: I figured it out on my own. And people with your raging hormones probably figure it out pretty fast. I put the pieces together out of curiosity only (no raging hormones for me). However, I had no idea what rape was until I was 16. That's not a good position to be in. And Miniangel. The reason why friendships are allowed between girls and guys is because we don't have arranged marriage. Sorry, but most people here want to marry someone they like and know versus a complete stranger. It probably leads to stronger marriages. Why do you consider falling in love bad? Didn't God create us with that capacity? I figured it out by people like u stare Ehm! Anyways, things shouldn't be the way it is right now. These are still children, and they shouldn't even get involved in these things. At least.. Until they're 20! I mean, what kind of life it's going to be by the time when you're 20 and you've experienced everything? I personally think that this is wrong, pre-marriage relationships are totally wrong! The acknowleadge must come to the right time... Beffore marriage should be best! Where i live, people knows it all! (they just don't know the capital of France rofl )
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Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 6:51 pm
Zaaki Britomartis-the-Valiant Zaaki Britomartis-the-Valiant Zaaki 1. If people LIKE YOU, stopped talking about sex, soo that no teenagers knew what it was, then that problem would be solved wink Actually my parents never gave me the talk and since I was home schooled, my "school" didn't have any sex education. The result: I figured it out on my own. And people with your raging hormones probably figure it out pretty fast. I put the pieces together out of curiosity only (no raging hormones for me). However, I had no idea what rape was until I was 16. That's not a good position to be in. And Miniangel. The reason why friendships are allowed between girls and guys is because we don't have arranged marriage. Sorry, but most people here want to marry someone they like and know versus a complete stranger. It probably leads to stronger marriages. Why do you consider falling in love bad? Didn't God create us with that capacity? I figured it out by people like u stare Ummm, pardon? Just what kind of person do you think I am? A non-muslim? Non-Muslims aren't all alike. neutral
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Posted: Wed Oct 29, 2008 6:11 am
Britomartis-the-Valiant Zaaki Britomartis-the-Valiant Zaaki Britomartis-the-Valiant Zaaki 1. If people LIKE YOU, stopped talking about sex, soo that no teenagers knew what it was, then that problem would be solved wink Actually my parents never gave me the talk and since I was home schooled, my "school" didn't have any sex education. The result: I figured it out on my own. And people with your raging hormones probably figure it out pretty fast. I put the pieces together out of curiosity only (no raging hormones for me). However, I had no idea what rape was until I was 16. That's not a good position to be in. And Miniangel. The reason why friendships are allowed between girls and guys is because we don't have arranged marriage. Sorry, but most people here want to marry someone they like and know versus a complete stranger. It probably leads to stronger marriages. Why do you consider falling in love bad? Didn't God create us with that capacity? I figured it out by people like u stare Ummm, pardon? Just what kind of person do you think I am? A non-muslim? Non-Muslims aren't all alike. neutral Yea, but you still ain't muslim right?
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