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Posted: Mon Dec 08, 2008 9:45 am
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Posted: Mon Dec 08, 2008 4:06 pm
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Posted: Mon Dec 08, 2008 6:04 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 09, 2008 1:36 am
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Posted: Tue Dec 09, 2008 5:10 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 09, 2008 9:25 pm
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iSimplyRen Dear Dr.Love,
Ano ba pinaka the best way para maka move-on? kasi nag paka busy na ako, sinubukang mag focus sa ibang guy, pati time-zone ko sinubukan ko na baligtarin. But i'm still hurt... hindi naman sya ka gwapuhan sa paningin ko, pero hayzzzzzzz, may effective bang gamot? T^T
Dear iSimplyRen,
Well, i'm glad to know that your putting an effort to get over him, kudos for you! i know letting someone go is hard, pero may mga instances kasi na "kailangan" gawin dahil nasasaktan na tayo and hindi na nagiging healthy para sa atin. I hope itong mga tip na ibibigay ko sayo ay makatulong sayo kahit konti, nandito lamang ako para magbigay ng advices ninyo pero gusto ko lang malaman mo na ikaw pa rin ang makakatulong sa sarili mo at wala ng iba. pero meron din isa pang kasabihan na "the only way to move on is to let go and love again".. either way sana it'll both work for you. eto tips ko:
- Stop talking about him. In order to move on, you have to stop thinking about "them", but that isn't a possibility for a long time. Help yourself by keeping conversations geared toward other things.
- Give yourself credit for trying. No one is perfect, he last thing you need to do is beat yourself up over what you did wrong.
- Picture the day when you are completely over him, It is like picturing the perfect golf swing, picture it and it will come.
- Lean on your friends. They are there for you no matter what, and lean on them to help you clear your head.
- Learn from the life lesson. There will be a lot of time spent thinking about different aspects of the relationship, either good or bad, and the best thing to do is to use them both to grow as a person and as a partner.
- Treat yourself. Help yourself by getting a new outfit, haircut or make-over. The old saying is true, you feel better when you look great. It is also a wonderful spring board to getting back in the dating pool.
Goodluck sayo Ren. and take good care of yourself.
DR LOVE ng IWONCLAN heart |
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Posted: Tue Dec 09, 2008 9:30 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 09, 2008 9:35 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 09, 2008 11:27 pm
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DR LOVE ng IWONCLAN Dear healing serenade,
For someone who has been make to expect that there was something more than friendship, I believe that you have the right to feel that way. But you can never impose on your friend because he never committed himself to you in the first place. All that you can hold on to are short "feel good" moments that may have never been extraordinarily special to him.
healing serenade, if it will make you feel a lot better, I don't see anything wrong on telling him how you feel. He already knows what you are and has accepted you for it. Just don't make him feel that he has to be responsible for the hurt he has done. Never impose anything. Just be honest, be true to yourself, and just be a friend.
It is true that actions speak louder than words, but we may hear them differently. We begin to expect something spectacular to happen. But to our utter dismay, we just find ourselves indulging in our own make-believe world. And also if i may add, you shouldn't blame the 2 of them not even yourselves, for what you have felt is LOVE, it's normal that we may feel that way but you shouldn't blame yourselves. Talk things over, a big sign of relief will happen if you do so. GOODLUCK
DR LOVE ng IWONCLAN
eto ang adice ahahah... thankies |
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Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2008 2:20 am
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Posted: Wed Dec 10, 2008 7:23 am
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Posted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 8:17 pm
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Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2008 6:41 am
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