Bondage

[ieatyourtclol]

mortsanglant

What is with these 12 and 13 and 14 year olds acting like they have any idea or true experience with bondage? Honestly. stare

Agreed.

Getting caught in your blankets while .... doesn't constitute bondage. I perfer another person, but ... who am I?

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[MortSanglant]

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mortsanglant

What is with these 12 and 13 and 14 year olds acting like they have any idea or true experience with bondage? Honestly. stare

Agreed.

Getting caught in your blankets while .... doesn't constitute bondage. I perfer another person, but ... who am I?

I see this response being edited.

What does this make it?

I need a scoreboard sig for removed opinions. Maybe a disclaimer ...

good to know i'm not the only one who find it ridiculous.  

[MissHorrorstar]

I love bondage
and I really don't care if I get hurt or not
the more pain the better

HeHeHeHe



twisted  

[Keevan Draco]

MortSanglant

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mortsanglant

What is with these 12 and 13 and 14 year olds acting like they have any idea or true experience with bondage? Honestly. stare

Agreed.

Getting caught in your blankets while .... doesn't constitute bondage. I perfer another person, but ... who am I?

I see this response being edited.

What does this make it?

I need a scoreboard sig for removed opinions. Maybe a disclaimer ...

good to know i'm not the only one who find it ridiculous.

it's rather a bit scary to think that the extremely young are into this scene. it's not all fantasy, and make believe, and dark romance novels kids. I've seen the extreme dark side of bondage in my travels, and the reality of it all is a far cry from the fantasy that may exist in your heads. Take some advice from an ex dom, steer clear from it till your older (much) and capable of handling the physical and emotional strains that this lifestyle will submit you to.

As far as my personal tastes go, i've moved on to a more art inspired interpretation of bondage. I design rigs and clothing in my head and on paper, for a time in the future where I'll be able to photograph the designs for a beautiful porfolio. The odd thing is....none of the images and rigs in my head and what I have on paper, revolve around sex in any format.....they're more like erotica than sexual in nature. I guess that just plain makes me weird......oh well.  

[infektionxx]

I like to be cut, bit, scratched, strangled, smacked, and thrown around.
God it's fun.
I love being in control, and being dominated.

Setting out to purchase a collar, soon.  

[The Goth Apple]

I feel the same way about bondage that I do about all sex. If it's consentual and no one has to see it, do whatever you want; but none for me, thanks, I'm driving.  

[~Tears of Darkness~666]

Bondage is nothing without at least a little blood. In my case, the more blood there is, the more pleasurable it is. Something about the smell and animalistic feel excites me beyond all reasoning. domokun Thank goodness my boy toy and I are on the same page. razz  

[XXX Zombie Porn]

I hate it.
I have had many experiences with it and it led to other not so good things.
I hate kids who are like 'I love bondage but I've never tried it'. How the ******** would you know then?

I agree with KeevanSixx, stay away from it until you are at least 18+ and have been in a relationship for a long time with that person, whether it's a purely sexual one or partner.  

[underthenoise]

I love bondage.. Prefer to be Dominant.. but will settle for submissive on occasion.

I have an especially strong dark desire for strangling, and breathe play.. etc.  

[Melainis]

I never want to partake in any BDSM-related activities: I find it frightening.  

[ffsghyanbh]

Haha.
I agree with the sentiments against the young talking about "bondage".

I don't think I'll ever want to be in another D/s relationship again. It's quite psychologically taxing, to say the least.

But I still like pain. Receiving, giving, either way really... but since I'm a bit selfish in such activities, I'd have to say I prefer receiving.

I kind of feel more, now, like Keevan, as far as the bondage-in-art thing goes. I prefer fetish wear as a fashion thing or an art thing... but that's only because if I tie it to anything sexual, it brings back a few bad memories.  

[Lady_Tenebrae]

I can't say for sure if I would enjoy bondage for at 21 years of age I still havent tried it, but I do know that the thought of it excites me immensely. If I ever do try it it will have to be with someone I've been with a while and trust and am comfortable with.  

[Ayame_Rikimayu]

i'm 17 and haven't even tried it. to be honest, i am quite interested in learning about the culture. i admit i'm young and far from ready to give someone the ability to do what she will with my body. to me its beyond the whips and chains. i want to find someone who i can trust enough to hurt me in the name of love without actually injuring me. that's probably why i think so many people are fascinated with it. you can trust someone with your heart and with your mind but when you give your body to someone, i think regardless of whether or not you're into bondage or bdsm, everyone wants that trust in another.

as for the sexual aspect of it although i have not ever had a real experience sexually, my "intrest' started a few years ago. i was playing around with a friend and she tied me up. and at first i thought it was hilarious but then i realized that i liked it. thats when i started making homemade collars and whips and letting other people whip me. i trust my friends enough with my body (some of them) and i enjoyed it. i probably might never ever take it father than the occaisonal smacking from a buddy. but its the sensations that i crave. i know its all fiction on the telly and in books which makes me that much more curious. finally it is such a social taboo and i what to know why that is.

yes i know i'm rambling but my point is, and i don't know who this would apply to, but not all young people are into it just because it "looks like fun". weed looks like fun but that doesn't give you an excuse to do it but some people do anyway because they just enjoy doing it. yes i am very young but i am old enough to get aroused by such things and i have enough sense to want to learn about it all before i get too deep into it. sometimes i think its scary when junior high aged kids talk about sex related things, but think back to when you were 12 or 13. everyone was just as curious then as they are now.  

[Keevan Draco]

Ayame....

There's nothing wrong with being curious, it's part of human nature.

Just be carefull.

The dangers lay in choosing poorly a partner you can trust.

The deep bondage scene is one of heartreak, jealously, anger, and hatred which leaves many of them emotionally scarred for life. For every high, there exists a dark low.

Choose a partner wisely, set clear and concise ground rules so that both partners are protected, Know your limits and that of your partners, Keep an open mind when your partner wants to try new things, and understand and accept the concept of the word "NO".

If your partner is willing, share the responsibility of power play from time to time by switching roles, it keeps it fresh, and helps both of you to establish those much needed control points so things don't get out of hand. There's a huge difference between "play" and "real life".  

[nautilus pilot]

It might be fun, but I won't say for sure. But first, I'll need to think about having a "beloved" in the first place.