Selene Aries
Jungle Boots
sooooooo...... i took the new bf, whom ive become rather comfortable with now, to both of our first fur meet... in a stranger's basement.
we expected a couch full of furs.... no.... try seven couches full of furs. seven couches worth of the most smelly, (fur suits are hot ill give them the benefit of the doubt) the most innappropriately touchy, the most socially awkward people i have ever seen. then again, the jokes were funny, and so long as i wasnt the one being groped or pulled into a snuggle pile or eye ******** (by the creepy 40 yr old) it was pretty funny to watch.
however they all seemed to be very very close friends and we were outsiders so it was hard to really get hospitality out of some of them. others were either eh.... too hospitable... or really just genuinely nice people and capable of making us feel at least remotely welcome. all in all it was fun as hell. but im still not sure if its something i would do agian juuuuuust not my thing.
local furs are not what i hoped they could be.
we expected a couch full of furs.... no.... try seven couches full of furs. seven couches worth of the most smelly, (fur suits are hot ill give them the benefit of the doubt) the most innappropriately touchy, the most socially awkward people i have ever seen. then again, the jokes were funny, and so long as i wasnt the one being groped or pulled into a snuggle pile or eye ******** (by the creepy 40 yr old) it was pretty funny to watch.
however they all seemed to be very very close friends and we were outsiders so it was hard to really get hospitality out of some of them. others were either eh.... too hospitable... or really just genuinely nice people and capable of making us feel at least remotely welcome. all in all it was fun as hell. but im still not sure if its something i would do agian juuuuuust not my thing.
local furs are not what i hoped they could be.
I feel a bit envious with those that can find local furs to hang out with and actually have a good time. I never feel all that comfortable around those I run across. I seem to only meet two kinds, the uber geek that just wont shut the hell up or the arrogant a*****e that thinks they are so much better than everyone else and likes to flaunt how well off they are.
isnt that just the way it works with meeting a specific kind of people in general though? i dunno... it seems to me when i tried to find punk friends around where i live it was similar, instead of anime furryfandom and vidya games it was music, mohawks and jackets. or on the flip side it was how too cool they were. or when its the gays at bars and clubs, its the desperately sex obsessed instead of the nerd, and its the nausiously over sophisticated overconfident b***h. then again normal people emerge from the cracks and corners if you look for them.
they were all mostly the uber geek kind. some were actually not so bad though. like i said some were actually very comfortable to be around.