why do ppl think that u have a choice to be bi or gay or whatever???? its not a choice it jus happens???????
Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2010 5:23 pm
it's not a choice there are people feelings.. if you feel that way and you like it you can be bi/gay.. it's not a choice to be bi or gay.. i have LOTS of friends that they're bi, or gay.. and they followed their feelings..they not choice between bein hetero or bi or gay.. they're feelings! o-o that's whut i think..
It can't be a choice; it's hormonal, and it's been scientifically proven.
After all, why would someone CHOOSE to be ridiculed by a good portion of society? : That just never made sense to me, lol.
As for me, I'm bisexual, and equally go both ways. It wasn't a choice for me; it just so happened that I started finding girls attractive in more than a "oh, she looks cute *looks away and minds own business*" sort of way one day. It can't be helped lol.
Posted: Wed May 26, 2010 5:06 pm
I say it's a sub concious choice. Some people just get fed up with the other gender so they just get fed up with it
I say it's a sub concious choice. Some people just get fed up with the other gender so they just get fed up with it
It is in no way a choice we cant help the way we feel... i dont know a singal person who would choose to be ridiculed by most of society.... im bi and its not a choice i just cant help the fact that i like both guys and girls
It's not a choice, it's feelings. You just follow your heart. If your heart tells you that you like girls, then you like girls. If your heart tells you that you like boys, then you like boys. If your heart tells you that you like both, then you like both. I personally am straight. But I am curious. Very curious.. And I have many friends who are bi and gay. And nothings wrong with that. It's their feelings, their life. Period.