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Posted: Sun Apr 21, 2013 5:54 am
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Posted: Sun Apr 21, 2013 5:55 pm
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First off, open relationships and jealousy do NOT mix. I would completely wipe that one off of the table.
Second of all, there needs to be some understanding on her sexual history. She's been abused in the past. People who are traumatized like that don't view sex as a pleasurable moment. And if they do, in any way, it's all about pleasing the other person. You can't just "let go" of those feelings, those feelings tend to need professional help with dealing with and re-associating sex with pleasure. Put yourself in her shoes for a little bit. You have someone who violated you- used your body for their pleasure and abused your rights of being a human being. Fast forward, you're in a relationship and this person finds pleasure in having sex. Might even be a little forward because, come on, sex feels good. It has to be upsetting for her and a constant struggle. You have to sympathize with that.
There are ways that you can please yourself that'll also give her some time to get her s**t together and see if she does want to be intimate with you. You love her- but you'll also have to be willing to make that sexual sacrifice until professional help is involved. If you can't have a relationship without sex, this isn't the relationship for you. Things are going to be moving slowly.
How long have you two been dating? I know your avi looks like a male, but I don't know if you're both female or male and female. Lesbian couples do tend to go through drought periods. A time where sex just kind of dies out. You have to reinvent sex, preferably more-so on her terms to make her feel like she's part of this, that this is something you two can do together and be comfortable and safe with.
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Posted: Mon Apr 22, 2013 4:32 am
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Posted: Mon Apr 22, 2013 12:49 pm
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The most hygienic greeble
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Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 6:54 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 23, 2013 10:20 am
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Posted: Thu Apr 25, 2013 6:17 am
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Posted: Thu Dec 12, 2013 9:06 pm
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