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Posted: Mon Nov 18, 2013 2:06 pm


	Hi, i'm jan and i have an exboyfriend i'm still in love with. I had cheated on him twice, as a result of me not being comfortable in my ability to keep a relationship with my BPD. Even though we aren't together anymore we still love each other dearly. We are both bisexual and he thinks if i can clean up what i did by healing myself, we can try again. Any suggestions are helpful.

Posted: Tue Nov 19, 2013 7:48 pm


	Leave him alone. Stay single and work on yourself before you try to bring another person into your life.

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Posted: Thu Nov 21, 2013 4:16 pm


	draculinajan colon bracket Leave him alone. Stay single and work on yourself before you try to bring another person into your life. That;s also the best advice I could offer you at the moment, too. Just let it be and try working on yourself first, and then worry about relationships.