GilAskan
While this isn't always true, I've found that commonly, the people who look "most goth" (i.e. "so goth its scary") aren't actually goths, but are componsating for their "un-gothness" with aesthetics.
Exactly. Goth is pretty normal in its own way.
It's not all blackness, anti-light, loads of make-up, no smiles, bleeding wrists, hatred to everything, suicidal and faked depression.