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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 2:42 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 3:46 pm
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Things like that you shouldnt stress over, or plan them out. The future is pretty much (for most ppl) on predictable; you may never know how you will be 10, 20, 30, years down the road, or the rest of your life.
My self weither I grow up change my dress a little or somthing isn;t going to makle me any less a person then I am now or my status. If Im Goth today Im goth the rest of my life. Rember it isnt a fashion statment just incaser thats one thing your worried about like your look like a vampire in front of you kids saying. But in a sence yes I sopos i sorta do plan on how ill be, but thats just mostly an assumtion; more or less how I want to live my life, may not happen that way. Depends on what I'll be doing for a liveing , basically what my job is and other thigns as well. But out side of those ill always be my self. I can see me in the future Dressing the way I want, doing what I want, and even if i marry and Have kids Plpl will just have to deal with those things. my child im sure isnt going to care much about what daddy or mommy looks like, he/she will still love us. One thing for sure im not raising my child as goth, or expecting him/her to be so. they will be raised as any other boy or girl. they wont be allowed to dres like the mother or my self until at least grade 6 where the child will at least have a more open mind and starts making decions for its self based on there own interest and not becuase thats what mommy and daddy wears. even though im an atheist the child at younger age will at least some how have some form of acknoledge ment to religion, at a certain age they can do as they wish. a want to raise a kid so that they will at least know whats out there for them and what choices they have, and when there old enough to make there own decions im most definatly not going to stop them and Ill accept them for who they are, not for whom I am , or whom I expect them to be. if Mom and my self are goth for the rest of our lives, I wouldnt care if my child was a chave, prep, jock, geek, punk, nerd,..etc...... dont matter. so in the futre thats how pretty much things will role for me, and if i have kids.
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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 4:08 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 6:08 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 7:48 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 8:24 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 9:21 pm
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 4:41 am
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 5:29 am
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 5:33 am
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 8:47 am
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 8:48 am
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 1:01 pm
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Posted: Sat Mar 24, 2007 9:37 pm
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Posted: Sat Mar 24, 2007 10:39 pm
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Well, I would Stay goth as long as it fits me. If im goth as an adult, and i have children, I wont change who I am inside. If my kids turn into goths, well great, but if they don't, i will teach them to respect others, and be open minded. Speaking of respecting others, if i do raise goths, I will teach them that, even to respect preps, unless theyre meanies, which not all are
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