i'm sorry, but i'm having guy trouble...help?

[celtic_faerie]

ok, here's the lowdown:

i went on a 6-month break with my lover(man i love, not man i have sex with) we were having problems and i wanted an out, but i still loved him. so we said on halloween, he'd ask me back out. well, i told him i needed more time before he asked me, so i kinda ruined his plans to come down to ask me(i moved about an hour away) i still do love him. but i don't know if i should say yes or no

he's a nice guy, always treats me right, but he's not into trying new things. he'll try any kind of food once, but not other things i like, like biking, bowling, or skating. i kinda understand the bowling and skating, cuz he's got size 16 feet^^and the biking because he doesn't have a bike, but he doesn't even want to try. and i'm going into the military. i know he wouldn't mind a long distance relationship, but how long is too long? and he's definitely not into the moving around thing. he's still living in the house he was born in.

another thing is that my parents aren't exactly liking the idea of he and i getting back together. it's my senior year and they don't want me tied down to a guy that's an hour away. plus, his dad is kinda controling, and they're worried that he'll be the same way. i am definitely not one to be controlled. plus he's not christian. i am.

we have a lot in common, though. we're both looking into careers in linguistics, we both love martial arts, we both love DND, and we're major otakus(for those that don't know, that's anime/manga freak) we're both hopeless romantics. we both agree with the buddhist philosophy(it's not a religion, it's a way of thinking) we're mentally compatible, but there's many ways that we're different. what should i do?  

[UraniumMonk]

Long distance sucks. Hard.  

[MortSanglant]

I don't really see a problem.

Sure there's the long distance thing, but that's not that big of a deal if you guys really trust each other.

You seem to like him well enough. If the fact that he's not into trying new things and the fact that your parents don't like the idea of you being with him are the only things holding you back, then I don't see what's so hard about this choice. Being unwilling to try new things isn't that big of an obstacle. He could warm up to it, or you could adapt. And if you're a senior in high school, you'll be leaving soon, it's your life. Your parents shouldn't have a bearing over who you are with.

If they do, I'd say they're pretty controlling too.

That's my take on it. You didn't give much detailed information to go on.

 

[chinagrl777]

never should a lady be controlled!!! dump him, if you are as nice as you sound youll find better man in NO TIME

china ^^  

[xdemonicallyxyours13x]

do what you feel is right  

[chinagrl777]

evilfaerie13

do what you feel is right

yesh "well" said.........well typed....bah xP  

[celtic_faerie]

i said yes^^  

[grotesquekreeple]

celtic_faerie

i said yes^^

thats great and im happy for you

and not to impose on your thinking but religion is a way of thinking, you are *cough* classified *cough* into your religion by your beliefs about god(s) wether or not (s)he/they exist(s) or not.  

[Ashie1002]

I say you should try to get back together with him. He seems really great. When do you go into the military?