Mind Rape and Hopelessness

[-Isel-]

Nazo no Kanjojin

Isel

Nazo no Kanjojin

I was recently informed that my exposure to pornography at an early age is the equivalent to molestation. Now I know why I am messed up. I'm going emo, but I've almost lost 2 friends in teh process. I don't know what else to do...my girlfriend is ignoring me (it seems), my parents are harping on my failures, I'm messy and...gah! I just wanna explode sometimes, but I can't. Someone please help me? crying

That's laughable. Looking at porn as a kid, qualifying as molestation? So you saw a picture of some genitals, it's not really ever going to screw you up.

It was a whole movie. 2 or so hours.

So what?

I'm willing to bet there's at least a couple of victims of physical molestation in this guild, myself and ketchakik being those two, and it seems we're doing fine- you don't see us creating topics about it.

It sounds like you're looking for an excuse to be emotional.  

[tamachan414]

Nazo no Kanjojin

I was recently informed that my exposure to pornography at an early age is the equivalent to molestation. Now I know why I am messed up. I'm going emo, but I've almost lost 2 friends in teh process. I don't know what else to do...my girlfriend is ignoring me (it seems), my parents are harping on my failures, I'm messy and...gah! I just wanna explode sometimes, but I can't. Someone please help me? crying

i don't think that your exposure is equivalent to molestation. i think it's a form of sexual abuse, yes. but to that extreme? I don't think so. and i do not think you can blame your problems and your person on that. I feel like you need to get over it.  

[Nazo no Kanjojin]

Heh...I guess I was kinda overreacting...

Thanks for the advice (if I could call it that), but some people didn't deal with this as...delicately as I thought it should have been dealt with...but I think that I could decipher the wisdom. And the "going emo" thing is working very fine for me. I don't know what the problem is.  

[Isobel Bellamy]

. . . . . everyone's messed up, exposure to porn from a young age or no. The fact of the matter is, all human beings aren't all that well mentally balanced, it's just a flaw we have.

It's perfectly normal to have a mass freak out during the teenage years as well. Why do you think the teens are the most reviled age-group? because teenagers remind adults of how they were when they were teenagers themselves, all awkward and just discovering the world and themselves. The good news is; you have a heck of a lot more years of this left, enjoy!  

[-Resurrected Writer-]

Isobel Bellamy

. . . . . everyone's messed up, exposure to porn from a young age or no. The fact of the matter is, all human beings aren't all that well mentally balanced, it's just a flaw we have.

It's perfectly normal to have a mass freak out during the teenage years as well. Why do you think the teens are the most reviled age-group? because teenagers remind adults of how they were when they were teenagers themselves, all awkward and just discovering the world and themselves. The good news is; you have a heck of a lot more years of this left, enjoy!

100% agreement 3nodding  

[DR490N]

Nazo no Kanjojin

I was recently informed that my exposure to pornography at an early age is the equivalent to molestation. Now I know why I am messed up. I'm going emo, but I've almost lost 2 friends in teh process. I don't know what else to do...my girlfriend is ignoring me (it seems), my parents are harping on my failures, I'm messy and...gah! I just wanna explode sometimes, but I can't. Someone please help me? crying

you're a moron. kill yourself.

seriously. what kind of an idiot equates the CHOICE of veiwing pornography to molestation? for someone to be MOLESTED it has to be AGAINST THEIR WILL. now, if you're going emo, you better ******** expect to lose soem friends, because not too many people want to associate with some whiny little b***h who's going to bring them nothing but grief and stress.  

[ketchakik]

Isel

Nazo no Kanjojin

Isel

Nazo no Kanjojin

I was recently informed that my exposure to pornography at an early age is the equivalent to molestation. Now I know why I am messed up. I'm going emo, but I've almost lost 2 friends in teh process. I don't know what else to do...my girlfriend is ignoring me (it seems), my parents are harping on my failures, I'm messy and...gah! I just wanna explode sometimes, but I can't. Someone please help me? crying

That's laughable. Looking at porn as a kid, qualifying as molestation? So you saw a picture of some genitals, it's not really ever going to screw you up.

It was a whole movie. 2 or so hours.

So what?

I'm willing to bet there's at least a couple of victims of physical molestation in this guild, myself and ketchakik being those two, and it seems we're doing fine- you don't see us creating topics about it.

It sounds like you're looking for an excuse to be emotional.

total agreement...and to the OP.....if it troubles you this much..seek perfesional help..seriously..they are the only ones qualified to deal with this.  

[Nazo no Kanjojin]

DR490N

Nazo no Kanjojin

I was recently informed that my exposure to pornography at an early age is the equivalent to molestation. Now I know why I am messed up. I'm going emo, but I've almost lost 2 friends in teh process. I don't know what else to do...my girlfriend is ignoring me (it seems), my parents are harping on my failures, I'm messy and...gah! I just wanna explode sometimes, but I can't. Someone please help me? crying

you're a moron. kill yourself.

seriously. what kind of an idiot equates the CHOICE of veiwing pornography to molestation? for someone to be MOLESTED it has to be AGAINST THEIR WILL. now, if you're going emo, you better ******** expect to lose soem friends, because not too many people want to associate with some whiny little b***h who's going to bring them nothing but grief and stress.

You suck. Badly. I mean, people were being slightly calloused with this, but you are the worst! I had no choice! It that or get hit by my dad when I disturbed his meeting! And how can you call me an idiot when you don't even freaking KNOW me?! Just shut up. Really. You don't know the first thing about me, so just shut up. Thank you.  

[Nazo no Kanjojin]

Oh. I forgot to mention that this exposure to porno left me with a terminal addiction for half of my life. So...watching once wasn't teh problem.  

[The Goth Apple]

Nazo no Kanjojin

Oh. I forgot to mention that this exposure to porno left me with a terminal addiction for half of my life. So...watching once wasn't teh problem.

What? You're a teenage boy who watches alot of porn? That's a sure sign of mental disturbance.

Seriously, shut your little mouth. You're insulting people who actually have been molested. It's people like you, and whiny little bitches who decide after the fact they didn't want sex and claim to have been raped, that keep actual victims from coming forward.
They don't want to be associated with you.  

[xX x0mbie Xx]

DR490N

Nazo no Kanjojin

I was recently informed that my exposure to pornography at an early age is the equivalent to molestation. Now I know why I am messed up. I'm going emo, but I've almost lost 2 friends in teh process. I don't know what else to do...my girlfriend is ignoring me (it seems), my parents are harping on my failures, I'm messy and...gah! I just wanna explode sometimes, but I can't. Someone please help me? crying

you're a moron. kill yourself.

seriously. what kind of an idiot equates the CHOICE of veiwing pornography to molestation? for someone to be MOLESTED it has to be AGAINST THEIR WILL. now, if you're going emo, you better ******** expect to lose soem friends, because not too many people want to associate with some whiny little b***h who's going to bring them nothing but grief and stress.

i concur, also i dont think anyone cares about you watching porn at an early age, there are a million things that are ten of thousdands times worse than porn!, besides porn = awsome  

[nightwing773]

I have to agree, stop looking for an excuse.

I myself am a victim of molestation and attempted rape. It has nothing to do with watching porn. It is sexual activity against your will. nothing more. learn it.  

[arya241]

we all go thought a dark stage. I know this cause i was in it pretty bad. but then i started to change and what really help was that my a*****e father left. any way less about me more about you. i think you have to be in the worse to see the best of you and of everything. you will come thought just try and see the light of everything.  

[Nazo no Kanjojin]

The Goth Apple

Nazo no Kanjojin

Oh. I forgot to mention that this exposure to porno left me with a terminal addiction for half of my life. So...watching once wasn't teh problem.

What? You're a teenage boy who watches alot of porn? That's a sure sign of mental disturbance.

Seriously, shut your little mouth. You're insulting people who actually have been molested. It's people like you, and whiny little bitches who decide after the fact they didn't want sex and claim to have been raped, that keep actual victims from coming forward.
They don't want to be associated with you.

No offense, but it's harda**ed, crass people like you who keeps anyone who has a problem that isn't commonly come across from saying anything. FYI. I live in a Christian home. This is such an offense that my whole family would disown me in an instant if they all knew. Most of my friends would say that I'm a sick b*****d. It just burns me up to see people take such an insensitive approach to stuff like this.

It's people like you who make me want to kill myself.