TOO MUCH!

[Kittens Building Robots]

So let me start
this morning I got into a fight with someone in guilds
he's being a d**k blah blah blah
so there was this big controversy in the guild
and the owner was like ******** "deletes everyone"
I was about to get MOD too! emo

So ok whatever.
I get home tonight, My boyfriend IM's me
and starts telling me he's depressed and all this s**t?
it's like WTF!? I always ask him if he's ok
and he always says yeah yeah I'm fine...
and he never shows me he's sad.
It's been a ******** YEAR we've been together
I'd hoped he could trust me with this...

SO I tell him to go to a doctor and such
but yeah. He won't go.
The reason for his depression is that
He emerges himself in something
and once that bores him,
he comes out unfilfilled... and depressed and blah blah
he says that's why he's into Anime and all that s**t

I was like ok and where do I fit in to all of this?
We're together alllll the time...
you're my whole life and I thought I was yours
lol obviously I was wrong

*sigh* I just want to scream and cry
but I don't want to...

so yeah. HALP? crying emo

 

[EtoilexShizumaxHanazono]

they'll tell you anything just so you dont worry about him.
my boyfriends done the same..
"I'm fine"
which in this case it meant. "I'm pissed back off"
tell your boyfriend to talk to you.
so you can make the relationship better..
if his world is upside down..
then your hanging by your feet yourself.
talking is the major key in a relationship....
3nodding


hope it gets better!  

[Killer Zeit]

I have to say I've come to realize that in times where your significant other is actually in need, there's a good chance backing off will probably make them feel better.

I dated a guy for a year and 8 months, then a chick for a while, then I'm with my current boyfriend for about a year now.
I have to say, the other relationships ended because of crappy communication, and depression.

So, if you've offered him help, and he doesn't want it, then maybe he doesn't need it. Let this flow for a couple more days and if he's still saying the same thing then I suggest telling his parents about this.
In some cases it can be really serious. The first guy I dated, 5 months after we broke up, shot himself in the head.

I'm not saying that'll happen but sometimes the best thing is to let well enough alone, and tell him you want to talk.

I'm sorry I'm not helping. D: Tell him you mean more than anime.  

[Kittens Building Robots]

His parents already know. I've talked him into making an appointment to talk to a doctor or something of the sort. Hopefully the doctor will be able to help gonk