Byaggha
I've been a non-drinker, non-smoker, non-drugs (aside from medically prescribed ones and a vitamin supplement) since long before I attached the label Buddhist to myself; I just never saw the point in reduced faculties for 'fun' - it was always more fun for me to be sober at a party of drunks, if I went at all. Why? Well heck - they do some really funny things they wouldn't do sober, and you actually get to remember it all because you weren't drinking. Plus, you can be a guardian angel of sorts to the worse off ones - take the alcohol from them when they've had too much and make sure they drink some water instead for awhile.
I don't know. Maybe I'm weird, but it was always better that way for me. 3nodding
I don't know. Maybe I'm weird, but it was always better that way for me. 3nodding
I'm the same, before I became Buddhist I didn't drink, smoke, or take drugs. I grew up in an environment were drink was depended upon and I watched it destroy the lives of those close to me. I never understood the need or want of people to "get wasted" for the sake of fun. Once I left I decided that I would never allow drink or any other substance to control my life.
I've never favoured the night scene but when I do go it I feel good knowing that I will remember everything everybody does even if they won't. When friend go over the top you know they'll be safe because you can keep an eye on them. At the same time you're maintaining a healthy body.
I would call alcohol a trigger for a deluded mind.