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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2007 4:14 pm
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I have a very disturbing situation that I want to cast a spell for, but I want some suggestions on how to go about it first. I'll have to give some background to elaborate just how bad this really is.
I grew up not really knowing my father. A few years ago, I was finally introduced to my half-brothers and -sisters. I was generally well accepted into the family, even by my stepmother.
One of my brothers went through a bad divorce a few years ago. Since then, he's complained, and joked, repeatedly about how badly he wants a woman. Now I think he's turning his very unwanted attention towards me. I've foolishly ignored the more subtle signs, such as his reading books that featured incest (no frelling joke). Then last night, while he was drunk off his rocker, he went into a spiel about how he wished I wasn't his sister . . . you get the idea. gonk
Anyway, it's reached the point where I'm about to sound the alarm publically. I also want to reinforce my efforts magically. I fear a banishing spell may be too harsh, but without input from others, it appears to be my only choice.
So, I'm asking for alternate magical ideas, or at least a way to perform a banishing without adversely affecting the rest of the family, since the family is pretty much an all or nothing deal.
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Posted: Sun Sep 23, 2007 10:05 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 12:20 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 1:32 pm
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Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 2:29 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 4:28 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 8:29 pm
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I would suggest doing some banishings, just to clear your own personal space (an LBRP is a good one to start with) and then do a binding spell on him to not do harm to himself or any others. I usually do this with a ribbon, concentrating hard on my intent in the binding, tying a knot in the ribbon every time I say "I bind you from doing harm, harm to yourself or harm to others." Then, when done (at least 9 knots, but more if you have a long enough ribbon or string), I burn it in my cauldron, releasing the energy to do its job.
But the suggestions to tell your family are the ones I would work on first. Don't go thru this alone. Just let your dad and stepmom know what it going on with him. Think practical first, then magickal!
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 10:30 am
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If you care about your half-brother (that's what he is, right?), then talk with him first. Tell him "when you do this, or say that, it makes me think that you intend to do this...". Let him know that you don't like it. But, ya know, fill in the blanks -- that's just a general outline of conversation you could follow. Be specific -- I wasn't. You know more about the issues than I do.
I like the idea of a protection spell -- find what ever will help to protect you from harm -- and perhaps one to protect him from harm too.
A spell won't be enough -- not if you want to pursue a healthy brotherly friendship with him. If you care, you've got to communicate. A spell can heal, it can protect -- but it can't forgive, it can't love, it can't care -- only you can do that.
Talk to him -- or write down all your thoughts and have him read it. If being around him creeps you out too much, then writing him a letter will help. You don't have to be around him in that scenario.
Hope that helps!
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 8:06 pm
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Posted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 12:18 am
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Posted: Tue Dec 18, 2007 10:54 pm
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Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 3:22 pm
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A lot of times those feelings are just sort of experimental... this is seems to be a little beyond that, but I don't think a spell to change the way he feels is really a very responsible way to deal with it. Just be honest, and if there's a lack of attraction, make it clear, but perhaps even clearer should be a lack of scorn for his attraction, if you can honestly make such a case.
As for the broader audience, namely Twilight... incestuous tendencies are historically rather common, and it simply happen from time to time. I cited earlier that a lot of it is curiousity, and let me say that it's possible that the same feelings that make it seem sickening might also be the grounds on which one becomes drawn to it in the first place. Perhaps they're both superficial, fetish and self-loathing. That said, I think it's mostly society's views that make such activities "bad".
If you yourself do not have any sort of feelings beyond those of a sibling towards your brother, then that's reason enough, and it ought to be for him. If it's not, then we can talk either powerful magic, or really crappy cosmetics to make you less attractive.
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 1:31 am
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 6:29 am
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Posted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 9:13 pm
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