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Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 4:41 am
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Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 6:38 am
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Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 10:57 am
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Yes ratri is 100% right. You must work, and get family, and pray, and muc much more... Ofcurse you can enjoy, but we diden't came this place to just enjoy... We came to pray, and while that, we must carry our responsibilities (ect. work, familly, and all that) then when you die, and get rest, you can enjoy in paradice xd
I used to think
1."Enjoy till death, and after death go to hell. 2. "Work(pray and all that) till death, and enjoy in paradice.
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Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 12:16 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 12:18 pm
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Zaaki Yes ratri is 100% right. You must work, and get family, and pray, and muc much more... Ofcurse you can enjoy, but we diden't came this place to just enjoy... We came to pray, and while that, we must carry our responsibilities (ect. work, familly, and all that) then when you die, and get rest, you can enjoy in paradice xd I used to think 1."Enjoy till death, and after death go to hell. 2. "Work(pray and all that) till death, and enjoy in paradice.
when you pray YOU ARE ENJOYING!!
and in paradise you can see ALLAH so that i guess is more exciting and enjoyment ^_^
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Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2008 2:21 pm
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tassan is this why i have taken birth??
What are you asking me why you were born? What the point of life is? If so, please direct all questions to Allah.
Anyhow, on a more serious note, life is work. That's the reality of it. It sucks, but that's the way the cookie crumbles.
Now there is a difference between working too much and enjoying life while working hard. Everyone has to make a living based on their choices in life.
tassan i mean now i m restricted from internet i can only come online in 3 days in a weak NOT MORE THEN THAT there have so many days passed i always have a dream of earning because if i earn i won't have boundaries; the reason behind me not using internet is not that i go and study the reason is it increases the stupid bill with charges and taxes...
The internet is not free. It costs money. your parents have every right to restrict you. They're paying for it.
As my dad would say, "the one who makes the money, makes the rules"
tassan yes i said it the reason comes out in the end MONEY!!
Money is what makes the world go 'round, whether you like it or not.
And life is not fair. The sooner you learn that the better. It doesn't matter how wonderful a person you are (which is usually subjunctive), life is not fair, it can be hard, it can be difficult and full of injustice. But it can also be rewarding, pleasant, and enjoyable.
tassan but i guess this is what i have to do when i grow up?? my children will be talking the same about me as i m doing now?? will they also be searching answers like i am?? gonk
ok, and my other question is....why would you do exactly as your father has done? Isn't that the goal of parents....to have their children surpass their dreams? There is much more to life than banking, and while it may suit your father, it may not suit you. You are your own person. You are not your father or anyone else. You can make decisions on your own.
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Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2008 2:02 am
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Ratri_Cat tassan is this why i have taken birth?? What are you asking me why you were born? What the point of life is? If so, please direct all questions to Allah. Anyhow, on a more serious note, life is work. That's the reality of it. It sucks, but that's the way the cookie crumbles. Now there is a difference between working too much and enjoying life while working hard. Everyone has to make a living based on their choices in life. tassan i mean now i m restricted from internet i can only come online in 3 days in a weak NOT MORE THEN THAT there have so many days passed i always have a dream of earning because if i earn i won't have boundaries; the reason behind me not using internet is not that i go and study the reason is it increases the stupid bill with charges and taxes... The internet is not free. It costs money. your parents have every right to restrict you. They're paying for it. As my dad would say, "the one who makes the money, makes the rules" tassan yes i said it the reason comes out in the end MONEY!! Money is what makes the world go 'round, whether you like it or not. And life is not fair. The sooner you learn that the better. It doesn't matter how wonderful a person you are (which is usually subjunctive), life is not fair, it can be hard, it can be difficult and full of injustice. But it can also be rewarding, pleasant, and enjoyable. tassan but i guess this is what i have to do when i grow up?? my children will be talking the same about me as i m doing now?? will they also be searching answers like i am?? gonk ok, and my other question is....why would you do exactly as your father has done? Isn't that the goal of parents....to have their children surpass their dreams? There is much more to life than banking, and while it may suit your father, it may not suit you. You are your own person. You are not your father or anyone else. You can make decisions on your own.
thanks at least i m fine for now
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Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2008 2:04 am
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The Dead Terrorist Achmed
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Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2008 4:01 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 2:46 am
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Ratri_Cat As my dad would say, "the one who makes the money, makes the rules"
nah..
the one who is elder makes the rules!!
there is a family with a child earning and his dad does not earn still his dad has to decide whether spend money over that or this, even this happens in USA as well if child does not live separately from parents
Ratri_Cat Money is what makes the world go 'round, whether you like it or not. And life is not fair. The sooner you learn that the better. It doesn't matter how wonderful a person you are (which is usually subjunctive), life is not fair, it can be hard, it can be difficult and full of injustice. But it can also be rewarding, pleasant, and enjoyable.
yes that's what makes the world go round my father gave me birth because i could earn and give him the money right!! yes its only money making me talk like this!!
Ratri_Cat ok, and my other question is....why would you do exactly as your father has done? Isn't that the goal of parents....to have their children surpass their dreams? There is much more to life than banking, and while it may suit your father, it may not suit you. You are your own person. You are not your father or anyone else. You can make decisions on your own.
no!! no one is same as my father but they say "as you sow so shall you reap" it really does not matters what profession i choose! but certainly there still remain the same question!!!
and also i guess i asked wrong i got the right question, its not why i m born i wanted to ask "is this why my dad gave me birth?"
now i m coming up with what i was thinking
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 3:17 am
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tassan Zaaki Yes ratri is 100% right. You must work, and get family, and pray, and muc much more... Ofcurse you can enjoy, but we diden't came this place to just enjoy... We came to pray, and while that, we must carry our responsibilities (ect. work, familly, and all that) then when you die, and get rest, you can enjoy in paradice xd I used to think 1."Enjoy till death, and after death go to hell. 2. "Work(pray and all that) till death, and enjoy in paradice. when you pray YOU ARE ENJOYING!! and in paradise you can see ALLAH so that i guess is more exciting and enjoyment ^_^ Ya, i know that.
But what's your problem? Just live like Allah whant it...
Why did i came to birth? Becuz your the choisen one, and because Allah whant everybody to have kids wink
Now what's your next question? wink
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 6:00 pm
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Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 1:31 pm
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tassan nah.. the one who is elder makes the rules!! there is a family with a child earning and his dad does not earn still his dad has to decide whether spend money over that or this, even this happens in USA as well if child does not live separately from parents People who are in power have wealth and many of them influence/create rules.
The child is not the principle wage-earner in the family, the father usually is. Therefore, he gets to make the rules on what is spent and how much because he brings home the most money.
tassan yes that's what makes the world go round my father gave me birth because i could earn and give him the money right!! yes its only money making me talk like this!!
No, you're twisting my words. Money makes the world go 'round...basically [almost] everything you need must be purchased by money. Parents do not give birth to kids thinking that their children will give them money. There are some sick individuals that have done this (i've seen it happen before) but most do not. Children bring joy, sorrow, and so much more to life than supporting you when you get old.
tassan "is this why my dad gave me birth?" that is a question you should ask your father.
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Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 1:48 pm
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Ratri_Cat tassan nah.. the one who is elder makes the rules!! there is a family with a child earning and his dad does not earn still his dad has to decide whether spend money over that or this, even this happens in USA as well if child does not live separately from parents People who are in power have wealth and many of them influence/create rules.
The child is not the principle wage-earner in the family, the father usually is. Therefore, he gets to make the rules on what is spent and how much because he brings home the most money.
but HE earns it not his dad!! what if there is not anyone else earns money in his home except him which is 16 or 17 ? tassan yes that's what makes the world go round my father gave me birth because i could earn and give him the money right!! yes its only money making me talk like this!! No, you're twisting my words. Money makes the world go 'round...basically [almost] everything you need must be purchased by money. Parents do not give birth to kids thinking that their children will give them money. There are some sick individuals that have done this (i've seen it happen before) but most do not. Children bring joy, sorrow, and so much more to life than supporting you when you get old.
YES i know that.. sweatdrop but still and i m confused!!
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