Handfasting or "til death" style. which would you pick? |
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Posted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 9:05 pm
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Posted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 9:32 pm
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Violet Song jat Shariff Crew
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Sanguina Cruenta Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Dec 18, 2008 9:46 pm
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Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2008 3:29 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 1:07 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 4:09 pm
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Violet Song jat Shariff Crew
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Posted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 5:14 pm
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2008 2:26 pm
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2008 3:59 pm
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Posted: Sun Dec 21, 2008 9:13 pm
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Sanguina Cruenta Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Dec 22, 2008 12:16 pm
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Posted: Mon Dec 22, 2008 4:46 pm
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Posted: Mon Dec 22, 2008 8:16 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 23, 2008 12:39 pm
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WitchyBoy doistu In all honesty, I don't want people to know I'm pagan and family and friends are going to come. It's not that I'm not proud of my faith but I want people to see me for who I am and not a stereotype they might place on me. For this reason, and the reason that my OH is not pagan, I would not want a handfasting or to have the wedding officiated by a pagan authority. The Goddess and God know of my committment and love to them but its not a day for them. Its for me and my future husband hehe. Thats not to say they won't be gladly welcomed to the festivities though. Perhaps the registry office is just the best place for it and then a nice party afterwards. If we choose we might do a sort of solitary, private handfasting with just the two of us but I don't see why we would lol see i like that something small and simple. Lol Of course you would, darling, and I have to agree with him. Small and simple handfastings/weddings aren't nearly as overwhelmingly stressful or budget-consuming than godly affairs that take up an entire plain. I can also understand your reasoning with the stereotyping. Personally, though, I'm so far out of the closet I may as well be in the spotlight (more by process of elimination, seeing as how there are little to no "out in public" witches around here).
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Violet Song jat Shariff Crew
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Posted: Tue Dec 23, 2008 3:26 pm
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