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Posted: Sat May 09, 2009 7:10 am
if any of you dates, please say your opinion about Islam and dating, why are you dating if you think it's wrong, what is your relationship level and which level you think that we Muslims should stick with?
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 5:31 am
Well i think those two things don't go together at all. Islam forbidden dating and it shouldn't be done. But to be honest, I used to date and we held hands, warped our arms around each other and kissed. I didn't see anything wrong with it, but then again I have a low moral & ethics standard. Muslims should in general stick to only holding hands and nothing more. But hey, there are still some Muslims who go the whole way.
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Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 10:42 am
The male must not look at the females eyes. And they must not touch he ohter. Soo no razz
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Posted: Wed May 13, 2009 6:51 pm
Why not? Does God want to restrict you and hold you from love?
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2009 5:13 am
divineseraph Why not? Does God want to restrict you and hold you from love? Marry them if you have true love.
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Posted: Thu May 14, 2009 7:07 am
tassan divineseraph Why not? Does God want to restrict you and hold you from love? Marry them if you have true love. But never look them in the eye? What the ********?
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Posted: Fri May 15, 2009 4:09 am
divineseraph tassan divineseraph Why not? Does God want to restrict you and hold you from love? Marry them if you have true love. But never look them in the eye? What the ******** class="clear"> yes its the ******** when you look at their eyes, you think those poets are stupid who call eyes intoxicating? EDIT: zaaki can you move this thread to Muslim Discussions please.
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Posted: Fri May 15, 2009 4:46 am
Don't tell me what to do again okay?
If u got suggestions then please pos tthem at the suggestion topic. smile (sorry for offending)
U must not look at the eyes, until married. It's like hugging and that stuff.
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Posted: Fri May 15, 2009 7:30 am
tassan divineseraph tassan divineseraph Why not? Does God want to restrict you and hold you from love? Marry them if you have true love. But never look them in the eye? What the ******** class="clear"> yes its the ******** when you look at their eyes, you think those poets are stupid who call eyes intoxicating? EDIT: zaaki can you move this thread to Muslim Discussions please. So looking at someone's eyes is like having sex with them? Seriously? The eyes are a window to the soul, and since the soul is metaphysical, it cannot ********. As such, looking at the eyes is more chaste and more in tune with God than any other action as it is looking to the soul rather than limiting our lives to the sex act.
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Posted: Fri May 15, 2009 8:42 am
divineseraph tassan divineseraph tassan divineseraph Why not? Does God want to restrict you and hold you from love? Marry them if you have true love. But never look them in the eye? What the ********] yes its the ******** when you look at their eyes, you think those poets are stupid who call eyes intoxicating? EDIT: zaaki can you move this thread to Muslim Discussions please. So looking at someone's eyes is like having sex with them? Seriously? The eyes are a window to the soul, and since the soul is metaphysical, it cannot ********. As such, looking at the eyes is more chaste and more in tune with God than any other action as it is looking to the soul rather than limiting our lives to the sex act. Well no eyes don't do sex, but there are chances of falling for doing sex.
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Posted: Fri May 15, 2009 10:40 am
tassan divineseraph tassan divineseraph tassan divineseraph Why not? Does God want to restrict you and hold you from love? Marry them if you have true love. But never look them in the eye? What the ********] yes its the ******** when you look at their eyes, you think those poets are stupid who call eyes intoxicating? EDIT: zaaki can you move this thread to Muslim Discussions please. So looking at someone's eyes is like having sex with them? Seriously? The eyes are a window to the soul, and since the soul is metaphysical, it cannot ********. As such, looking at the eyes is more chaste and more in tune with God than any other action as it is looking to the soul rather than limiting our lives to the sex act. Well no eyes don't do sex, but there are chances of falling for doing sex. But this is not a requirement, yes? Not all who see eyes are instantly thrown into a raging lust or orgasm, and they should not be. And what does covering eyes accomplish? Their eyes still exist, and so do their curved bodies, voluptuous thighs and round breasts.
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Posted: Fri May 15, 2009 11:11 pm
Well first of all see yourself a muslim lady, that are the cloths a muslim woman is supposed to wear, their private parts EXIST but they are not VISIBLE to unknown man and who so ever, they should be only displayed infront of a spouse, and its not like you have to put a thin cloth on your face so your eyes are hidden, yes some people do that because they think its even better, but lowering your gaze is more important so you or other don't watch you.
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Posted: Sat May 16, 2009 6:27 am
But I know they are there. Admittedly, on that example I don't want to know as she is a bit older than my liking.
And even then, what is wrong with wearing clothes that use the body as a form in a composition rather than hiding it behind a shapeless mass? Why don't men need to wear cloaks like that to cover their dirty, dirty hands and faces?
And then still, it seems to be more a problem with the people if they would get thrown into a sex frenzy over a simple look in the eye. That sounds like THEIR problem with lust, not the woman's.
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Posted: Sat May 16, 2009 7:52 am
Im moving the topic to islamic discussions. In 1 day, hopefully. smile Just telling
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Posted: Sun May 17, 2009 12:48 am
divineseraph But I know they are there. Admittedly, on that example I don't want to know as she is a bit older than my liking. Age does not matter when it comes to cloths, well not in Islam. divineseraph And even then, what is wrong with wearing clothes that use the body as a form in a composition rather than hiding it behind a shapeless mass? as i said a female should not show her body to unknown men/women even if it is cover with the cloth as body shape, men are so lustful that they fall for it as well XD (you can't disagree with that) well except if they are asexual or gay XD divineseraph Why don't men need to wear cloaks like that to cover their dirty, dirty hands and faces? Now that is a bit sensible question, Man should wear this clothing, this is what is recommended for a man like those cloaks are recommended for woman, this covers their dirty hands, and now when it comes about veil, the thing is that man are common out of their homes and do not face females most therefore its not necessary but its obligatory for a man to lower his gaze and same is for woman when they face each other. divineseraph And then still, it seems to be more a problem with the people if they would get thrown into a sex frenzy over a simple look in the eye. That sounds like THEIR problem with lust, not the woman's. Ahh its BOTH's problem not only the one who sees, if the woman covers it the man would not fall for it at the first place.
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