so recently one of our members left the guild because someone found out that they had donated something to them. and so i want to make this perfectly clear as so not to loose anyone else but still continue to gain members.

"if you should find out that someone help you in some way, PLEASE SAY THANK YOU. Should you feel like you need to pay the person back (unless it is due to borrowing and even then) tell them to 'pay it forward'. tell them that the best way to pay you back is to simply pass it on to someone else."

this is the concept of random acts of kindness. not to ask for 'reimbursement' of any kind or to try to give it BACK. if you have an issue with this please feel free to come to me and explain why, BUT DO NOT DEAL WITH IT ON YOUR OWN.

i realize this may seem rude but the fact remain we lost someone because someone else could not simply show their gratitude by help someone else instead. help you will find that all good thing come back around three-fold. and it benefit everyone.