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Posted: Sun Aug 23, 2009 11:13 am
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Posted: Sun Aug 23, 2009 11:51 am
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Violet Song jat Shariff Crew
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Posted: Sun Aug 23, 2009 10:32 pm
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Posted: Mon Aug 24, 2009 5:57 am
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Posted: Wed Aug 26, 2009 4:06 pm
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Posted: Fri Sep 11, 2009 10:17 pm
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Katsumi Aki Nattfodd Close a heart? What, to like, keep yourself from falling for someone? I most certainly hope not.It would seem that someone willing to do that has a childish misconception of love. Violet Song jat Shariff If you're casting 'em, you should be able to write your own neutral I agree. It makes it more personal too. I don't think you could ever prevent yourself from loving anyone. I have a very dear friend I wish I could have prevented from loving each of her last three boyfriends, but love is something that simply may not be tamed.
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 7:36 am
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 5:34 pm
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Violet Song jat Shariff Crew
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 5:56 pm
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 7:22 am
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Violet Song jat Shariff koolaid117 i cant write a spell probably cause somewhere i dont want to Then don't use a spell neutral Have you tried other mundane means? I'm not trying to say that heartbreak is an easy thing to deal with or that it's not as bad as you say it is; never. However, I do think there is some vital, important strength to be gained by dealing with it rather than running off to cast a spell to make it stop hurting ASAP. yea i hear what ur saying but this isnt the first time my hearts been broken and something about this time it just hurts so much more than the other FOUR TIMES i dont know why but its like losing ur entire family and u feel so alone like ther isnt anything u can do anymore
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Violet Song jat Shariff Crew
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 9:28 am
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koolaid117 Violet Song jat Shariff koolaid117 i cant write a spell probably cause somewhere i dont want to Then don't use a spell neutral Have you tried other mundane means? I'm not trying to say that heartbreak is an easy thing to deal with or that it's not as bad as you say it is; never. However, I do think there is some vital, important strength to be gained by dealing with it rather than running off to cast a spell to make it stop hurting ASAP. yea i hear what ur saying but this isnt the first time my hearts been broken and something about this time it just hurts so much more than the other FOUR TIMES i dont know why but its like losing ur entire family and u feel so alone like ther isnt anything u can do anymore You don't need to try to describe heartbreak to me, thank you. I've gone through it more times than you have AND without the benefit of running off to magic to help me fix it.
Tough it out. Seriously. You'll be a stronger person in the long run.
*Edited for....whatever reason.
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 9:34 am
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Violet Song jat Shariff Crew
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:03 pm
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Autumn Nightclaw That's being a little harsh, Violet. He should be able to talk to anyone in this guild about his heart ache without getting a snappy retort. However, koolaid, she's right. You need time to heal and maybe you shouldn't date for a while in order to help you heal better. ~Shrugs~ Besides, magic can't fix that type of pain. Trust me... I'm very very sorry that you see it as snappy and feel like I'm being unkind. I don't even know what you could have pulled out of my original post that was "snappy." I feel very badly that he is going through so much emotional pain. However, coddling and hand-holding are not what I do here; he asked for magical advice and was told what was felt to be the best advice for his situation. And really, I do not take it lightly when people ask for advice and then throw it back because it's "too hard" or not what they wanted to hear.
And more, I more than likely have a few years on him in age; I know what the heartache feels like I know how much it sucks to have to tough it out and bear the pain. I know it sucks. I also know that the coddling and warm fuzzies from everyone else don't last forever. I know that sooner or later you have to pull yourself up and move on. If you wait for someone else to pull you up, you will be down for a very long time, if not forever. It has been my experiences that if one does not deal with the pain in time, they will just be tripped up into making the same exact mistakes in the future.
*Edited to reflect other edit.
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Posted: Sun Oct 04, 2009 9:52 am
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Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 7:12 am
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Violet Song jat Shariff Autumn Nightclaw That's being a little harsh, Violet. He should be able to talk to anyone in this guild about his heart ache without getting a snappy retort. However, koolaid, she's right. You need time to heal and maybe you shouldn't date for a while in order to help you heal better. ~Shrugs~ Besides, magic can't fix that type of pain. Trust me... I'm very very sorry that you see it as snappy and feel like I'm being unkind. I don't even know what you could have pulled out of my original post that was "snappy." I feel very badly that he is going through so much emotional pain. However, coddling and hand-holding are not what I do here; he asked for magical advice and was told what was felt to be the best advice for his situation. And really, I do not take it lightly when people ask for advice and then throw it back because it's "too hard" or not what they wanted to hear. And more, I more than likely have a few years on him in age; I know what the heartache feels like I know how much it sucks to have to tough it out and bear the pain. I know it sucks. I also know that the coddling and warm fuzzies from everyone else don't last forever. I know that sooner or later you have to pull yourself up and move on. If you wait for someone else to pull you up, you will be down for a very long time, if not forever. It has been my experiences that if one does not deal with the pain in time, they will just be tripped up into making the same exact mistakes in the future. *Edited to reflect other edit.
thanx for appoligizing but i didnt take it the wrong way i heard what u said i just didnt have the time to post, anyways thanx for ur support anyway it just feels like the pure embodyment of pain, as for older than me im 19 i dont know how old u are but if u were wondering im 19, and this is the 5th broken heart ive received and it was by far the most painful, and again if u were wondering yea 5 times. i did find a way to better deal with the pain though i managed to put myself in almost a hynotic state, its like when ur in love everything is beautiful or when ur in grief or heart break everything is ugly and depressing well i forced myself to move to the other plain of thinkin, the pain is still there it just dosnt run my life right now, thanx for ur supporti really appratiate it
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